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• Yazi-kwaye Landela-iMithetho
• Ziphe Ixesha Lokuba Wedwa
• Yiba notshintsho lwezipho zabucala
• Zama iToy
• Yehla ebhedini
• Yenza uSleuthing
• Intwasahlobo yokuMangala okungathandekiyo
• Uphengululo lwe

Kungenxa yokuba nina nobabini nihamba niye kwenye yezindlu zabantu bakho ngaphezulu kweholide oko akuthethi ukuba ubomi bakho bezesondo kufuneka bathathe iholide. Ithetha ukuthini: Ufuna isicwangciso somdlalo, utshilo u-Amie Harwick, umtshato osekwe eLos Angeles kunye nosapho kunye nombhali Incwadi eNtsha yoSini yaBasetyhini. Ukwazi ukuba zeziphi izinto ezilindelweyo, nokuba uza kuvunyelwa ukuba ulale kwigumbi elinye, kuzokunceda nina nobabini nize necebo kwaye niphephe ukungaqondani, uyacacisa uHarwick. Nantsi into ekufuneka uyazi ukuze uqiniseke ukuba-kwaye izihlobo zakho-vuka wonwabile ngentsasa elandelayo.

Yazi-kwaye Landela-iMithetho

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Ukuba kukho umgaqo-nkqubo ongqongqo wegumbi lokulala elahlukileyo, kungangcono ukubambelela koko kutyelelo lokuqala, ucebisa uHarwick. "Ufuna ukuba abazali bakhe bakuthande kwaye bakuhloniphe, kwaye ukuba bafumene into yokuba uyanyonyoba ujikeleza indlu yabo, nokuba iyinto ecebiswe ngumfo wakho, inokuyisingela phantsi loo ntembeko." Ukuba amagumbi okulala ahlukeneyo kungekudala, cinga ngeziphumo zexesha elide. Yintoni embi kakhulu: ubusuku obuthathu engenzanga nto okanye ukuba abazali bakhe banokuthiyile ngenxa yobudlelwane bakho bonke? Kodwa ungalahli ithemba ngokupheleleyo-esi sisizathu sokulala kwakho naphina kodwa igumbi lokulala! (Ukudinwa kwenkqubo efanayo? Jonga iindlela ezi-5 zokuCoca ubuNdlobongela boBucala boBufundisi!)

Ziphe Ixesha Lokuba Wedwa

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Ukuphuma uhambo kunye emva kwesidlo sangokuhlwa okanye ivolontiya ukwenza umsebenzi ngexesha lasemini kukunika ixesha lokuziva ngathi sisibini, endaweni yabantwana ababini abandwendwela abazali, utshilo uLaurel House, umqeqeshi wokuthandana kunye nombhali Ukujijisa iMigaqo: Isikhokelo seMidlalo esiNgekho kuThando. (Owu, kwaye ukuba usendlini yakhe, qaphela indlela aphatha ngayo intsapho yakhe. Yenye yeempawu ezi-6 ezingacacanga ukuba ungumgcini.)

Yiba notshintsho lwezipho zabucala

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Amathuba kukuba, ukuba ulele endlwini yezihlobo yiza ngeholide zikaDisemba, uza kube utshintshana ngezipho phambi kosapho. Kodwa i-House icebisa ukuba uzame isiko esitsha apho nobabini nitshintshiselana ngezipho ezivuselelayo ngasese, emva kweeyure. "Izinto ezincinci ezinje ziyanikhumbuza ukuba nobabini nibadala," ucacisa u-House. Kwaye isipho seoyile yokuthambisa eshushu phantse ihlala ikhokelela ekuthambiseni ngesini kunye nangaphezulu.

Zama iToy

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Beka oku kuludwe lwakho lwesipho esikhohlakeleyo: I-bullet vibrator enolawulo olukude oluqhutywa liqabane lakho. Yindlela enomtsalane, echwechwayo yokungena kwimood-uze wehle. Zama ukwahlukana nomsebenzi wosapho kwaye unxibe enye yezi njengoko usiya kwimovie kunye. Ukuya ngokwenene phantsi kwe-radar, thenga into yokudlala ngesondo enokuthi idlule ngokulula njengento oyibeka kwibala lakho lasebusuku. Qala ngezi ziVibrator zi-5 ezifihlwe njengezinto zemihla ngemihla.

Yehla ebhedini

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Izandi zicacile, kodwa iibhodi eziphambili + iibhedi = ukuvusa indlu yonke, nokuba nithule kangakanani nobabini. Endaweni yoko, misela inkampu yakho kumgangatho okanye ulinge ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo zokuma. Awufuni ukushiya ibhedi? Zama oku: Njengoko ekucofa, mnike ukuba angene ngasemva kwaye kancinci kancinci ajikeleze ngapha nangapha ngesantya esicothayo, esimnandi esiza kuthi sigcine ibhodi yebhodi ethe cwaka. (Okanye, yikhuphe ngaphandle kunye neSikhokelo Sakho saseBusika kwiSex yangaphandle.)

Yenza uSleuthing

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Ukwabelana ngesondo emva kokuba nobabini niyilele kucacile. Ukuqinisekisa ukuba awuvusi yonke indlu-kwaye uzibeke emngciphekweni wokudutyulwa ngumama kukujonga okungcolileyo kwisidlo sakusasa ngaphandle kweshedyuli yosapho. Mhlawumbi indlu icacile kusasa xa abazali bakhe besiya emsebenzini. Mhlawumbi abazali bakho bahamba nenja kangangeyure rhoqo emva kwemini. Nokuba yeyiphi na ipateni, thatha loo maxesha okanye ubumfihlo kwaye, ahem, tsibela kuwo, utshilo uHarwick.

Intwasahlobo yokuMangala okungathandekiyo

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Nokuba uchitha ixesha phantsi kweseti enye yamaqweqwe, usenokuziva uthintelekile. Ukuze ube nesondo esilungele umbhiyozo, bhukisha igumbi lehotele edolophini (zama i-Hotel Tonight ngezaphulelo zomzuzu wokugqibela) kwaye uxelele abantu ukuba wena kunye naye siya kwisidlo sangokuhlwa kunye. Emva koko, jonga, cwangcisa inkonzo yegumbi, kwaye uxakeke. Ungasoloko uhamba kwaye uchithe ubusuku ubuye kwi-casa yabazali ukuba bayakrokra-kwaye balale ubusuku bonke ngaphandle kokuphoxeka. (Jonga iilayini ezi-5 zeLingerie eziNtsha esizithandayo ukumenza abe zasendle)

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