Unokuba nayo njani inkwenkwe: Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba uphembelele isini somntwana wakho?

Umxholo

• Ngaba ikhona indlela eqinisekileyo yokuba nenkwenkwe?
• Yintoni onokuyenza ukuze wandise ithuba lakho lokuba nenkwenkwe?
• Ukutya
• Inkqubo yeShettles
• Ngaba lukhona ungenelelo lonyango lokuba nenkwenkwe?
• Ukuqwalaselwa kukhetho lwesini
• Yise kude

Sibandakanya iimveliso esicinga ukuba ziluncedo kubafundi bethu. Ukuba uthenga amakhonkco kweli phepha, sinokufumana ikhomishini encinci. Nantsi inkqubo yethu.

Ngaba ufuna ukwandisa usapho lwakho kwaye intliziyo yakho ibeke ukuba nenkwenkwana? Ngelixa kunokubonakala ngathi kukungavumi ukwamkela ukuba ukhetha isini somntwana wakho ongekazalwa, kulungile ukuvuma amaphupha akho. Asiyi sabelana ngemfihlo yakho nabani na!

Ukuba awukakhulelwa, kusenokwenzeka ukuba ukhe weva amarhe malunga nezinto onokuzama ukuphembelela isini sosana lwakho. Mhlawumbi uqale ngoku ukukhangela izimvo zokukunceda ukuba ube nomntwana oyinkwenkwe. Zeziphi ezinye izinto onokuzama ngazo? Ngaba ezinye iindlela zisebenza ngakumbi kunezinye?

Ngaba ikhona indlela eqinisekileyo yokuba nenkwenkwe?

Siyaqonda ukuba "isini" kunye "nesini" yimigaqo eguqukayo kwihlabathi lethu, ke ngaphambi kokuba siqhubeke, singathanda ukucacisa ukuba xa sithetha ngesini somntwana kweli nqaku, sithetha kuphela malunga nee-chromosomes zomntwana, indibaniselwano ye-XY ethathelwa ingqalelo njengeyindoda.

Ke, "isini" esikhankanywe kweli nqaku sigqitywa sisidoda esinegalelo ku-Y kunye neqanda elenza i-X.

Malunga nokuba ikhona indlela eqinisekisiweyo yokuchaphazela amathuba akho wokuba nenkwenkwe - hayi, ayikho. Mfutshane ekufakeleni umbungu okwaziyo ukuba yinkwenkwe, akukho ziqinisekiso xa kufikwa kwisini somntwana wakho.

Ngokubanzi kukho amathuba angama-50/50 okuba nenkwenkwe okanye intombazana ukuba izinto zishiyiwe kwindalo. Konke kuza ezantsi apho isidoda siphumelela ugqatso, kwaye izigidi zazo ziyabaleka.

Kulapho ke kungena khona umbono wokuchaphazela isini somntwana wakho ozayo. Abanye bathi ngokusebenzisa ixesha, isikhundla, ukutya, kunye nezinye iindlela ungatshintsha amathuba okuba idlozi lobudoda.

Into enomdla kukuba, olunye uphononongo lwango-2008 lwemithi yosapho engama-927 lubonisa ukuba ingaba uza kuba namakhwenkwe okanye amantombazana angamiselwa ngutata ngeendlela ezininzi kunenye. Ayisiyo-chromosomes kwisidoda kuphela eyalela isini somntwana, kodwa abanye ootata banokuchongwa ukuba babe namakhwenkwe okanye amantombazana amaninzi.

Ngokwolu phononongo, amadoda anokufumana ilifa lotyekelo lokuba namakhwenkwe okanye amantombazana amaninzi kubazali babo, oko kunokuthetha ukuba amanye amadoda avelisa ngaphezulu isidoda se-Y okanye X se-chromosome. Ke, ukuba umntu unabantakwabo abaninzi, unokuba noonyana abaninzi.

Yintoni onokuyenza ukuze wandise ithuba lakho lokuba nenkwenkwe?

Ukuba ufuna inkwenkwe ngokwenene, kukho iingcebiso abanye abazali abaza kukuxelela ukuba uzisebenzele. Akukho nanye kwezi ngcebiso engqinisisiweyo ngokwesayensi ukuba iqinisekisa iziphumo, kodwa abantu bayazama ukuba nethemba lokuphucula iimeko ezingavisisaniyo nabo.

Ukutya

Ukuqala, unokufuna ukuqwalasela into oyidlayo njengoko uzama ukukhulelwa. Ngelixa le nto ingakhange ifundwe ngokubanzi okanye ixhaswe (ke thatha ezi ngcebiso ngengqolowa yetyuwa), abaphandi kwisifundo sango-2008 sabasetyhini abangama-740 bafumana ubudlelwane phakathi kokuthatha iikhalori ezingaphezulu kunye nokukhulelwa kwenkwenkwe.

Ngoku, oku akuthethi ukuba kuya kufuneka ukonyuse ngokungalawulekiyo ubungakanani beesahlulo sakho kunye nosh imini yonke njengoko uzama ukukhulelwa. Gcina ukhumbula ukuba imikhwa yokutya esempilweni ngoku (ukutya okupheleleyo, iziqhamo kunye nemifuno, ukutya okuneswekile ephantsi) kuya kukunceda uqhubeke nokuthatha inani elifanelekileyo leekhalori xa ukhulelwe.

Abasetyhini bafundile batya amanqanaba aphezulu e-potassium. (Ngaba ufuna ukutya i-potassium eninzi? Zama iibhanana, iitapile kunye neembotyi ezimhlophe.)

Olu phononongo luye lwaphawula ukuba "Abasetyhini abavelisa iintsana ezingamadoda badla ukutya okuziinkozo kwasekuseni kunoko kunabasetyhini ababhinqileyo." Ke qhubeka uzigalele isitya!

Inkqubo yeShettles

Elinye icebo lokwandisa amathuba okuba ube nenkwenkwe sisicwangciso sokumitha esibizwa ngokuba yiShettles indlela, eyaphuhliswa nguLandrum B. Shettles malunga neminyaka yoo-1960.

Shettles wafunda isidoda ukufumanisa ukuba yintoni enokuthi ichaphazele isantya sedlozi.(Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, isidoda esiphumelela ugqatso kwaye sichumise iqanda ligqiba isini.) Uqwalasele ixesha lokwabelana ngesondo, isikhundla, kunye ne-pH yolwelo lomzimba ukubona ukuba yeyiphi enokuba nefuthe kwisini.

Amanqaku aphambili eShettles indlela ibandakanya:

• isondo kufutshane ne-ovulation
• isidoda sigcinwe kufutshane nomlomo wesibeleko sisebenzisa indawo evumela ukungena nzulu
• indawo enealkali kwilungu lobufazi
• umfazi ophethe i-orgasm kuqala

Isebenza njani indlela yeShettles? Ewe, kuyaxhomekeka ukuba uthetha nabani. UShettles ubanga iipesenti ezingama-75 zempumelelo kuhlelo lwangoku lwencwadi yakhe, kwaye baninzi abantu abathi bakhulelwe ngempumelelo inkwenkwe okanye intombazana besebenzisa indlela yakhe.

Kwelinye icala, olunye uphando oludala lufumanise ukuba isini kwiintsuku ezi-2 ukuya kwezi-3 emva kokuvuthwa akunakukhokelela ekukhulelweni kwaphela. Kwaye enye (ekwangomhla) yokuba ii-X kunye nee-chromosomes azinawo umahluko wokwakheka kukaShettles okholelwa ukuba ukhona.

Ngaba lukhona ungenelelo lonyango lokuba nenkwenkwe?

Ngaba ujonge iindlela ezinokuthenjwa zokunyusa iingxaki zakho? Kuxhomekeka kwiimeko zakho kunye nokufumaneka kwezi ndlela, kukho iindlela zongenelelo ngoncedo onokuzama ngazo.

Nangona kunjalo, olu nyango lunokubiza imali eninzi kwaye ngokwasemzimbeni nangokurhafisa. Beza nomngcipheko, ukusuka kwiingxaki zotyando ukuya kwisisu kunye ne-ovarian hyperstimulation syndrome (OHSS). Ke ngoko, ngokubanzi abacetyiswa kukhetho lwesondo ngaphandle kwesidingo sonyango.

Uncedo lwetekhnoloji yokuzala (i-ART) ivumela abantu ukuba bakhawule umntwana ngokusebenzisa iinkqubo zonyango. Ezinye zezi ndlela zibandakanya: in vitro fertilization (IVF), i-gamete intrafallopian transfer (GIFT), kunye ne-zygote intrafallopian transfer (ZIFT).

Ngenkqubo ebizwa ngokuba kukuchongwa kwemfuza ngaphambi kokumiliselwa (PGD) okanye ukukhethwa kwemfuza ngaphambi kokumiliselwa (PGS) kunokwenzeka ukuba kusetyenziswe i-IVF ukwenza imibungu, ukuvavanya ezi mbumba kwisini sabo, kunye nokufaka umbungu ngesini esinqwenelekayo kwisibeleko.

Oku kuqinisekisa ukuba ukuba konke kuhamba kakuhle ngokukhulelwa uya kuba nenkwenkwana (okanye intombazana) obukade uyiphupha.

Ukuqwalaselwa kukhetho lwesini

Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba ngelixa i-PGD / PGS ivumelekile e-United States, le nkqubo ayikho semthethweni kwamanye amazwe amaninzi afana ne-United Kingdom kunye ne China ngaphandle kokuba kukho izizathu ezomeleleyo zonyango.

Ngelixa kunokwenzeka ukuba abantu baye kwelinye ilizwe ukuze kwenziwe iinkqubo (kwaye abantu abaninzi benjenjalo), iindleko eziphezulu kunye neengxaki ezingaphezulu ezichaphazelekayo zinokuyenza ingathandeki kangako.

Esinye sezizathu abaniki-mthetho abasenzileyo ngokwenza i-PGD / PGS engekho semthethweni loloyiko lokuba abazali baya kukhetha ukuba nelingalinganiyo inani lamakhwenkwe okanye amantombazana. Ukuba nenani labantwana elinamakhwenkwe amaninzi okanye iintsana ezinokubangela iingxaki ekukhuleni kwabemi kwixesha elizayo.

Kumazwe athintela ukukhetha ngokwesondo, icebo elinye ibikukunciphisa i-PGD / PGS kwimicimbi yezonyango kunye "nokulinganisa usapho." Oku kuya kufuna ukuba iintsapho zibenomntwana wesinye isini ngaphambi kokuba zithathe isigqibo malunga nokwabelana ngesondo komntwana.

Mhlawumbi esona sizathu sibalulekileyo sokuba abenzi bomthetho babone ukunciphisa i-PGD okanye ukuyenza ukuba ingabikho semthethweni ziinkxalabo zokuziphatha ezichaphazelekayo. Esi sisihloko esintsonkothileyo kunye nesichukumisayo. Kubalulekile ukuphonononga iimvakalelo zakho kwaye uxoxe ngeendlela onokukhetha kuzo nogqirha wakho.

Yise kude

Kungokwemvelo ukucinga ngomntwana wakho wexesha elizayo, kwaye unethemba lokuba baya kuba njani. Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukuba ugcine engqondweni ukuba ukumisela isini somntwana wakho akuqhelekanga kulawulo lwakho.

Khumbula ukuba wonke umntwana wahlukile. Ngenxa yokuba unentombazana encinci oko akuthethi ukuba kuya kufuneka unikezele ngethemba lezinto ezimnandi ocinga ukuba uza kuzenza nonyana. Kwangokunjalo, ngenxa yokuba uphumelele kwiminqweno yakho yokuba nenkwenkwana oko akuthethi ukuba ubomi buya kuba yile nto ubuyicinga kwangaphambili.

Ukuba uziva uziva uphoxekile kakhulu, unenzondo, okanye unengxaki yokuhlangana kunye nomntwana wakho nangasiphi na isizathu, kubalulekile ukuba uthethe nomboneleli wakho wezempilo okanye ugqirha oqeqeshiweyo ukukunceda usebenze ngeemvakalelo zakho.