Indlela i-Hijab endinceda ngayo ukuba ndoyise iMigangatho yobuhle yobuhlanga

Umxholo

• Ngokomzwelo, ndihlala ndikhululekile nge-hijab.
• Ngokwengqondo, ndiziva ndinoxolo kunye nomxholo ngokujonga i-hijab.
• Ngokwasemzimbeni, ndizolile ngokujonga i-hijab.
• Njengoko ubona, ngelixa i-hijab ihlala ichazwa gwenxa eluntwini, iziphumo ze-hijab zahlukile kuye wonke umntu.

Sibona njani iimilo zehlabathi esikhetha ukuba zizo - {textend} kunye nokwabelana ngamava anyanzelisayo anokuyila indlela esiphathana ngayo, ukuba ngcono. Lo ngumbono onamandla.

Ngelixa imigangatho yobuhle ibiguqukela ukutyhubela iminyaka, uluntu ngalunye luphuhlise inkcazo yalo malunga nokuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuba mhle. Ke, yintoni ubuhle? UMerriam Webster uchaza ubuhle njengobunjani “bomgangatho okanye ukudityaniswa kweempawu emntwini okanye kwinto enika ulonwabo kwiimvakalelo okanye ezenza kamnandi iingqondo okanye umoya.”

Inkcubeko eMelika, kunye nemithombo yeendaba yaseNtshona ngokukodwa, ihlala ichaza ubuhle ngendlela yolonwabo onokuthi ubonelele ngayo ngomnye umntu. Ukusuka kugxino olunzima kulusu lwethu "lwempilo" ukuya kumbala wobuso bethu, imigangatho isekwe "ekuphuculeni" ukubonakala komzimba.

Oku kuye kwaqhuba ukonyuka kwentengiso kwishishini lezithambiso, ngakumbi ekukhanyeni kolusu, kwaye kukhokelele kwizigidi zabasetyhini abaziva bengakhuselekanga.

Nangona kunjalo, njengowasetyhini ongumMuslim waseMelika, ndiyakwazi ukujonga imigangatho yobuhle yaseNtshona kwabo ndibona inentsingiselo ngakumbi ngokujonga i-hijab kunye nobuhle njengoko kuchaziwe yi-Islam.

Ndifumene inkululeko engakumbi kumathuba angapheliyo ngokuchaza ubuhle njengobuhle bomphefumlo, obuvumela ubabalo lwangaphakathi nolwangaphandle. Kum, ndihamba ngokwesiProfetho esithi ukuba intliziyo iphilile kwaye ilungile, umzimba uphelele - {textend} oko, kum kuhle.

UKhush Rehman, obeke wajonga i-hijab iminyaka eli-11, undixelela, "Ubuhle kunye ne-hijab zihlala zivakala endaweni yokuba zichazwe. Kum, ubuhle be-hijab abunakuchazwa. Kufuneka ive. Kuthetha ukuqondwa ngumntu okhetha ubuhle ukuze abonwe, kwaye kufuna uthando oluninzi, ukholo kunye nokunyaniseka. ”

Ngelixa abo bajonga i-hijab bahlala bejongwa njengabangaphandle (njengoko kubonisiwe kuhlaselo lwamva nje lwamanani abalulekileyo afana noMmeli u-Ilhan Omar), abafazi base-Muslim baseMelika kunye ne-hijab eneneni iba yinto eqhelekileyo kunakuqala.

Inkcazo yam yobuhle, ngeendlela ezininzi, malunga nokuba neemvakalelo, ezengqondo kunye nokuba sikhululekile emzimbeni.

Ngokomzwelo, ndihlala ndikhululekile nge-hijab.

Ngokuzibeka kwinto endandicaciselwa yona ngamaSilamsi, ndiyakwazi ukufaka inkcazo yobuhle bomphefumlo phambili. Ndiziva ndonwabile ukuba ndigqunyiwe kwaye ndinokuthintela iintetho ezingezizo ezinokuthanani nomzimba wam nenkangeleko yam. Andinayo i-angst enokuthi inxulunyaniswe nendlela endibonwa ngayo. Endaweni yokuba ndinelisekile kwaye ndonelisekile yi-hijab.

Ngokwengqondo, ndiziva ndinoxolo kunye nomxholo ngokujonga i-hijab.

Andifanelanga ukuba noxinzelelo malunga nendlela endibonwa ngayo. Endaweni yokuba ndizive ndikhuthazwa yi-hijab. I-hijab isebenza njengesikhumbuzo kum ngeendlela ezininzi ukuba izakhono zam zibambe ubunzima ngakumbi kunokuba ndizibonakalisile kwinto enokuthi ithathwe njengemeko ekhoyo ngokwemigangatho yaseNtshona.

Ujoliso lwam lusezandleni zam ezingaphathekiyo endaweni yoko: izakhono ezithambileyo kunye neziqinisekiso ezahlukileyo kwindlela endijongeka ngayo.

Kwinkqubo, kukho into yokuzivocavoca kwengqondo eyenzekayo xa ndingena ngaphakathi kwindawo kawonke-wonke kwaye ndiqaphele ukuba ndingangomnye wabafazi abanemibala abagcina i-hijab. Kodwa endaweni yokubona oku njengexhoba leemeko, ndiyammema kwaye ndiyijonge njengelitye lokunyathela lokuqhekeza iintsomi.

Ngokwasemzimbeni, ndizolile ngokujonga i-hijab.

I-hijab inefuthe elimnandi kum xa ndiphuma ngaphandle. Ngelixa ndinokuthi ndiphantsi kogwebo lwenzondo malunga nendlela endijongeka ngayo, oku akukukhathazi njengakuqala.

Kuyachulumancisa ukukwazi ukulawula ukuba ngawaphi amalungu omzimba wam endifuna ukuwaveza kwihlabathi liphela - {textend} oku kubandakanya kuphela izandla nobuso, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha iinyawo.

Ukwazi ukuba umzimba wam awunakucaciswa ngokulula phantsi kwe-hijab kuyandomeleza. Ndikhetha ukubona oku njengokukhuthaza abantu ukuba bathethe nam njengomntu endaweni yeembonakalo zam.

Kukho into eqinisekisayo malunga nam: ukungabi liswiti kwabanye endikhetha ukungabutyhili ubuhle bam. Oku akuthethi ukuba ndiyilibale inkangeleko yam yangaphandle. Ndisaxhalabele indlela endibonakala ngayo - {textend} kodwa ukubaluleka akufuneki ukuba nditshintshe inkangeleko yam ukuze ilingane nenkcubeko yesiqhelo.

Endaweni yoko kubandakanya iimpahla ezifanayo. Xa ndikhetha ilokhwe ethile okanye isiketi sosuku, ndifuna ukuqinisekisa ukuba sicocekile kwaye si-ayiniwe kungekho mibimbi. Ndiyakhathalela ukukhetha izinto eziza kuhlala kakuhle entlokweni yam ngaphandle kokulungiswa okugqithileyo. Izikhonkwane kufuneka zilungelelanise kwaye kufuneka zibekwe kwiindawo ezifanelekileyo.

Ukwahluka kunye nokukhetha imibala kubalulekile nakum. Kufuneka kubekho umahluko ofanelekileyo ukuze kuqinisekiswe ukuba iimpahla zinxibe ngokungenamthungo.

Kwakukho ixesha apho ndandidla ngokuzithemba malunga nendlela endinokubonakala ngayo emehlweni abanye. Ndaziva ngathi ndinoxanduva lokumela abanye abantu basetyhini nabo bajonga i-hijab. Kodwa ngoku ndiyikhulule loo nxalenye yam. Andinxibi mpahla inzima esidlangalaleni, kuba ayiyonxalenye ye-hijab.

Amandla kunye nexesha elichithwe ekuzihombiseni ngokwam lisezantsi kakhulu ngoku ekubeni ndingacacanga ngokubonakala kwam.

Njengoko ubona, ngelixa i-hijab ihlala ichazwa gwenxa eluntwini, iziphumo ze-hijab zahlukile kuye wonke umntu.

Kwaye ngokukodwa kum, i-hijab ngumdlalo otshintsha umdlalo kunye nendlela yokuphila. Iyandiphakamisa ngeendlela ebendingenakucinga ngazo kwaye ndinombulelo kuba iyandinceda ukuphepha imigangatho yobuhle ekuhlaleni exhomekeke kwindlela abantu abazibona nabaziphatha ngayo. Ngokusinda kuloo migaqo, ndiziva ndisempilweni kwaye ndonwabile ukuba ndingubani.

UTasmiha Khan une-MA kwiMpembelelo yezeNtlalontle evela kwiYunivesithi yaseClaremont Lincoln kwaye nguMbutho waseMelika wase-2018-2019 wase-University of Career Development Award. Landela uKhan @CraftOurStoryukufunda ngakumbi.