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Intshukumo yokukhuthaza umzimba ikhuthaze utshintsho ngeendlela ezininzi kule minyaka imbalwa idlulileyo. Iinkqubo zeTV kunye neemovie zilahla abantu kuluhlu olubanzi lweentlobo zomzimba. Iimpawu ezifana ne-Aerie kunye ne-Olay zigxotha i-Photoshop kwiintengiso zabo, zivumela yonke into esuka kwi-cellulite ukuya kwimibimbi emihle ukuba ibonakale kwiimveliso zabo ezigqityiweyo.

Ngoku, i-blogger esekwe e-Atlanta u-Ady Meschke kunye no-Katie Crenshaw bazisa intshukumo yomzimba kubantu abanomdla kakhulu phaya: abantwana. I-duo isandula ukupapashwa Umzimba wakhe Unako (Yithenge, $ 16, amazon.com), incwadi yabo yokuqala kuthotho olukhulu oluzayo loncwadi lwabantwana olubandakanyayo.

Incwadi yamabali enomzimba ilungiselelwe abantwana abaneminyaka eyi-8 nangaphantsi, ngokutsho Ubuhle—Kodwa le ncwadi inezinto ezifundiswayo ngabantu konke ubudala bunokuxhamla ekufundeni.

Iincwadi ezininzi zabantwana zithetha ngamabali abantwana aboyisayo ubunzima bokuxhatshazwa, ngakumbi ukuxhaphaza okunxulumene nomzimba kunye nokubonakala komzimba. Kwaye Umzimba wakhe Unako ayisiyiyo incwadi yokuqala yabantwana abanomzimba ukuba babethe ezishelufini. Kodwa uMeschke noCrenshaw bafuna ukubhala incwadi malunga nomntwana okhululekileyo kulusu lwakhe, ophila ngokungazisoli, kwaye ejikelezwe ngabahlobo bazo zonke iimilo, imibala, ubungakanani, iintlobo zeenwele, iinkolo kunye nobuchule- enye into ezingafunyanwa ziincwadi zabantwana ' R rhoqo ukubonisa, ababhali baxelele Ubuhle. (Izinto eziNxulumeneyo: IiPros ezi-8 zoQoqosho ezenza iHlabathi lokuSebenza libandakanyeke ngakumbi-kwaye kutheni le nto ibaluleke ngokwenene)

"Imifanekiso ekule ncwadi ithi ngokuvakalayo nangokucacileyo," Wonke umntu uyalingana, "utshilo uMeschke, odale intshukumo ye- #herbodycan kwi-Instagram ukuqaqambisa ukuba yeyiphi na imizimba enokuyenza xa ithelekiswa nendlela ebonakala ngayo, utshilo kudliwanondlebe naye Ubukhazikhazi. Kwaye yile nto intshukumo yomzimba-ulunge ngayo: ukudala ulwazi ngokwenkcubeko yantlukwano eyayingabikho ngaphambili.

Ukuphuhlisa incwadi yabantwana emele abantu abavela kwimvelaphi eyahlukeneyo kwakubaluleke kakhulu kuMeschke naseCrenshaw, bobabini abangoomama abangalinganiyo.

"Kwakubaluleke kakhulu kuthi ukuba siqwalasele izithintelo ezithile ezazibekelwe thina ukukhula kwethu ngenxa yobungakanani bethu, kwaye sizilahlile," utshilo uMeschke. Ubuhle. "Ubomi bam bonke ndivile, 'Musa ukunxiba iisuti ezimbini zokuhlamba, unganxibi mhlophe, unganxibi umbala, unganxibi iziqwenga zezityalo,' ke senza into yokuba iqhawe lethu linxibe yonke into into enye esaxelelwa ukuba asinakuyinxiba ngenxa yobukhulu bethu.

Ngaba ucinga ukuba wena okanye umntwana wakho unokuzuza kulencwadi yamabali eyaphula umda? Okwangoku iyafumaneka kwiAmazon kwaye kungekudala iza kuthengiswa kubathengisi abakhulu kwilizwe liphela.

"Ndiyakholelwa ngokwenene ukuba ukuba bendinencwadi njengomntwana efundisa olu hlobo lomyalezo, mhlawumbi ngekhe indithathe ndide ndibeneminyaka engama-34 ukuba ndizithembe. Incwadi ngokuqinisekileyo ifundisa abantwana hayi ukwamkela kwaye bazithande kodwa bamkele kwaye bathande nabanye ngokwahluka kwabo, utshilo uMeschke Ubuhle. (Idibeneyo: Ngaba Uyawuthanda Umzimba Wakho Kwaye Usafuna Ukutshintsha?)

Kwaye, ukuba unonyana okanye umhlobo oyindoda onokusebenzisa amandla omzimba omncinci ebomini bakhe, jonga Umzimba Wakhe Unako. Incwadi, ekulindeleke ukuba ikhutshwe kamva kulo nyaka, iya kugqamisa imizimba yamakhwenkwe kunye nendima yesini, utshilo uMeschke noCrenshaw. Ubuhle. Kodwa ayisiyiyo yonke loo nto: I-duo ithe ikwaceba ukubonisa abanye abalinganiswa abavela kuyo Umzimba wakhe Unako ezincwadini zabo ukuze abantwana kuyo yonke indawo babe nakho ukukhomba eqweqweni bazibone.

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