Ufanele ukuwuhlamba kangaphi umntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa?

Umxholo

• Iibhafu zokuqala
• 1 ukuya kwiinyanga ezi-3
• Iinyanga ezi-3 ukuya kwezi-6
• Iinyanga ezi-6 ukuya kwezi-12
• Kutheni kungenjalo yonke imihla?
• Iingcebiso zokuhlamba
• Yise kude

Zimbalwa izinto ezinokubothusa-luvo kunokuhlamba usana olusandul 'ukuzalwa. Akunakuphela nje ukuba bazive bebuthathaka ngokungenakwenzeka, unokukhathazeka malunga nokuba bafudumele okanye banethezekile ngokwaneleyo kwaye ukuba wenza umsebenzi ogqibeleleyo.

Nokuba uhlamba umntwana wakho wokuqala okokuqala okanye ukwinombolo yesithathu yomntwana, usenokuba nemibuzo yokuhlamba umntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa, eyona nto icinezelayo yile, "Kufuneka ndimhlambe kangaphi umntwana wam?"

Iibhafu zokuqala

Ngelixa ukuziqhelanisa nexesha elide kuye kwaba kukuhlamba umntwana kanye emva kokubeleka, uphando olutsha lubonisa ukuba ukulibazisa ibhafu yokuqala kunokuba luncedo.

Uphononongo lwango-2019 olubandakanya phantse abantwana abayi-1 000 bafumanisa ukuba ukulinda ubuncinci iiyure ezili-12 emva kokuzalwa kunokukhuthaza ukuncancisa. Ukongeza, ezinye kubandakanya iintsana ezingama-73 zacebisa ukuba ukuhlamba emva kweeyure ezingama-48 kunceda ukugcina iintsana kubushushu obuzinzileyo kwaye kunceda ukukhula kolusu.

Kuyo nayiphi na imeko, kunokwenzeka ukuba abongikazi baya kunika umntwana ibhafu yabo yokuqala, kodwa ungasoloko ujonge abakwenzayo kwaye ucele iingcebiso zokuhlamba ekhaya.

Nje ukuba ufike ekhaya, uyakufuna ukuhlamba usana lwakho olusandul 'ukuzalwa amaxesha amabini ngeveki de isiphunzi sabo se-umbilical siwe. Kuze kwenzeke oku, musa ukuntywila umzimba wabo emanzini. Endaweni yoko, sebenzisa ilaphu lokuhlamba elifudumeleyo kwaye ubanike indawo yokuthambisa yesiponji eqala ngentloko nobuso kwaye usebenze ngendlela esezantsi.

Ukuba usana luyaphalaza okanye luqhuqhe ubisi njengoko lusondla, ungalusula kancinci rhoqo, unakekele ngakumbi indawo yabo yobuso nentamo. Ukuba ukungcola kuza kuvela kwelinye icala, kuya kufuneka unike ibhafu ukucoca ii-diaper blowout ngokunjalo. Kodwa ngaphandle kokuba kukho ubumdaka, abayidingi ibhafu yemihla ngemihla kule minyaka.

1 ukuya kwiinyanga ezi-3

Ngexesha leenyanga zokuqala zobomi bosana lwakho, uya kufuna ukuqhubeka uwahlamba kube kabini ukuya evekini ngeveki. Nje ukuba bangabinaso isiphunzi sabo se-umbilical, ungaqala ukubanika ngakumbi amabhafu emveli.

Ukwenza oku, gcwalisa ibhafu yomntwana ecaleni ngamanzi afudumeleyo kwaye mabahlale kwaye batshize njengokuba ubahlamba ngamanzi kunye nesepha yokuthambisa yosana. Ungasebenzisa amalaphu okuhlamba amanzi ukuwagquma kwaye uwagcine eshushu ngexesha lokuhlamba. Kwakhona, ungaqala ngobuso kunye nentloko kwaye usebenze ngendlela yakho ezantsi.

Enye indlela yokuhlamba umntwana kule minyaka kukumngenisa ebhafini okanye kwi-shower nawe. Ukuba ukhetha ukuhlamba okanye ukuhlamba nomntwana wakho omncinci, kunokukunceda ukuba neseti yezandla zokudlulisa usana lwakho xa sele ukulungele ukuphuma ebhafini. Banokutyibilika kakhulu, ke kubalulekile ukuba ulumke ngakumbi.

Kukwabalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba abantu abadala bakhetha amanzi ashushu kakhulu kunokuba kunjalo kwiintsana. Injongo yokugcina iqondo lokushisa lifudumele, kwaye umntwana wakho uya kuvuya ngenxa yexesha lokuhlamba.

Iinyanga ezi-3 ukuya kwezi-6

Njengoko umntwana wakho ekhula, unokufuna ukutshintsha indlela yabo yokuhlamba kancinci. Kule minyaka yobudala abantwana basadinga ukuhlamba kube kanye ukuya kabini ngeveki, kodwa ukuba kubonakala ngathi bayawavuyela amanzi okanye bathanda ukutshiza njengoko becoceka, unokucinga ukuba ubahlamba rhoqo.

Abazali abaninzi basebenzisa ithuba lokutshintsha ilweyile kunye nokunxiba ukuze banike usana lwabo ulosule ngokukhawuleza kwaye baqiniseke ukuba onke amalungu abo acocekile.Ukuba ukhetha ukuhlamba umntwana wakho ngaphezulu kokuphindwe kabini ngeveki, cinga ukusebenzisa isepha enye okanye ezimbini zeebhafu zabo ukunqanda ukomisa ulusu lwabo. Emva kwexesha lokuhlamba, ungaluthambisa usana ngethambile, ivumba elimnandi kunye nedayi.

Iinyanga ezi-6 ukuya kwezi-12

Xa usana luhamba kwaye luqala ukutya ukutya okuqinileyo, unokuthatha isigqibo sokuba kufuneka uqale ukuyihlamba rhoqo. Ngelixa besadinga kuphela ibhafu yokuhlambela isepha enye okanye ezimbini ngeveki, usenokubanika isiponji okanye ubafake ebhafini ukuze bacwilise kwaye uhlambe rhoqo njengoko kuvela iingxaki.

Unokufumanisa ukuba ixesha lokuhlamba liyindlela emnandi yokuthomalalisa umntwana ngaphambi kokulala. Ukuba oku kuyakusebenzela, kulungile ukuba wenze indawo yokuhlambela ngexesha lakho lokuzola ebusuku kule minyaka.

Kutheni kungenjalo yonke imihla?

Ngelixa kusenokuvakala kungaqhelekanga ukuhlamba umntwana wakho rhoqo, iintsana nje akufuneki zihlambe rhoqo njengabantu abadala. Ababilo okanye bangcolise ngendlela efanayo nabantu abadala, kwaye ulusu lwabo lubuthathaka kakhulu kunolo lwabantu abadala. Ukuhlamba rhoqo kunokwenza ingozi kunokulunga.

Ukuthintela ukomisa ulusu lomntwana kunye neemeko eziya zisiba mbi njenge-eczema, hlamba umntwana wakho omncinci ukuya kwambini ngeveki kwaye uwahlambe ngesepha ethambileyo, enuka kamnandi nedayi. Xa ubakhupha ngaphandle kwebhafu, babambise bomile ngaphambi kokufaka idayi- kunye nevumba elingenamakha lokuthambisa umntwana kwaye ubanxibe ngokukhawuleza.

Ukuba umntwana wakho unesimo esaziwayo solusu, nxibelelana nogqirha wabantwana ukuba enze isicwangciso sokuba zeziphi iimveliso kunye neendlela onokuthi uzilandele ukubanceda bahlale bekhululekile.

Iingcebiso zokuhlamba

Ukuhlamba umntwana yinkqubo ebuthathaka. Ufuna ukuqiniseka ukuba umntwana wakho ucoceka, kodwa kuya kufuneka uqiniseke ukuba uyathamba kwaye olo sana lukhululekile. Jonga ezi ngcebiso zingezantsi ukwenza ukuba inkqubo yokuhlambela ibe lula kwaye isebenze ngakumbi:

• Qala phezulu. Iingcali zicebisa ukuqala nakuphi na ukuhlamba ngokuhlamba ngobunono iinwele kunye nobuso bomntwana wakho. Emva koko, sebenzisa ilaphu lokuhlamba ukuze usebenze phantsi, uthambise kwaye uhlambe usana lwakho njengoko uhamba.
• Gxila kwimiphetho. Uninzi lweentsana lunemiqolo okanye isongelwe emathangeni, entanyeni, nasezihlahleni. Ezi zihlangu ziyathandeka kodwa zinokubambisa iintsholongwane, iiseli zolusu olufileyo, kunye nezinto ezinje ngokutshica kunye nobisi oluqhuqhiweyo. Njengoko uhlamba umntwana wakho omncinci, gxila ekuhlambeni nasekuhlambululeni iindawo ezisongwayo.
• Musa ukulibala izandla neenyawo. Iintsana zihlala zincanca iminwe neenzwane zabo, ke ngoko kubaluleke ngakumbi ukuba la malungu acoceke. Sebenzisa ilaphu lokuhlamba isepha kwaye ngobunono usasaze iminwe neenzwane zakho uqiniseke ukuba izandla neenyawo zabo zicocekile kangangoko.
• Zama isinki. Ukuba unebhafu yokuhlambela yosana, kunokwenzeka ukuba ilingane ngokufanelekileyo kulusu lwakho lwekhitshi. Zama ukunika umqolo wakho ikhefu ngokuhlamba umntwana wakho omncinci esinkini endaweni yebhafu ngelixa besebancinane ngokwaneleyo ukuba bangakwazi ukuhamba. Xa umntwana wakho omncinci enokuqengqeleka okanye afumane iskot, lixesha lokuhambisa ibhafu ebhafini ukunqanda naziphi na iingozi.
• Nika ukuhlamba ngokudibeneyo. Akukho nto imnandi njengokonwabela ibhafu emnandi efudumeleyo kunye nencinci. Nje ukuba usana lwakho lukwazi ukuhlamba ngenene, cinga ukungena kulo kunye nokuzihlamba nokuzicoca ngaphakathi kwebhafu. Ukuba awuziva ukhululekile ukuba uhamba ze nomntwana wakho omncinci, ungasoloko ungena kwisuti yokuqubha yomsitho.
• Lumka nabantakwenu. Ukuba umntwana wakho unomntakwenu omdala, unokufuna ukonga ixesha kunye namandla ngokuwahlamba kunye. Nje ukuba umntwana wakho ahlale ngokukhululekileyo yedwa, kuhlala kulungile. Nangona, ngaphambi kokuba usana lwakho lukwazi ukuhlala lodwa, uya kufuna ukutsiba iibhafu zabantwana bakowenu ukunqanda ukubethwa, ukubethelelwa, okanye ukutshizwa ngumntwana xa belungelelanisa namanzi.
• Cwangcisa iimveliso ezinobumnene. Xa ukhetha isepha, ishampu, kunye neoyile oza kuyisebenzisela usana lwakho, jolisa kwiimveliso ezinedayi- kunye nevumba elingenamakha. Ngelixa iimveliso zebhafu ezinamakha zinokuba mnandi kakhulu kumntwana omncinci, zinokomisa okanye zicaphukise ulusu losana kwaye kufuneka zithintelwe. Nantoni na oyikhethayo, ungaguquguquki kwaye wenze konke okusemandleni akho ukunqanda ukuzama iimveliso ezintsha ukuba ezo unazo zisebenza kakuhle kwaye azicaphukisi ulusu lomntwana wakho.

Khumbula ukuba ungaze ushiye umntwana ebhafini engalondolozwanga, nokuba mfutshane.

Yise kude

Kunyaka wokuqala wobomi bosana lwakho, kufuneka uhlambe kanye okanye kabini ngeveki.

Qala ngokuhlamba isiponji kude kube kuwa isiphunzi sabo se-umbilical kwaye emva koko baqale ngokuhlamba ngobunono kwisinki okanye kwibhafu. Njengoko bekhula, iintsana zinokufuna ukuhlamba rhoqo njengoko zifumana umessier okanye ziqale ukonwaba ebhafini.

Ngethuba nje usebenzisa iimveliso ezintle kwaye ungaboni nayiphi na imiba ngesikhumba somntwana wakho, unokuzonwabisa ngexesha labo lokuhlamba njengoko bekhula!

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