Kutheni le nto ungaze uthandabuze ukuthatha usuku lweMpilo yeNgqondo

Umxholo

• Uyithatha nini enye
• Uthini kumphathi wakho
• Uyichitha njani impilo yakho yengqondo
• Yise kude

Ukuthatha iintsuku zokugula ngempilo yomzimba kuyinto eqhelekileyo, kodwa ukuziqhelanisa nokuthatha ikhefu emsebenzini ukuze ujonge impilo yakho yengqondo yeyona ndawo ingwevu.

Iinkampani ezininzi zinemigaqo-nkqubo yempilo yengqondo okanye yeentsuku zobuqu, kodwa kusenokuba nzima ukuthatha ikhefu xa ufuna nje ikhefu lengqondo. Unokuziva unetyala okanye ungathandabuzi ukusebenzisa enye yeentsuku zakho zexabiso le-PTO kwaye uzityhale ukuze ubonise njalo.

Nangona kunjalo, xa uziva uxinezeleke kakhulu, wena kunye nomsebenzi wakho uyahlupheka, okunokuthi kukhokelele kwimicimbi enokwenzakalisa ukusebenza kwakho kunye nabantu osebenza nabo. Ukwazi ukuba ungayithatha nini impilo yengqondo ngokwakho kubalulekile ukugcina impilo yakho yonke kunye nentlalo-ntle yakho, ngaphakathi nangaphandle kwendawo yokusebenzela.

Nantsi yonke into ekufuneka uyazi malunga nokuthatha usuku lwempilo yengqondo.

Uyithatha nini enye

“Ukuba uziva ukhathazekile, unoxinzelelo, unengxaki yokugxila okanye ukugxila emsebenzini okanye ekhaya, okanye ucaphuka msinya, unokufuna ukuthatha usuku lwempilo yengqondo. Ukuba ucinga ngobomi bakho njengepleyiti enamacandelo omsebenzi, usapho, ubomi, nezinto othanda ukuzenza, kwaye ipleyiti iyaphuphuma kuyo yonke imimandla kodwa izinto othanda ukuzenza, lixesha lokuba uthathe ikhefu kwaye uthathe inxaxheba ekuzinyamekeleni, ”utshilo uGqirha Ashley Hampton, ugqirha wezengqondo onelayisensi kunye neenkqubo zeqhinga, uxelela uHealthline.

Kunokuba lula kakhulu ukuziqinisekisa ukuba impilo enkenenkene yengqondo ayisosizathu saneleyo sokuthatha ikhefu emsebenzini. Ukuba uyakwazi ukusebenza, kutheni ungangeni kwaye uhlawulwe?

Kodwa khumbula ukuba impilo yakho yengqondo ibaluleke kakhulu kwimpilo yakho njengempilo yakho yomzimba. Njengawo nawuphi na umcimbi wokugula okanye uxinzelelo lomzimba, ingqondo yakho ifuna ixesha lokuphumla kunye nokuchacha.

Asithethi ngezinto ezoyikisayo eziqhelekileyo zangeCawe, okanye siziva nje ukuba sikruqukile okanye asivuyiswa kukungena eofisini. Ukuba uvuka kwaye uzive uxinezelekile, uphantsi, okanye uxhalabile- kwinqanaba elonakalisa ukusebenza kwakho-lixesha lokuba ucinge ukuthatha usuku.

Ewe ngamanye amaxesha uziva ungacaciswanga ukuba ucimile. Kulungile ukuthatha usuku luye kuwe emva koko, kananjalo. Sebenzisa isigwebo sakho kwaye umamele ingqondo nomzimba wakho. Wonke umntu ufuna usuku lwempilo yengqondo amaxesha ngamaxesha.

Uthini kumphathi wakho

Ngelishwa, impikiswano malunga neentsuku zempilo yengqondo ixhaphake kakhulu kwiinkampani ezininzi. Intsingiselo, into oyithethayo kumphathi wakho ibalulekile.

"Ngemihla yempilo yengqondo emsebenzini, ndikhuthaza kakhulu ukusebenzisa ixesha lokugula ukukhathalela impilo yengqondo," utshilo uHampton.

“Indlela yokuthatha usuku lwempilo yengqondo inokuba yinkohliso. Ndikhuthaza wonke umntu ukuba abone ukuba yeyiphi na imigaqo-nkqubo yenkampani ngaphambi kokuba athethe nantoni na malunga nempilo yengqondo. Ayisiyo yonke imigaqo-nkqubo yenkampani ejonga impilo yengqondo njengesizathu esivakalayo sokuthatha usuku lokugula. Kule meko, kungakuhle ukuba ubuze nje ixesha lokugula ngendlela ehambelana nenkcubeko yenkampani, ”utshilo.

Kungakhathaza ukuba awukwazi ukuchaza ngokuthe ngqo ukuba kutheni ufuna ikhefu, kodwa ukuba uthembekile ekubeni uyagula, ungacacisi ukuba impilo yakho yengqondo ilungile.

Xa ucela ikhefu, kulungile ukuba ube mfutshane. Awudingi ukungena kwiinkcukacha malunga nokuba kutheni uthatha usuku lokugula okanye usuku lwempilo yengqondo (ngaphandle kokuba ufuna njalo), kodwa ungaziva ngathi ufuna ukuzithethelela okanye ukucacisela nabani na.

Qaphela: Kukho izizathu zokuba kutheni umntu kungafuneki axelele umqeshi wakhe ukuba kutheni ethatha usuku. Injalo imeko ukuba isizathu sigutyungelwe ngabantu baseMelika abakhubazekileyo (i-ADA). Cofa apha ukuze ufunde ngakumbi.

Uyichitha njani impilo yakho yengqondo

Kanye njengokuba ubuya kunyanga naluphi na usuku lokugula, yenza izinto ezikwenza uzive ungcono.

“Ngemini yempilo yakho yengqondo, ziqwalasele ngokupheleleyo kuwe. Akululo usuku lokubamba ukuhlamba okanye i-imeyile okanye ukucoca ikhaya lakho okanye ukuqhuba imisebenzi. Yila usuku lwakho lwempilo yengqondo ngokupheleleyo ngawe nangakuwe, utshilo uHampton.

“Ukuba uyakonwabela ukuphululwa, ukufunda incwadi, ukubukela imovie, yenza ezo zinto ke. Ukuba uza kuthatha usuku ungabikho emsebenzini, yenza umzuzu ngamnye ubale. Injongo kukunciphisa naziphi na iimvakalelo ezingalunganga, ezinje ngoxinzelelo kunye nokuxinana, ”uyongeza.

Ewe kunjalo, ukuba ukuhlamba impahla okanye ukucoca kuyanyanga kuwe-nokuba kungenxa yomsebenzi okanye imvakalelo yokufezekisa umsebenzi-zitshitshise! Qiniseka nje ukuba nantoni na oyenzayo ikwenza uzive ukhululekile kwaye ukhululekile. Kwabanye abantu, oko kunokuthetha ukwenza iphazili. Kwabanye, oko kunokuthetha ukuhlamba ibhafu.

“Nika ingqondo yakho ikhefu, kwaye wenze izinto ozithandayo. Ukugqibezela imisebenzi yolonwabo kuya kukunceda ukhululeke kwaye kukukhumbuze ukuba kunjani ukuzikhathalela hayi wonke umntu ngalo lonke ixesha, ”utshilo uHampton.

Iintsuku zempilo yengqondo zinokuba lixesha elihle lokuziqhelanisa nokuzikhathalela, nokuba oko kuthetha ukwenza inyathelo eli-12 lokhathalelo lolusu okanye ukuya ebalekeni kwipaki oyithandayo. Isenokuthetha ukuhlala ebhedini imini yonke ubukele iNetflix kunye nokutya ukutya okuziinkozo. Ukuzinakekela kujongeka kwahlukile kuye wonke umntu.

Chitha usuku lwakho lwempilo yengqondo usenza izinto owaziyo ukuba ziluncedo kwimpilo yakho yengqondo neyasemzimbeni. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ufunde indlela yokuluka okanye ukufumana ubuso ukuba awuqinisekanga nokuba izakwenza uzive ungcono. Zama ukwenza uluhlu lwezinto eziza kukuzisela uvuyo kwaye zikhuthaze. Yijonge ukuba ufuna ukukhuthazwa.

Ukuba sele ubona ugqirha kwaye uziva ngathi uza kuxhamla kwiseshoni eyongezelelweyo ngexesha losuku lwakho lwempilo yengqondo, tsalela umnxeba kwaye ubuze ukuba bane-slot ekhoyo yomntu okanye iseshoni ebonakalayo.

Kukwakho neenkonzo zasimahla zokufumana iingcebiso kwi-Intanethi, ezinje ngeNdebe ezisixhenxe, ekuvumela ukuba uqhagamshele umyalezo wombhalo kwivolontiya eliqeqeshiweyo lokufumana inkxaso yeemvakalelo. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba udlule kwixesha elinzima wedwa.

Yise kude

Isenokuziva ngathi ayiqhelekanga ekuqaleni ukwenza izinto ezinje ngokufumana umyalezo okanye ukuhlala epakini ngosuku onokusebenza ngalo. Kodwa le mi sebenzi ingahamba indlela ende ekuncedeni uzive ungcono.

Into ebalulekileyo kukwenza into eyenza wena zive ulungile, hayi le uyenzayo cinga ubufanele ukuba uyayenza. Nje ukuba uthathe usuku lwakho lokuqala lwempilo yengqondo, kuya kuba lula kuphela ukubathatha kwikamva kwaye ungaziva unetyala ngako.

Injongo ayikuko ukuphuma emsebenzini; yeyokuphilisa ingqondo yakho ukuze ubuye uzive ukhululekile, unethemba, kwaye ulungele usuku olunemveliso. Iintsuku zempilo yengqondo ziyimfuneko kubasebenzi abasempilweni, abonwabileyo kunye nendawo yokusebenzela engcono.

USara Fielding ngumbhali osekwe kwisiXeko saseNew York. Ukubhala kwakhe kuvele kwi-Bustle, Insider, Health Men, HuffPost, Nylon, kunye ne-OZY apho agubungela khona ubulungisa kwezentlalo, impilo yengqondo, impilo, ukuhamba, ubudlelwane, ezolonwabo, ifashoni kunye nokutya.