U-Iskra Lawrence Wavula Ngokuzabalazela Ukuzilolonga Ngexesha Lokukhulelwa Kwakhe

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Kwinyanga ephelileyo, umlweli womzimba, u-Iskra Lawrence ubhengeze ukuba ukhulelwe umntwana wakhe wokuqala kunye nesithandwa sakhe uPhilip Payne. Ukusukela ngoko, umama oneminyaka engama-29 ubudala uye wahlaziya abalandeli bakhe malunga nokukhulelwa kwakhe kunye notshintsho oluninzi olufunyanwa ngumzimba wakhe.

Kwiposti ye-Instagram ekwabelwana ngayo kwimpelaveki, uLawrence wabhala ukuba uninzi lwabalandeli bakhe babuze malunga nokuba uqhubeka njani nomsebenzi wakhe wokuzilolonga nomntwana osendleleni. Ngelixa imodeli isitsho ngu ukukrola ixesha lokuzilolonga, wavuma nokuba bekunzima ukulungelelanisa indlela yakhe yesiqhelo, engqondweni nasemzimbeni. (Idibeneyo: I-Iskra Lawrence ikhuthaza njani abaseTyhini ukuba babeke i-#CelluLIT yabo kuMboniso oPheleleyo)

“Andizuxoka bekunzima,” wabhala uLawrence ku-Instagram ecaleni kothotho lweefoto zakhe kwiklasi yakutshanje ye-TRX yokuzilolonga, xa wayeneenyanga ezine ekhulelwe (ngoku usondela kumanqaku eenyanga ezintlanu). "Umzimba wam uziva wahlukile, amandla am ahlukile kwaye izinto eziphambili ngokubaluleka zam zahlukile. Nangona kunjalo, andikaze ndazi ngakumbi ngokufuna ukuba kwindawo efanelekileyo yokuba sisilumko kuba ndifuna umntwana uP abe nelona khaya lifanelekileyo."

Eqhubeka nesithuba sakhe, uLawrence uthe "uthatha kade" ngokuzilolonga kunye nokumamela imiqondiso yomzimba wakhe yemihla ngemihla ukumnceda amkhokele kukhetho lwakhe lokuzilolonga. “Ndikwabeke phambili ukukhusela amandla am,” wongeze watsho. "Akukho nto okanye akukho mntu unokundenza ndixinzeleleke okanye ndive naluphi na uhlobo lwendlela ngoku ngenxa yokuba amandla ondla emntwaneni wam." (Nantsi indlela ukuxhalaba kunye noxinzelelo kunokuchaphazela ukuzala kwakho.)

I-ICYDK, kuninzi okutshintshileyo xa kufikwa kwiingcebiso zeengcali malunga nokwenza umthambo ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Ngelixa ufanele rhoqo qhagamshelana ne-ob-gyn yakho ngaphambi kokuba ungene kwindlela entsha okanye uqhubeke nokusebenza kwakho okuqhelekileyo nosana endleleni, ngokuthetha ngokubanzi, abasetyhini abakhulelweyo banemida embalwa yokuzivocavoca ngokukhuselekileyo kunangaphambili, ngokwe-American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG ). Njengoko uLawrence watshoyo kwiposti yakhe, eyona nto iphambili kukufumana indlela yokuguqula umthambo ngokusekwe kwiimfuno zakho kunye nokwazi imida yakho ukuze ungazinyanzeli kude kakhulu. (Jonga: Iindlela ezi-4 ozifunayo zokutshintsha ukusebenza kwakho xa ukhulelwe)

Ngokuphathelele uLawrence, uthe usafunda eyona nto isebenzayo emzimbeni wakhe ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Kodwa umama olindeleyo ujonge phambili ekwabelaneni nabalandeli bakhe ngezinto ezintsha azifumeneyo: "Izolo kwiiveki ezingama-21, bendikhe ndanomnye wokuzilolonga," ubhale watsho. "[Ndi]saziva ngathi ndifumana umsebenzi. Umzimba wam uziva womelele kwaye uphila kwaye ndiziva ndifezeke kakhulu."

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