Unokuba nayo njani i-Anal Orgasm

Umxholo

• Yima, ii-Anal Orgasms ziyinyani?
• Uphononongwa njani i-Anal Orgasms
• 1. Gcina idrowa yakho ngelube.
• Chukumisa eyakho ifutha.
• 3. Sebenzisa into yokudlala.
• 4. Phonononga iirimming.
• 5. Tshintsha izikhundla.
• 6. Yisa kwishower okanye ibhafu.
• 7. Phuma kancinci.
• 8. Ziqhelanise nokhathalelo lwasemva.
• Kuthekani ukuba andinayo i-anal Orgasm?
• Uphengululo lwe

Owu, sukumangaliswa! Kanjalo i-anal orgasm yinto. (Kwaye yinto emnandi kakhulu, ukuba nditsho ngokwam). Yintoni—ubucinga ukuba ukwabelana ngesondo ezimpundwini kuzuze lonke uhoyo obulufumana ngoku *hayi* ngokukunceda ukuba ube ne-orgasm?

Ewe, ukuba ubusoloko usonwabela ipesika dlala kude kube ngoku, ungoyiki. Apha ngezantsi, iingcali zichaza kanye ukuba yintoni i-anal orgasm, kunye neengcebiso ezisibhozo zokuba enye.

Yima, ii-Anal Orgasms ziyinyani?

Akunjalo nje kuphela, kodwa ngokwethiyori, nabani na ngempahla unokuba nayo (funda: yonke umzimba). Kodwa, rhoqo, indlela ephembelela i-analgasm iyahluka ngokuxhomekeke kubuchwephesha, utshilo u-Evan Goldstein MD, u-CEO kunye nomseki we-Bespoke Surgical, egxile ekuncedeni abantu babo bonke abantu besini kunye nezesini ukuba babandakanyeke kwi-anal.

Kubantu abane-prostate (ngokuqhelekileyo abantu ababelwa amadoda ekuzalweni), ngokuphindaphindiweyo i-O ye-anal iya kwenzeka ngokuvuselela i-prostate ngokungena ezimpundu, uchaza uGqr Goldstein. (ICYDK, iprostate yindlala elingana nobungakanani be-walnut ebekwe phakathi kwesinyi kunye nelungu lobudoda, kanye phambi kwe-rectum.)

Kwaye kwilungu lobufazi, i-anal O idla ngokwenzeka ngokunyusa indawo ye-G okanye indawo eyi-A ngomjelo wamanzi, kucacisa utitshala oqinisekisiweyo ngesondo u-Alicia Sinclair, i-CEO ye-b-Vibe, inkampani yemveliso yokudlala ezimpundu. Udonga oluphakathi kwelungu lobufazi kunye ne-anus lucekeceke kakhulu, ngenxa yoko isini sangasese sinokuvuselela ezo ndawo zishushu. Ngapha koko, ngokutsho kwakhe, i-A-spot (leyo yindawo yangaphambili ye-fornix) inokuba ye-anatomically. Elula ukuvuselela ngempundu kunokungena kwilungu lobufazi. (Kuba yonke into esezantsi isondelelene kakhulu, yiyo loo nto unokwazi ukuvulwa ekubeni ube nesinyi esigcweleyo.)

Ukonwaba: Uvavanyo olwenziwe ngo-2016 kwindawo yekhamera yesini uCam4 ubuze abasetyhini abangama-8,000 kwihlabathi liphela malunga ne-orgasms yabo kwaye wafumanisa ukuba, phakathi kwabafazi baseMelika, iipesenti ezingama-42 zinee-orgasms ngexesha le-anal (!!).

Yonke into eyithethileyo: I-analgasm ye-anal orgasm ephunyezwe nangaluphi na uhlobo lokuvuselela anal. Kubandakanya (kodwa kungaphelelanga apho) ukudlala ngomlomo-ezimpundu, ukubamba iminwe ezimpundu, iintlobano zesini zokungena ezimpundu kunye nelungu lobudoda okanye i-dildo, ukubetha, okanye ukudlala okwenzeka ngelixa unxibe iplagi yempundu okanye usebenzisa ubuhlalu bempundu.

"I-analgasm yempundu inokwenzeka nje ukuvuselela iimpundu, okanye ngovuselelo olongezelelweyo lweminye imimandla ene-erogenous,” utsho uSinclair.

Uphononongwa njani i-Anal Orgasms

Ngaba ukulungele ukuzimisela ekufuneni i-anal O ukuya kwi-anal O? Sikuphathele eyakho umva impundu. Kwaye ungakhathazeki, awudingi kudityaniswa ukuze uzame la manyathelo okanye ube namava e-butt-O.

1. Gcina idrowa yakho ngelube.

Yinto eqhelekileyo kweli nqanaba: Sebenzisa lube! Nangona kuyinyani ukuba i-lube yenza zonke iintlobo ze-hanky panky zibe ngcono, kumdlalo we-anal akuxoxiswana ngenxa yokuba i-anus ayizithambisa, utsho uGqr Goldstein. "ILube ngumahluko phakathi kwamava azaliswe kukukhuhlana, kunye nalawo amnandi."

Qhubeka uye uskrole kolu luhlu lweziqholo ezimpundu ezicetyiswa ngumfundisi-ntsapho ngesondo uze wongeze enye (okanye ezintlanu) kwinqwelo yakho. Owu, kwaye gcina engqondweni: Ioli ye-silicone inokonakalisa iithoyi ze-silicone. Ke ukuba ucwangcisa ukusebenzisa iithoyi, khetha amanzi- okanye ioyile esekwe kwioyile endaweni yoko.

Chukumisa eyakho ifutha.

Nokuba udiniwe okanye akunjalo, kufuneka ujonge owakho umzimba—ingakumbi umnqantsa wakho—ngaphambi kokuba ukhangele neqabane lakho, utsho uGqr. Goldstein. Nokuba unganxibelelana kanjani ngokwesondo, yindlela elula yokuhamba phakathi kwezinto eziziva zilungile kunye nezingaziva kamnandi ngokukhawuleza ngexesha lokuphulula amalungu esini ngokuchasene neqabane.

"Ngelixa ukhupha i-ally, sebenzisa eli xesha ukuva i-vibes yakho, ufunde oko kukukhuphayo (kwaye yintoni engenziyo), yintoni ebuhlungu okanye eziva ungakhululekanga (kwaye yintoni evakalelwa kukuba oh-kakuhle), kwaye ngawaphi amaqhinga amatsha onawo. inokuzisa ukudlala amaqabane, utshilo. (Andazi ukuba ungaqala ngaphi? Esi sikhokelo sokuphulula amalungu esini sinokunceda.)

3. Sebenzisa into yokudlala.

Amaso anal! Iiplagi ezimpundu! Dildos! Logama nje into yokudlala njengesiseko esivuthayo (le nto igcina into yokudlala ingabambeki ngaphakathi kuwe), ikhuselekile kumdlalo wangemva. Izinto zokudlala ezahlukeneyo zinokunika imvakalelo eyahlukeneyo, kodwa nganye inokukunceda ufikelele kwi-orgasm, utshilo uSinclair.

Iiplagi zempundu lukhetho olukhulu kubantu abafuna ukonwabela imvakalelo yokuzala ezimpundu ngelixa besebenzisa izandla zabo ukuvuselela ezinye iindawo zabo ezishushu okanye babambe iivibrators zeclit. Ukunxiba iplagi ye-butt ngelixa ufumana isondo ngomlomo yeyona nto ilungileyo O iresiphi yabanye abantu, uyaphawula uSinclair.

Amaso empundu zilungile kubantu abonwabela imvakalelo ye-anal sphincter yabo (izihlunu ezisekupheleni kwethanga elijikeleze i-anus kunye nokulawula ukukhutshwa kwenkunkuma). Kodwa ukungafihli ngokupheleleyo: Kuya kuxhomekeka kubhetyebhetye bakho kunye nobuchule nokuba uza kuba nakho ukufaka kunye nokususa ubuhlalu be-anal kwi-butt yakho. (Bona ngakumbi: Uyisebenzisa kanjani ubuhlalu be-Anal)

Ikomityi yokufunxa lukhetho oluhle kakhulu kubantu abanokufikelela kuvuthondaba ngokungena ezimpundu, kwaye bajonge indlela yokukhwela idildo ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo uwedwa. Yifunxe esitulweni, emva koko ungene kumkhweli-phezulu okanye umva umkhweli kwindawo ephezulu, kwaye uphose phezulu nasezantsi ngelixa ujikelezisa amasuntswana akho angaphambili. Iimveliso oza kuzijonga: I-Rainbow Pride Dildo (Yithenge, $ 69, babeland.com) kunye neBoss Silicone Dildo (Yithenge, $ 60, babeland.com).

Umtya-on ligama elisemthethweni lokunxiba i-dildo kwi-harness. Umtya onje ngePegasus egobile yokuBopha ngokuQinisekayo (Yithenge, $ 135, babeland.com) yinto eyoyikekayo neyimfuneko yokwenza umtya ngesondo ezimpundu kunye nokukhonkotha. (Idibeneyo: Yonke into ofuna ukuyifumana malunga nokuqhwaba)

4. Phonononga iirimming.

Umsebenzi we-Rim, u-analingus, ukuphosa isaladi-akunamsebenzi ukuba ubiza ntoni, kodwa wena kufanele Yizame, utsho uGqirha Goldstein. "Ndingumxhasi omkhulu womdlalo womlomo-empundu njengesenzo sayo yonke into, okanye njengendlela yokulungiselela ukudlala ngeempundu," utshilo. zininzi iziphelo zemithambo-luvo ezingaphandle kwendlela engathi yeyokuziva nje imangalisa, utshilo. (Okuninzi apha: Unokuba njani nokuBelana ngesondo ngomlomo nangawo nawuphi na umzimba)

Ngaba ujonge iingcebiso zokukhotha? Qala ezidleleni kwaye uqhekeze ukuze uhlekise iqabane lakho, ngaphambi kokuba ekugqibeleni uhambise ulwimi lwakho kwizangqa ze-clockwise kunye ne-counterclockwise ujikeleze indawo evulekileyo, ucebisa uGqr Goldstein. Unokuzama ukufaka ulwimi lwakho ngaphakathi nangaphandle. Ngelixa ukhothayo, ukuba iqabane lakho liyavuma, ucebisa ukuba angenise isandla ukuze avuselele ezinye iindawo zabo zerogenous. Unga:

• Bajije/bajija/bafinyaze iingono zabo.
• Stroke iklit yabo okanye umqhagi.
• Faka uxinzelelo kwindunduma yabo ye-pubic.
• Krwela umqolo wabo.
• Landela umphantsi wedolo okanye unyawo lwabo.

Ukuba okwangoku-ngaphandle kwe-bae, kwaye ufuna ukuphonononga imvakalelo yokuba ufakwe rimmed ngelixa uphulula amaphambili, unokhetho olumbalwa: Enye kukusebenzisa iplagi ye-b-Vibe Rimming (Yithenge, $157, babeland.com) efanele igama layo. Ifaka umsesane wamaso ajikelezayo entanyeni yayo, xa ngaphakathi emzimbeni wakho ivakala ngathi lulwimi! Qaphela nje: Nokuba ubungakanani obuncinci buse bukhulu kakhulu (cinga: i-strawberry ephakathi), ke le yeyona nto ilungele abo baphulula amalungu esini.

Olona khetho lulungileyo kubantu abatsha kumdlalo wokudlala ezimpundu kukuqhekeza i-lube efana ne-gel emnweni nasekungeneni, emva koko usebenzise inombolo yakho ukulandelela izangqa ezijikeleze yona. Yandisa ithuba le-orgasm ngokuphulula iklit yakho okanye iqhude okanye ngesandla sakho xa usenza njalo, ucebisa uSinclair. (Isikhumbuzo: Sukusebenzisa isandla esifanayo kwi-butt yakho nakumalungu akho esini-ungasasaza iibhaktheriya ezinokubangela usulelo olucaphukisayo.)

5. Tshintsha izikhundla.

Kwakhona, indawo ye-P kunye ne-G-spot zihlala zizitshixo zokuvula i-anal O. Ukubabetha ngexesha lokulala ngesondo, uya kufuna ukukhetha indawo evumela iqabane lakho ukuba lijolise kwisisu sakho ngaphakathi kwakho , utsho uSinclair. “Ubuhle besitayile senja emileyo kunye nomkhweli ongaphezulu kukuba umntu owamkelayo uyakwazi ukuzivuselela ngelixa engenelwa,” utshilo. (Bona ngakumbi: Ezona ziNdawo zaBantu baBantu baBantu baBasasazi baBaselula ngabaDala nabaDlalwayo)

Umthunywa wevangeli ophakamileyo kunye nomqamelo obekwe phantsi kwesinqe somntu owamkelayo yenye inketho enkulu yokudlala okokuqala kuba iqabane lakho liyakwazi ukufunda inkangeleko yobuso bakho. Kwakhona: ukusondelana. Ukuba umqamelo wakho wokulala uthambile i-AF, cinga ngokutyala imali kumqamelo wesondo njengeDame Pillo (Thenga, $ 95, dameproducts.com) okanye iLeberator Wedge (Yithenge, $ 98, babeland.com).

Ukuba ezi zikhundla azenzi, zama into encinci yokungena ngokudibanisa iplagi yelungu lobufazi (eya kumjelo wobufazi kwaye ihlale ngexesha lokudlala) njenge b-Vibe Twist Texture Plug (Yithenge, $ 95, bvibe .com). Iiplagi zelungu lobufazi ziya "kucinezela" iindawo ezishushu kwilungu lobufazi ngase umsele wamanzi kunye nokwandisa amathuba okuba bavuseleleke xa besabelana ngesondo ezimpundu.

6. Yisa kwishower okanye ibhafu.

I-anal sex havers ngokubanzi iwela kwiinkampu ezimbini: abo uthando ukuphonononga ukudlala ezimpundu kwisitya sokuhlambela nakwibhafu kuba amanzi ashushu anceda zonke izihlunu zabo-kubandakanya izihlunu ezirholayo ziphumle kunye nabo inzondo Kungenxa yokuba amanzi ahlamba i-lube kude. Konke malunga nokukhetha. Sekunjalo, uSinclair uthi kubantu abalumkeleyo ukudlala ezimpundu ngenxa yento yonke yokoyika-i-poop (leyo, i-FYI, ayinasiseko) ishawa kunye ne-bath play anal inokuba ngumdlalo. Inokuba yeyerotic, izive icocekile, kwaye ishushu ngokoqobo nangokomfuziselo, utshilo. (Jonga: Uyenza njani into yokuba uhlambe ngesondo okwamangalisa ngokwenene)

Ucebisa ukuba kusetyenziswe ioyile yokuthambisa esekwe ngesilicone okanye ioyile, ekunokwenzeka ukuba kunqabile ukuba uhlambe kwindawo yokuhlambela / yokuhlambela kune-lube esekwe emanzini. "Ukuba usebenzisa [enye yezi] kwaye ukhumbule ukuphinda wenze isicelo rhoqo, amava anokuba mnandi ngokwenene." Iingcebiso eziphambili: Uberlube (Thenga, $ 29, babeland.com) kunye pJur Original Silicone Lube (Thenga, $ 6, babeland.com). (Iingcebiso ezingaphezulu apha: Ezona ziLubhu ziBalaseleyo kwi-Anal sex, ngokweeNgcali)

Lumkisa nje ukuba abicah kunye neelubes zeoyile ziyatyibilika kwiAF, ngoko unokufuna ukufumana imathi yeshawari engatyibilikiyo ukuze ungabhukuqeki. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, eyona nto yokugqibela umntu ayifunayo luhambo oluya kwi-ER ukuze angcolise amava abo.

7. Phuma kancinci.

Yenziwe? “Musa ukuphuma ngokukhawuleza,” utshilo uSinclair. Endaweni yoko, umntu ophiweyo kufuneka akhulule kancinci ngelixa umamkeli lowo equbuda. Kuyinyani nokuba ungumamkeli okanye ungumnikeli kwaye umamkeli (aka ukuphulula amaphambili). "Ukuphuma ngaphandle kancinci kunceda ukuvula umnyango kwaye kungenza ukuphuma kube lula," utshilo.

Ukuba ufuna ukuya kwezinye izenzo zesondo, qiniseka nje ukuba ubambe ikhondom entsha okanye uhlambe naziphi izinto zokudlala / izandla / amalungu omzimba abandakanyeka kumdlalo wempundu. Kungenxa yokuba nokuba impefumlo yomamkeli icocekile, umsele wamva une-microbiome eyahlukileyo kune-microbiome yelungu lobufazi.Intsingiselo, ukudipha kabini kunokudlulisa ibhaktheriya ukusuka ngasemva ukuya ngaphambili enokuthi ilahle i-pH yangasese kwaye ikhokelele kwigwele okanye usulelo lwebhaktheriya. Blah.

8. Ziqhelanise nokhathalelo lwasemva.

Ngelixa ukukhanya emva kokwabelana ngesondo ezimpundwini kuyinyani, uSinclair uyaphawula ukuba-ngakumbi kwabaqalayo ezimpundu-isini esimpundu sinokushiya umntu owamkelayo eziva esesichengeni. Ucebisa ukuba uchithe ixesha elithile ubambene, ufaka i-refueling, ukuhambisa amanzi, kunye nokuhlaziya amava emva koko. (Idibeneyo: I-Reddit ikhuthazwa ukuba ibandakanyeke ekunakekeleni emva koSondo, ngoko ndazama)

Kuthekani ukuba andinayo i-anal Orgasm?

Imibuzo engcono omele uzibuze yona yile: Ngaba ndiye ndalufumana ulonwabo? Ndifunde okungakumbi ngomzimba wam? Ngaba ndiziva ndisondele kwiqabane lam? Ukuba uphendule ngo-ewe komnye okanye nangaphezulu kwezi Q amava ebeyimpumelelo! Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, i-O ye-anal inokuba yimpembelelo eyonwabileyo yomdlalo wepesika, kodwa ayisiyiyo kuphela inzuzo yokuphononongwa kweempundu.

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