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UKenlie Tieggman uthi: "Ndingumfazi olingeneyo owayekhathazwa kakhulu kwindawo yokuzivocavoca ngenxa yokutyeba." Nje ukuba ufunde malunga nokunyanyiswa kwamafutha abi awakunyamezelayo kwindawo yokuzivocavoca, uya kwazi ukuba uyibeka kakuhle. Kodwa akazange abavumele abantu abathiye ukuba bamkhuphe ejimini ngoko, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo akabavumeli ukuba bamkhuphele ngaphandle ngoku. Ayipheleli ekusebenzeni rhoqo, uye wawufaka umsebenzi wakhe wamaphupha iyasebenza ejimini.

UTieggman, oqhelekileyo kwi-YMCA yaseGreater New Orleans, wayethanda ukuzilolonga kwaye wabona amanqaku emsebenzi apho njengenyathelo elilandelayo kuhambo lwakhe lokuba sempilweni. Ngaphambi kokuba aqale ukulungela, wayengazukucinga ukuba usebenza ejimini, kodwa ngoku akacingi naphi na apho aya khona. Ngoko xa uTieggman wabona ukuvulwa komsebenzi, wagqiba ekubeni awufumane. Umphathi wavuma ukuba angalingana ngokugqibeleleyo, kunye nobuntu bakhe obumangalisayo kunye nolwazi lwamaziko kwaye wamqesha ngokukhawuleza njengenkonzo yelungu kunye nomnxibelelanisi wentengiso.

Ukusebenza kwindawo enye asebenzela kuyo kuneenzuzo ezinzulu. "Ndihlala ndihlala phakathi kwabantu abasebenza ukufikelela kwiinjongo ezifanayo nezam: ukuba sempilweni, ukuhlala ndomelele kwaye ndonwabile," uyacacisa. Kwaye yenye yeendlela ezilula zokuqinisekisa ukuba akaze ayeke ukuzilolonga kwakhe.“Ndiza kwenza iiklasi zam zeBodyPump kunye neBodyCombat into yokuqala xa ndifika emsebenzini,” utshilo. "Ukubakho kususa nasiphi na isizathu endinokucinga ngaso." (Dibana nabasetyhini abaninzi ababonisa ukuba kutheni i-#LoveMyShape Movement ixhobisa kakhulu.)

Kukwakho nenkqubo eyakhelwe-ngaphakathi yabaxhasi kunye nee-cheerleaders kwindawo yokuzivocavoca, kwaye uTieggman uhlala esebenza kunye nomphathi wakhe. Nangona wayesele eloyisile uloyiko awayenalo ngokusebenza esidlangalaleni, ukuba yinxalenye yabasebenzi bejimu kuye kwamnceda ukuba azive ekhululekile ngakumbi apho. Inxalenye enye asokolayo nayo: xa esusa igama lakhe kunye nabantu baphinde bambone njengomntu ongafanelekanga.

"Abantu babona ubungakanani bam kwaye ngokuzenzekelayo bacinga ukuba lusuku lwam lokuqala," ucacisa. "Ndibe nabantu bandinika zonke iintlobo zeengcebiso ezingafunekiyo malunga nokutya okanye ukwenza umthambo. Abantu bayazama kwaye babe mnandi ngayo, kodwa basavakala bethobekile, utshilo. "Ngelixa ndiyibulela nayiphi na inkuthazo, khange ndiqale ukuzilolonga izolo!" uthi.

Kodwa eyona nto ayithandayo emsebenzini wakhe kukufumana iyeyokukhokela abanye abantu, ngakumbi abo banokoyikiswa yindawo yokuzivocavoca okanye abanenkxalabo yokuba bangakhangeleki njenge-rat rat. "Eyona nto ifunwa ngabanye abantu kukuziva bebandakanyiwe kwaye bamkelwe, nokuba bajongeka njani," utshilo uTieggman. (Sineengcebiso ezili-11 zokuNqanda ukoyikeka kweGym kunye nokukhulisa ukuzithemba.)

"Ndifumana iminxeba ngalo lonke ixesha ebantwini besithi bafuna ukuba sempilweni kodwa abazi ukuba baqale ngaphi," utshilo. "Ndiyabaxelela nje," Ngenani ndiyeke yonke into endiyenzayo ndisebenze nani! "

Ngokubhekisele kubantu abasamgxekayo okanye bamnike lonto jonga ngelixa esebenza? Akabahlawuli kwaphela. "Nje ukuba ndiyeke ukuzigweba ngokwamazinga oluntu kwaye endaweni yoko ndizibone nguThixo, ndayeka ukuzicaphukela ndaza ndazithanda," utshilo. "Ngoku andisaziva ngathi kufuneka 'ndilwe' kwaye ndingathanda nje abantu abafuna uthando ngokucacileyo."

Kwaye ngoku eli ligqala lomthambo elinamava, unayo ingcebiso enye athanda ukuyixelela bonke abantwana abasandul 'ukubeleka: "Kuziva kulungile ukwenza izinto ezisempilweni," utshilo. "Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ufike kwisisindo sakho seenjongo okanye ube 'nomzimba ogqibeleleyo' ukuze uqale uzive ulungile; ungaqala uzive ungcono ngoku!" (P.S. Ngaba singanceda siyeke ukugweba amanye amaqumrhu abasetyhini?)

# Uthando lwamNgenxa yokuba imizimba yethu ibassass kwaye siziva somelele, sisempilweni, kwaye sizithembile kuye wonke umntu. Sitshele ukuba kutheni uyithanda imilo yakho kwaye usincedise ekusasazeni # lovelove.

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