Ukuba Wenza Into Enye Kule Nyanga ... Funda ukuthi Hayi

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Xa ummelwane wakho ekucela ukuba uncede ngomnyusi wengxowa-mali okanye umntu omdala omaziyo ekunyanzela ukuba uye kwitheko lakhe lesidlo sangokuhlwa, ukwala akusoloko kulula, nokuba unesizathu esivakalayo. "Abasetyhini bafundiswa ukondla, kwaye bayoyika ukuba ukwala isicelo kuya kubenza babonakale ngathi bazicingela bodwa, utshilo uSusan Newman, Ph.D., ugqirha wezengqondo kunye nombhali. Incwadi yeNombolo: Iindlela ezingama-250 zokuyithetha-kwaye ithetha ngayo. "Kodwa uninzi lwethu luye lubeke emgceni ukuba ukwala kuyakumdanisa umntu. Ngokwenyani, uninzi lwabantu alunakuhlala ekuphikeni kwakho-baya kuqhubeka."

Ngexesha elizayo xa ujongene nayo nayiphi na into evela kumenywa ethekweni kwisicelo sokubhaka izinto zentengiso, thintela impendulo ezenzekelayo ka-ewe kwaye uzibuze, Ngaba ndiza kuyilindela le nto okanye ndiyoyike? Ukuba yeyokugqibela, yala. (Zama, "Ndingathanda, kodwa ndixakeke kakhulu.") Emva kokwala izicelo ezimbalwa kwaye uqonda ukuba ezinye azikhutshelwa ngokwala kwakho, uza kuyeka ukuziva unetyala. "Kananjalo, uyakukhululwa ngoba uyakuzibambela ixesha lokwenza ngokwakho izinto ozifuna ngokwenene," utshilo uNewman. Into entsha oyithandayo, ingokuhlwa ephumlileyo kuwe, kunye nexesha elingakumbi nabantwana bakho zonke zezakho ngexabiso lelizwi elinye nje elincinci.

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