I-Instagram Ifuna ukuba intombazana ikubonise into eyiyo yokuthatha iPic egqibeleleyo

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Imidiya yoluntu ayibobomi bokwenyani. Sonke siyayazi le nto kwinqanaba-emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ngubani ongathumanga i-selfie "ethandekayo" ethathe isibhamu esingu-50 kunye nokuseta iapp kwakhona? Kodwa xa ubona amantombazana amnandi, anetalente, afanelekileyo kwi-intanethi, uninzi lwethu lusacinga ngeefoto zabo njengenyaniso. Kodwa enye intombazana eyi-Insta It yagqiba kwelokuba ibuyise ikhethini kwimfezeko kwaye ngokwenene Yabelana ngento engena kuyo yonke loo mifanekiso intle. (Fumanisa ukuba kutheni "ukuLungelana" kweZithuba ze-Instagram akuhlali kukhuthaza.)

U-Essena O'Neill, oneminyaka engama-19 ubudala wase-Australia, wayenayo yonke into-ubuncinci, wayebonakala kwiiakhawunti zakhe zosasazo, ezazigcwele imifanekiso emangalisayo yokusebenza kwakhe, enxibe impahla yoyilo, esela iti, kwaye esenza yoga elunxwemeni. Kodwa ulutsha luthi yonke le nto yayilulwalwa olwalukhethwe ngononophelo kwaye, okubi ngakumbi, ubomi bakhe obumnandi obabuku-intanethi babumphanga ubomi bokwenyani obuhle.

"Sibona ubomi obutofotofo, abantu abasikelelweyo bemfuza, sibona iimpahla ezintsha, ukunxiba umthambo, ii-abs ezomeleleyo, amathanga eethoni, iinwele ezibhalwe ngokugqibeleleyo, iimaski ezipeyintiweyo, imizimba epeyintiweyo. Asibuboni ubomi bokwenyani," ubhale wongeza. ukuba "wayelikhoboka lokwamkelwa" kwaye walinganisa ukuzixabisa kwakhe kwizinto azithandayo kunye namagqabantshintshi. (Zimbi kangakanani i-Facebook, i-Twitter, kunye ne-Instagram yeMpilo yeNgqondo?)

U-O'Neill uthathe isigqibo sokunyaniseka-ngokwenene ngokunyaniseka-kunye nabalandeli bakhe kunye naye. Uphinde wayi-vamp iakhawunti yakhe ye-Instagram enomyalezo othi "imithombo yeendaba zentlalo ayibobomi bokwenyani," ethumela imifanekiso yakhe ethandwayo e-uber kwaye ebabiza kwakhona ukuba baxelele ngqo into ayenzileyo ukuze afumane olona daba lufanelekileyo, nokuba ungakanani sele ihlawulwe ngayo, kwaye imenze waziva njani.

Ngomfanekiso omnye, umzekelo, ubonakalisa ilokhwe entle yokuhombisa; Amagqabantshintshi akhe achaza ukuba wayehlawulelwe amakhulu eedola ukunxiba ilokhwe kunye nokuphawula uphawu. Wongeze ukuba uthathe iiyure ezama eyona shot ilungileyo, eyona intle kwaye wayihlela kwiiapps ezintathu ezahlukeneyo ukuze ilunge. Ngaba umvuzo wakhe ngawo wonke lo msebenzi unzima? Endaweni yokuya kumhla womlingo-njengoko umntu ebeya kuthatha kwifoto-ubhala athi "konke oko kundenze ndaziva ndindedwa ngokumangalisayo." (Ngaba iMedia yeNtlalo ikwenza ukuba ube nengxaki eluntwini?)

Enye ifoto, ngeli xesha enxibe i-bikini, ikhuthaze abalandeli ukuba bazibuze ukuba kutheni umntu eza kufaka iposi enjalo kwasekuqaleni. "Siyintoni isiphumo kubo? Yenza utshintsho? Jonga ushushu? Thengisa into?" Ubuzile. "Ndandicinga ukuba ndinceda amantombazana amancinci ukuba afaneleke kwaye abe nempilo. Kodwa ke ndaqonda ukuba ukubeka nayiphi na imali yokuzixabisa kwakho kwifom yakho yomzimba kunokunciphisa kakhulu. Ngendibhala, ndihlola, ndidlala, nantoni na enhle kwaye iyinyani. .Andizami ukungqinisisa ukubaluleka kwam ngokudubula kwebhikini ngaphandle kwento." Kwaye, kwi-selfie yokuzilolonga, wabhala wathi, "Intombazana eneminyaka eli-15 ubudala ukuba ikhalori iyayithintela kwaye iyazilolonga kakhulu ayizonjongo."

Emva koko wayicima yonke imifanekiso yakhe eseleyo kunye neeakhawunti.

"Andikwazi ukukuxelela indlela endiziva ndikhululeke ngayo ngaphandle kwemithombo yeendaba," ubhale watsho. Asoze ndiphinde ndivumele inani lindichaze. Lindifuthanisele.

Eli nyathelo liqhwatyelwa izandla ngamanye amantombazana e-It Insta. #Fitspo superstar kunye Ubume othandwayo uKayla Itsines umncome u-O'Neill ngobugorha nokunyaniseka kwakhe, ebhala ngendlela ekuye kwafuneka enze imithetho engqongqo malunga nezinto azithumelayo ukuze angaweli kumgibe ofanayo. “Ndifuna ube nguwe wenene,” wabhala u-Itsines kwiposti ye-Instagram ngalo mxholo. "Ubomi bam, ukutya kwam, usapho lwam ayibobomi bakho, wonke umntu wahlukile. Ndithumela olu tshintsho ukukubonisa ukuba kukho amantombazana amaninzi aphuma apho kuhambo olwahlukeneyo. Zonke zinenjongo enye, ukonwaba, impilo kunye kufanelekile! Ungazami ukuhlala njengaye, okanye ukufana, nomntu omnye kwimidiya yoluntu. Zenzele ngokwakho. Thembeka. Bambelela kwimilinganiselo yakho yokuziphatha .. kwaye usoloko uzama ukuba ngoyena mntu ungcono. " (Jonga: U-Kayla Itsines Wabelana ngokuSebenza kwakhe kwemizuzu esi-7.)

U-O'Neill kunye ne-Itsines bazizilumko ngaphezulu kweminyaka yabo-bephila ubomi obonwabileyo, obunempilo buya kujongeka ngokwahlukileyo kuwo onke amabhinqa. Ekugqibeleni, yile nto iphantsi kwazo zonke iimpahla zokuzilolonga kunye neeselfie ezibilayo ezibaluleke kakhulu. Yiyo leyo inyaniso.

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