Buza iingcali: Ngaba uDavid Beckham ulungile malunga neePacifiers?

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• "Ngaphezulu kweminyaka emi-4, abantwana abasebenzisa i-pacifiers bathanda ukuba neengxaki zamazinyo, kwaye banokuba neengxaki ezongezelelweyo kwintetho nakwindlela yokukhula kolwimi."
  -Uben Michaelis, Ph.D.
• "Njengogqirha wamazinyo, ndineendaba ezimnandi: Imikhwa yokuncancisa ubhontsi kunye ne-pacifier iya kuba yingxaki ukuba iyaqhubeka ixesha elide."
  -UMisee Harris, iDDD
• "Ukuthetha 'ngeenxa zonke' i-pacifier kuchaphazela ukucacisa okucacileyo kunye nokucaca. Ndixelela abazali ukuba bacinge ukuba bangathetha ngento engalinganiyo emlonyeni wabo! ”
  -USherry Artemenko, M.A.
• “Kwithuba nje lokuphila, ubuntwana bobuntwana yeyona festile incinci. Ngokwemvelo abantwana bayaziyeka ezi zinto xa sele zilungile. ”
  - UBarbara Desmarais
• "Ndiqinisekile ukuba uHarper uya kugqirha wamazinyo owaziwayo owazisa usapho ngcono kunoluntu malunga neengozi zeedummies, iibinkies, pacifiers."
  -URyan A. Bell
• "Ukusetyenziswa kwezixoli kwiiyure ezininzi ngemini, yonke imihla, kunokuba nefuthe elibi kuphuhliso lolwimi, ukusebenza kweemoto zomlomo, kunye nokuphuhliswa kolawulo lwangaphakathi lokuthomalalisa kunye neendlela zokulwa nawuphi na umntwana."
  -U-Mayra Mendez, Ph.D.

Udumo luneziphene zalo. Umzekelo, ukuba udume njengoDavid Beckham, ngekhe uthathe intombi yakho eneminyaka emi-4 ubudala uyikhuphe esidlangalaleni nge-pacifier emlonyeni wayo ngaphandle kokufumana ingqalelo kwihlabathi liphela.

Ukhetho lokuba ngumzali kwimbali yebhola ekhatywayo eneminyaka engama-40 kunye nenkosikazi yakhe uVictoria, umyili wefashoni kunye neSpice Girl yangaphambili, yaqaqanjiswa okokuqala kwiDaily Mail ekuqaleni kwale veki. Iphephandaba laseBrithani lathi ukuvumela umntwana oneminyaka yobudala bukaHarper Beckham ukuba asebenzise i-pacifier kunokumvulela amazinyo kunye nemiba yokuthetha. Ngokwe-American Academy of Pediatrics, i-pacifiers kufuneka idimazeke emva kweminyaka eyi-4.

UPosh no-Becks bazenze zacaca iingcinga zabo: Bathi ayiyondaba yomnye umntu ukuba bona okanye nabani na umkhulisa njani umntwana. Kodwa ucinga ntoni iingcali zonyango kunye nophuhliso lwabantwana? Ngaba kuphosakele ukuba abantwana bakwazi ukuhamba nokuthetha basebenzise i-pacifier?

"Ngaphezulu kweminyaka emi-4, abantwana abasebenzisa i-pacifiers bathanda ukuba neengxaki zamazinyo, kwaye banokuba neengxaki ezongezelelweyo kwintetho nakwindlela yokukhula kolwimi."
-Uben Michaelis, Ph.D.

Ngokucacileyo, esi sisigqibo sobuqu. Ngokubanzi, ukuncancisa ii-pacifiers yinto elungileyo. Iintsana ezingaphantsi kweenyanga ezi-6 ezincanca i-pacifiers zisengozini esezantsi ye-SIDS [ngesiquphe ukufa kweentsana]. IAmerican Academy of Pediatrics iphakamisa ukulunyulwa kwabantwana kwi-pacifiers phakathi kweminyaka eyi-6 ukuya kwi-12 yeenyanga. Ukusuka kwimbono yengqondo, ii-pacifiers zinokuba yinto efanelekileyo yokutshintsha ezinceda iintsana zizihlaziye kwaye zikhuthaze, uninzi lweengqondo zengqondo zabantwana zihlala zithande abantwana abazifunayo, ukuya kuthi ga kubudala be-3 okanye i-4. , Abantwana abasebenzisa i-pacifiers bahlala benengxaki zamazinyo, kwaye banokuba neengxaki ezongezelelweyo ngentetho kunye nophuhliso lolwimi. Inokuphinda icebise iingxaki ngonxibelelwano olunokufuna ukulungiswa. ”

UBen Michaelis, Ph.D., yingcali yezengqondo kunye nebhlog kunye nesithethi esikhuthazayo, kunye nombhali we "Into yakho elandelayo enkulu." Tyelela eyakhe iwebhusayithi okanye umlandele kwi-Twitter @DrBenMichaelis.

"Njengogqirha wamazinyo, ndineendaba ezimnandi: Imikhwa yokuncancisa ubhontsi kunye ne-pacifier iya kuba yingxaki ukuba iyaqhubeka ixesha elide."
-UMisee Harris, iDDD

“Emva kokuba lo mfanekiso ubonakele, ngequbuliso wonke umntu waba yingcali yamazinyo. Ungathini ngokuncwina? Wonke umntwana ukhula ngokwahlukileyo, kwaye akukho ndlela ilula yokugweba into elungileyo kumntwana womnye umntu ohamba nje ngeminyaka yakhe. Njengogqirha wamazinyo wabantwana, ndineendaba ezimnandi: Izimbo zokuncancisa ubhontsi kunye ne-pacifier ziya kuba yingxaki kuphela ukuba ziyaqhubeka ngaphezulu kwexesha elide. Nokuba ungakanani na ubudala bomntwana wakho, ndingacebisa kakhulu isixhobo sokungenisa umoya, esivumela umoya ukuba ujikeleze. Oku kunciphisa ukuqina komkhwa wokuncanca womntwana kwaye kunciphise umngcipheko wokukhula kunye neengxaki zophuhliso.

Uninzi lwabantwana bayayeka le mikhwa bebodwa, kodwa ukuba basancancisa ukudlula iminyaka emi-3, isixhobo somkhwa sinokucetyiswa ngugqirha wamazinyo wabantwana njengendawo yokugqibela. Kodwa musa ukwenza impazamo- ezi zixhobo zombane ziya kuthi zifakwe isamente kwiimolar ezingasemva, kuthintela nayiphi na into ukuba ingangeni enkalakahleni. Kokunye, oku kudala umngeni kucoceko lwamazinyo. Kwelinye, ndibone abantwana befumana iindlela zokuncancisa ii-pacifiers zabo okanye zokufaka enye into endaweni yeso sixhobo. ”

UMisee Harris, iDDD ngugqirha wamazinyo kwezemidlalo kunye nabantwana, kunye neblogger yokuphila. Ndwendwela iwebhusayithi yakhe okanye umlandele kwi-Twitter ku @sexiyest.

"Ukuthetha 'ngeenxa zonke' i-pacifier kuchaphazela ukucacisa okucacileyo kunye nokucaca. Ndixelela abazali ukuba bacinge ukuba bangathetha ngento engalinganiyo emlonyeni wabo! ”
-USherry Artemenko, M.A.

“Ngokuqinisekileyo ndingakuyekisa ukusetyenziswa kwe-pacifier ndineminyaka emi-3 nangaphezulu kuba abantwana bafunda ngokukhawuleza kwaye basebenzise ulwimi ngokuziqhelanisa. Ukuthetha 'ujikeleze' i-pacifier kuchaphazela ukucacisa okucacileyo kunye nokucaca. Ndixelela abazali ukuba bacinge ukuba kuya kufuneka bathethe ngento engalinganiyo emlonyeni wabo! Abantwana abakwazi ukuchaneka kulwimi lwabo kunye nokuhamba kwemilebe, njengokuchukumisa incam yolwimi lwabo eluphahleni lomlomo wabo ngesandi 't' okanye 'd'. Bangadimazeka xa bengaqondwa, kwaye ngenxa yoko bathethe kancinci. ”

USherry Artemenko sisigulo sentetho yolwimi kunye nomcebisi wezinto zokudlala ojolise kubantwana abasaqala isikolo nakwizikolo zamabanga aphakamileyo abaneemfuno ezizodwa. Ndwendwela iwebhusayithi yakhe okanye umlandele kwi-Twitter @playonwordscom.

“Kwithuba nje lokuphila, ubuntwana bobuntwana yeyona festile incinci. Ngokwemvelo abantwana bayaziyeka ezi zinto xa sele zilungile. ”
- UBarbara Desmarais

Ngokoluvo lwam, abazali bahlala bekulangazelele kakhulu ukuyeka izinto ezinje ngeengxangxasi, iingubo zokhuselo, iibhotile, okanye nantoni na ethomalalisayo. Andinguye ugqirha wezifo zentetho, ugqirha, okanye isayikholojisti, kodwa kule minyaka ingama-25 ndisebenza nabazali, kusafuneka ndive ngomonakalo owenziwe kukusetyenziswa ixesha elide kwazo naziphi na kwezi zinto. Umhlobo wam osenyongweni uyeke bobabini abantwana bakhe babe ne-pacifiers de babe ubuncinci be-4, kwaye ndinokuxelela ukuba bobabini baphumelele eyunivesithi benomsebenzi owanelisayo kwaye abakaze babe nayo nayiphi na imiba yokuthetha. Omnye umntwana ufuna ii-brace, kodwa phantse bonke abantwana bafumana izihlangu ngoku. Ndicinga ukuba ukusetyenziswa gwenxa kwezikrini kunye neentsana kunye nabantwana abancinci yeyona nkxalabo inkulu kakhulu.

Nje ukuba ukhulise abantwana kwaye ujonge emva kwezinye zezi zinto ubuzixhalabisa ngazo, uzifumanisa ubuza: 'Kutheni ndimngxamele kangaka ukuba akhule?' Ubuntwana yeyona festile incinci. Ngokwemvelo abantwana bayaziyeka zonke ezi zinto xa sele zilungile. ”

UBarbara Desmarais ngumqeqeshi wokuba ngumzali oneminyaka engama-25 yamava, enemvelaphi kwimfundo yabantwana yasekuqaleni. Ndwendwela iwebhusayithi yakhe okanye umlandele kwi-Twitter @Coachbarb.

"Ndiqinisekile ukuba uHarper uya kugqirha wamazinyo owaziwayo owazisa usapho ngcono kunoluntu malunga neengozi zeedummies, iibinkies, pacifiers."
-URyan A. Bell

"Ndijonge intombi ka-David Beckham eneminyaka emi-4 ubudala nge-pacifier kwaye ndicinga ukuba… akukho nto. Ndiqinisekile ukuba uHarper uya kugqirha wamazinyo owaziwayo owazisa usapho ngokungcono kunasesidlangalaleni malunga neengozi zeedummies, iibinkies, ii-pacifiers… nantoni na. Ngokoluvo lwam, i-pacifier yenze umsebenzi wayo ngeminyaka emi-3, igcina umntwana ethule kwaye emnceda alale. Kodwa kwiminyaka eyi-4, ayenzi monakalo. Abantwana abafumani mazinyo asisigxina de babe malunga neminyaka emi-6 ubudala, ke masikhe siyeke ukugweba kude kube lelo xesha. Ndingabheja ukuba intombi kaDavid neVictoria yondleke kakuhle, ifundile, kwaye ifumana ezona zinto zibalaseleyo ebomini… kwaye oko kubandakanya ukuzola. ”

URyan A. Bell waziwa kakhulu ngamanqaku akhe abonisa ukuba ngumzali, ukuncancisa, nokunye okuninzi AndingoMntwana. Mlandele kuTwitter @ryan_a_bell.

"Ukusetyenziswa kwezixoli kwiiyure ezininzi ngemini, yonke imihla, kunokuba nefuthe elibi kuphuhliso lolwimi, ukusebenza kweemoto zomlomo, kunye nokuphuhliswa kolawulo lwangaphakathi lokuthomalalisa kunye neendlela zokulwa nawuphi na umntwana."
-U-Mayra Mendez, Ph.D.

“Zininzi izinto ezinokuthi zithathelwe ingqalelo ezinje ngobudala, ukukhula kwinqanaba, ukukhula, kunye neemfuno zonyango, ngaphambi kokuba sifikelele kwisiphelo sengozi. Eyona nto iphambili kukuba kuxhomekeke ekubeni umntwana usebenzisa ixesha elininzi kangakanani, kwaye ngaba ukusetyenziswa kwe-pacifier kubangela nakuphi na ukuphazamiseka kwimisebenzi yesiqhelo, njengokuthetha, ukunxibelelana, ukutya kunye nokulawula iimvakalelo?

Akuqhelekanga kubantwana abaneminyaka engama-4 ubudala ukuba basebenzise i-pacifiers, kwaye ukusetyenziswa kwe-pacifiers kudimazekile ngaphaya kobusana. Ukusetyenziswa kwee-pacifiers iiyure ezininzi ngemini, yonke imihla, kunokuba nefuthe elibi kuphuhliso lolwimi, ukusebenza kweemoto zomlomo, kunye nophuhliso lolawulo lwangaphakathi lokuthomalalisa kunye neendlela zokulwa nawuphi na umntwana. Umntwana oneminyaka emi-4 ubudala osebenzisa i-pacifier ngezihlandlo ezithile zokuthomalalisa ngokukhawuleza okanye ukuthuthuzela, kodwa ayeke phakathi kwemizuzu embalwa kwaye sele enentetho ephucukileyo kunye nolwimi kunye nokulawulwa kwemoto yomlomo, ngokoluvo lwam lwezonyango, akunakwenzeka wenzakaliswe kukusetyenziswa nje kancinci kwesixhobisi. ”

UMayra Mendez, Ph.D. ngumququzeleli wenkqubo yokukhubazeka kwengqondo kunye nophuhliso kunye neenkonzo zempilo yengqondo e-Providence Saint John's Child kunye neZiko loPhuhliso loSapho eSanta Monica, California.