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• Uvavanyo lweChivalry
• Uvavanyo Lobuhlobo
• Uvavanyo lweMali
• Uvavanyo Lwemilinganiselo Yentsapho
• Uvavanyo loThando "lweTitanic"
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Usenokushiya iikawusi zakhe ezimdaka phantsi, kodwa ubuncinci uyakuvulela ucango. Xa kuziwa kubudlelwane, uthatha okuhle nokubi. Kodwa xa uthandana nomfana ocinga ukuba anganguMnumzana ngokuLungileyo, ugqiba njani ukuba ngoyena mntu umiselwe ukuba uchithe ubomi bakho bonke?

Saya kwiingcali ukufumanisa indlela ukuxelela ukuba a guy ngenene nguMnu Right-okanye nje uMnu Right Ngoku. Nazi iimvavanyo ezintlanu ekufuneka uziphumelele umphefumlo wakho.

Uvavanyo lweChivalry

UPatti Stanger

, Usozimali Umlingisi, umbhali, kunye neenkwenkwezi zeBravo TV, bathi i-chivalry ayifanga-ubuncinci hayi xa isiza 'ezilungileyo'.

"Izinto ezinje ngokuvula ucango lwemoto okanye ngokukhawuleza ukukunika isabelo sakho sokutya xa wahlula isitya kwindawo yokutyela-yonke le miqondiso ibalulekileyo ekufuneka uyijongile ukuze wazi ukuba uya kukuphatha kakuhle," utshilo uStanger.

Kwaye kule meko ngokukodwa, izenzo zithetha ngaphezu kwamazwi. “Amagama adla ngokusetyenziswa endaweni yezenzo zothando, kodwa akananto ngaphandle kokulandelwa,” utshilo unontlalontle kunye nengcali yeziyobisi u-Andrew Spanswick.

Uvavanyo Lobuhlobo

Ulwalamano oluhle ludinga zombini ingqondo eyomeleleyo kunye nokunxibelelana komzimba. "Ubufuna ujola nalomntu nokuba ebengakuniki umdla ngokwesondo?" ubuza 'ingcali yobudlelwane' uLindsay Kriger.

Kwaye kufuneka uthathe iqabane lakho ngaphezu kwexabiso lobuso. Ubukeka obuhle buyaphela, kodwa ubuntu obungalunganga buhlala buhleli, utshilo. Isazi ngengqondo eseCalifornia uColleen Long uyavumelana. "Ngaba ungonwaba ngokulinda ngokuhambelana naye kwi-DMV?" Uyabuza. "Olona lwalamano lubalaseleyo ngabantu abanokuba ngabahlobo abasenyongweni," utshilo uStanger.

Uvavanyo lweMali

Akumangalisi ukuba izibalo zibonisa iingxabano ngemali yinto ephazamisayo kwimitshato emininzi. Ke, uStanger ucebisa ukuba uqonde ukuba ume phi phambi kokuba uthathe ezo zifungo. "Uyisebenzisa njani imali yakho? Uyisebenzisa njani eyakhe? Ngaba uyahluka? Uyavumelana kwaye ulungelelanise nokuba nguye osindisayo kwaye nguwe ochitha imali? Yonke le yimibuzo ebalulekileyo onokuyibuza xa uqala ubuhlobo obuzibolileyo? , "Utshilo uStanger.

"Ukungakhathali kwezemali kuya kudala uxinzelelo lobomi kunye nokuswela," utshilo ugqirha wezengqondo waseMzantsi California uTina Tessina. "Ukuba ungcakaza imali okanye uyichithe kwizinto zokudlala zobugcisa zamva nje xa ujonge ukukhusela ikamva lakho lezemali, ubudlelwane abuyi kusebenza," wongeza.

Uvavanyo Lwemilinganiselo Yentsapho

Ngaba nobabini nifuna inani elifanayo labantwana, ukuba bakho? Ngaba ulindele ukuba uguquke usuka kubuKatolika uye kubuYuda? "Ukususela kunqulo ukuya ekugcineni ikhaya, isini kunye nabantwana, kufuneka wabelane ngeenqobo kunye neenkolelo ezifanayo xa kuziwa ekuzibopheleleni," kusho ingcali yobudlelwane obudumileyo uKailen Rosenberg.

Uninzi lwezinto ezibangela ukungavisisani kubudlelwane kuxa abantu benemilinganiselo eyahlukeneyo kwimicimbi ephambili kwaye kungaxoxwa ngayo kwangaphambili, utshilo uKriger.

Uvavanyo loThando "lweTitanic"

U-Stanger uthi ukuze ube nomfanekiso-ngqondweni wale meko icingelwayo: Inqanawa iyehla kwaye usemanzini, umkhenkce. Ngaba ukukunika isiqwenga somthi ukusindisa ubomi bakho? Kuvakala kungumsebenzi onzima kodwa loo "Titanic Love" njengoko iStanger ibiza njalo, yinto efunekayo ukugcina ubambiswano lobomi bonke. “Xa ekuthanda kakhulu kangangokuba uyinto yonke ayikhathaleleyo, bubungqina bokuba ungoyena ubalulekileyo kuye,” uyongezelela.

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