U phezulu? Ngaba unyango lweHormone Therapy (HRT) luyichaphazela njani isondo sakho kunye neLibido?

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• I-HRT ibuchaphazele njani ubomi bakho ngokwesondo?

U phezulu? yikholamu entsha yeHealthline yengcebiso, enceda abafundi ukuba baphonononge isini kunye nokwabelana ngesondo.

"Ngaba umntu angalahlekelwa yingqondo yakhe kuphondo?" Lo ibingumbuzo endiwubuze kwivenkile yokuhlambela yokutyela emva kokuphulukana nomsindo wam xa iGrindr hookup yarhoxisa kum nge Ngomsindo izizathu ezisengqiqweni.

Ndingumntu otshintshayo emaphethelweni.

Kwiinyanga ezintandathu kwi-testosterone, irejimeni yonyango ebuyisela endaweni endiyilandelayo kunye ne-endocrinologist, ibindithathile ukusuka kwi-libido engaphezulu-ngaphezulu komndilili efunyanwa ngabafazi be-cisgender kwi-30s yabo yokuqala, ukuya kwimpambano yokunxanwa.

Abantu abaninzi be-transmasculine baxela oku xa beqala i-HRT. Ubuhlanya busenokuvakala buqhelekile ukuba okwangoku ufikisa okanye ujonge ngasemva luloyiko olwenziweyo. Kungenxa yokuba unyango olungena endaweni yehomoni unokuziva ngathi ufikisa.

Khange ndiqhele ukuba ngoluhlobo tu. Xa ndizenza ngathi ndingumfazi, bendikukulawula ukuzalwa okusekwe kwi-estrogen ukusuka kwi-17 kuye kwi-27. Andizange ndikhe ndibekhona kwisini kunye nabo babini (yep) abalingane ebendinabo kwithuba leminyaka elishumi. Bobabini bade bandityhola ngokuba li-lesbian elivalelweyo, elilixesha elibonakalise ukuba luluvo oluphosakeleyo.

Emva kokuqala i-HRT, xa isiza ku-doin 'kuyo, ndiya ndonyuka ngokwasemzimbeni nangothando nditsala kuphela abantu njengendoda, okanye ngaphezulu kwamadoda, njengokuba ndinjalo.

Ndifumanise ukuba andisakwazi ukusebenza kakuhle kubudlelwane obungqongqo bomntu omnye, nto leyo isendle ngokucinga ukuba ndiphinda ndibuyele kwi-serial monogamist.

Ndikwanengqondo evulekileyo ngakumbi kunangaphambili - {textend} ukuba wonke umntu uyakwazi kwaye uzimisele ukuvuma, ndinomdla wokuphonononga nantoni na nayo yonke into iqabane lam eliyicingayo. Njengoko umzimba wam uziva uchanekile ngakumbi, ndiyonwabela isondo ngakumbi kwaye ndinexhala malunga neelebheli kunye nolindelo oluncinci. Ndiziva ngathi ngumntu owahlukileyo ngamanye amaxesha!

Ngaba oku kuyenzeka kuye wonke umntu othatha iihomoni? Kukho izifundo ezimbalwa malunga nesi sihloko, kodwa ubukhulu beesampulu zihlala zincinci, nto leyo engothusiyo, kuba amaqela asebenzisa iihormoni asezantsi kwaye kusekho ukubekwa amabala ngokuxoxa ngesondo ngokungagungqiyo.

Kwakhona, isini kunye ne-libido ngamava obuqu kunye nokuzithoba, ekunokuba nzima ukulinganisa kuphononongo.

Ndifuna ukwehla ezantsi kwindlela abantu abachaphazeleka ngayo ngokwesini kwiindidi ezahlukeneyo ze-HRT, ke ndiye ndenza udliwanondlebe olungekho sesikweni. Ndenze konke okusemandleni am ukufumana abantu abakubudala obahlukeneyo, ubuhlanga, isazisi ngokwesini, abathatha iihomoni ngezizathu ezahlukeneyo - {textend} ukusuka kutshintsho lwezonyango ukuya kunyango lwe-endocrine.

Nantsi into ebebeyithetha ngokuya kwi-HRT kunye nobomi babo besondo. (Amagama atshintshiwe).

I-HRT ibuchaphazele njani ubomi bakho ngokwesondo?

USonya * ngumfazi we-cisgender osekwishumi elivisayo othathe i-Tri-Lo-Sprintec kunye ne-estrogen ngeveki yokunyanga imeko ye-thyroid kule minyaka imbalwa idlulileyo.

USonya uxela ukuba uziva e-hypersexual de ade aqale i-HRT. Wamangaliswa kungekuphela kukutshintsha kwe-libido yakhe, kodwa nokuba ukuthanda kwakhe abantu basetyhini kugqithiselwe ikakhulu emadodeni.

Ngokubanzi, nangona kunjalo, uyabelana: "Kum ayitshintshanga imikhwa yam yesini ngaphandle kokuba i-libido ilahle ezinye, kuba ubukhulu becala yayikukunyanga ukukhula kweenwele ebusweni, ukutyeba ubunzima, kunye nevumba lomzimba, kodwa kwanele ukuqaphela . ”

Ke kukho uMat *, indlovukazi eneminyaka eyi-34, indoda etshatileyo ye-cisgender ethatha i-testosterone kangangeminyaka emibini. Waqala i-HRT xa iqabane lakhe lacela ukuba abonane nogqirha amncede ekulweni nokudinwa kunye nokudinwa. Uchonge njenge-serial monogamist eyonwabeleyo ulwalamano olusenyongweni.

Emva ko-T, nangona kunjalo, "kufana nokuba umntu ebuyise ingqondo yam ngokupheleleyo kwaye ndifuna f * * * BONKE. Ndatshata ndimncinci, kwaye u-T wakhokelela kule ngxaki ingaqhelekanga 'Yima, yile ndlela wonke umntu awayeziva ngayo kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo nakwikholeji? Ngaba le yindlela eyenzeka ngayo into yokwabelana ngesondo? Iyavakala le nto ngoku! '”

Ndikwathethile noFrankie, umntu otshintshisayo (bona / izimelabizo) othatha i-Estradiol ukusukela ngo-2017. Phambi kwamahormone, uFrankie uthi “Isini sasinzima. Andiqinisekanga ngento endifuna ukuyenza okanye indlela endiziva ngayo. Ndikhe ndityeshele omnye umntu. ”

Emva kokuqala i-estrogen, baziva bengena ngakumbi kwinto efunwa yimizimba yabo (okanye ayifuni). Ngaphambi kwe-estrogen, babebandakanyeka kuphela emadodeni. Emva koko, kwabakho inyikima nditshintshe ekuqaleni ndaziva ndichongwe njengongqingili, "kodwa ke ndafika kuGrindr kwaye, eh, ungacingi!"

Ngokubanzi, uFrankie uluvuma olu tshintsho kwi-libido yabo kunye nokuziphatha ngokwesini ukuba bafudukele kwindawo ekhuselekileyo kunye nabanye abantu abachongiweyo kunye nabantu abachongiweyo ukuba balandele kanye njengehomoni.

Okokugqibela, ndathetha nomfazi otshintshayo ogama linguRebecca *. Uneminyaka engama-22 ubudala kwaye uthathe i-estrogen ngenkqubo yokuhanjiswa kwepatch malunga neenyanga ezisixhenxe. Nangona engakhange afumane lukhulu kutshintsho lwe-libido, umdla wakhe kwisini ngaphambi kwe-HRT wawuphantse wasekelwa ngokupheleleyo kwikink kunokuba usondele kubudlelwane obusondeleyo.

Ngoku, unonxibelelwano olunzulu kubudlelwane bakhe be-polyamorous ngokuchonga isidingo sakhe sokunxibelelana ngokweemvakalelo kunye nokusondelelana, kwaye uyakonwabela isenzo ngokwaso kunangaphambili. Ndichonge okuninzi ngamava kaRebecca: ukuba ii-orgasms ziziva zahlukile emzimbeni nge-estrogen kune-testosterone!

"Ayisiyonto [yokwabelana ngesondo] kuphela eyonelisayo, nokuba iyaqinisekisa, kodwa i-orgasm nayo inde, inamandla ngakumbi, kwaye kusenokwenzeka ukuba bendinayo ne-orgasm ephindwe kabini kanye kutshanje. I-orgasm iye yathunyelwa ngokufanelekileyo kwindawo okanye ukudibana kwaye yinto endijonge phambili kuyo kwaye ndiyakonwabela ukwakha kuyo, kunokuba ibe yinto endiyenzayo ukuyenza nje, ”utshilo uRebecca.

Ewe kunjalo, la mava abonisa kuphela amakhulu ambalwa abantu abahle kwaye bahlukeneyo abaphendulayo. Abanye abantu baxele kuphela utshintsho oluncinci, kwaye abanye abantu abafana nam babenotshintsho olukhulu kuhanahaniso okanye ngokwesini.

Ndiyathemba ukuba inzala iya kunyuka kuphando olululo, kuba izifundo kunye neenkqubo ezikhulu ziya kuba yimfuneko njengoko siqala ukubona iziphumo zexesha elide zeenkqubo ezahlukeneyo ze-HRT emzimbeni womntu - {textend} ngakumbi imizimba eguqukayo.

Okwangoku, ndizakuhlamba ishushu. Kwakhona.

UReed Brice ngumbhali kunye nosomahlaya osekwe eLos Angeles. U-Brice yi-alum ye-UC Irvine ka-Claire Trevor weSikolo soBugcisa kwaye wayengumntu wokuqala we-transgender owakhe waphoswa kuqeqesho lobungcali kunye nesiXeko sesiBini. Xa ungathethi iti yokugula ngengqondo, u-Brice uphinde abhale ikholamu yethu yothando kunye ne-sex, "U Up?"