Yintoni iTherapist efuna ukuThetha kuBantu abaKhathazekileyo nguJo. Lo noShakira's Super Bowl Performance

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• Impendulo ku-Shakira kunye ne-J. Lo's Super Bowl Halftime Show
• Ukubuyela umva ngokuchasene no-Shakira kunye noJo Lo weSuper Bowl Halftime Show
• UGqirha uThatha ukugxekwa
• Umgca ongezantsi
• Uphengululo lwe

Akunakukhanyelwa ukuba uJennifer Lopez kunye noShakira bazise ~ubushushu kwiSuper Bowl LIV Halftime Show.

U-Shakira wayikhaba intsebenzo enxibe ilokhwe ebomvu ebomvu-mabini ehamba nomdaniso "wehips Musa ukuxoka". Emva koko u-J. Lo ubuyise i-90s ngo "Jenny ovela eBlock", "Get Right", kunye no "Waiting for Tonight" ngelixa enikezela ngesikhumba esithandekayo. I-superstar eneminyaka engama-50 ubudala yaze yazisa undwendwe olukhetheke kakhulu, intombi yayo eneminyaka eli-12 ubudala uEmme, ukuba idlale naye ngexesha lomboniso.

Ngokudibeneyo, iinkwenkwezi ezimbini zepop zibeka umboniso wokukhumbula, zihlonipha ilifa labo ngelixa zibonisa iitalente zabo kunye nezemidlalo ezingenakulinganiswa.

Impendulo ku-Shakira kunye ne-J. Lo's Super Bowl Halftime Show

Ngokungathandabuzekiyo, uninzi lwabantu kwi-Twitterethandwayo ukusebenza kweembonakalo. Ngokukodwa, abantu abaninzi bayayixabisa indlela uShakira noJ. Lo ababemele ngayo iinkcubeko zabo zaseLatina. "Uluntu lwaseLatino lumelwe ngokuzingca ngobu busuku ngookumkanikazi ababini kwaye siyayithanda loo nto," wathumela umyalezo ngomntu omnye. Abanye bathi intsebenzo ibonisa amandla amantombazana kwaye yenza indima yayo ekuhlanganiseni abafazi bemibala kunye.

Kwelinye inqaku, abanye abalandeli bathathe imithombo yeendaba zentlalo ukukhumbuza wonke umntu ukuba ubudala ngenene linani nje- kwaye u-J. Lo kunye no-Shakira bangqine ukuba imvakalelo ingcono kunaye nabani na ngexesha lomsebenzi wabo we-Super Bowl Halftime Show. "Omnye uneminyaka engama-43 enye ingama-50. Igama elinye: IINKOSIKA," wathumela umyalezo ngomntu omnye.

"Onjani umboniso wetalente, amandla, iimbaleki kunye nobuhle," wongezelela omnye. "Ndonwabile kakhulu kubo bobabini kunye nabalandeli babo, abalinde ixesha elide ukubabona benqoba umhlaba." (Inxulumene: UJennifer Lopez wamaXesha aBalaseleyo oQeqesho oya kukuKhuthaza ukuba uhlasele iiNjongo zakho)

Ukubuyela umva ngokuchasene no-Shakira kunye noJo Lo weSuper Bowl Halftime Show

Ngaba yayiza kuba yintoni iSuper Bowl ngaphandle kwengxabano? Ngaphandle kokudunyiswa kokudumisa kukaShakira noJ. J.'s Super Bowl Halftime Show ukusebenza, abasebenzisi abaliqela be-Twitter baziva ukuba lo mboniso "awulunganga"

“Ndineentloni ukuba abantwana bam babukele lo mboniso wesiqingatha sexesha,” kuTwitter omnye umntu. "Iipali ze-Stripper, i-crotch, kunye nezithonga zangasemva ... akukho sidima."

I-tweet efanayo ifundeka ngoluhlobo: "Umboniso wawungaphaya kokudanisa kwaye unemidaniso yokuqhekeza, ukubamba iqweqwe nokuqengqeleka eqongeni unganxibanga ungeniswa kumagumbi okuhlala eMelika azaliswe ziintsapho kwaye abantwana bayenyanyeka! ISuper Bowl yeyomntu wonke kwaye akufuneki ukalwe XXX." (Idibeneyo: Ngaba uMzi-mveliso woKulolonga uneNgxaki "yokuHlaziya iSexual"?)

Abanye abantu baphikise ukuba umboniso wayengekho Ukuxhobisa abasetyhini, becebisa ukuba yeyona nto "ibuyisela umva" kubufazi kunayo nantoni na eyenye. Omnye umntu wade wathumela i-tweet ukuba intsebenzo "ibonakalisa amantombazana amancinci ukuba ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo kwabasetyhini kulungile."

"Ngokuxhaphaza abantu basetyhini kukhula kwihlabathi liphela, endaweni yokwehlisa imigangatho, thina njengoluntu kufanele ukuba siyayinyusa," ubhale watsho.

Omnye umntu wayevakalelwa kukuba ukusebenza kuka-Shakira no-J. Lo "kwakubi" kwaye "kukuzenzisa." (Idibeneyo: U-Lena Dunham uthi iNdlela yokuPhila ayisiyiyo eyokuLwela ubuNina)

"Ababhinqileyo bayakhwaza ngokuhlonipha abantu basetyhini emva koko bajonge abantu basetyhini ngokudanisa 'kodidi lwabo oluphantsi," yaqhubeka le ntetho.

Abanye baye bafaka izikhalazo kwi-Federal Communications Commission (FCC) malunga ne-Shakira kunye ne-J. Lo's Super Bowl Halftime Show ukusebenza. Ngapha koko, i-FCC ifumene izikhalazo ezingaphezu kwe-1,300 ezivela kubantu kwilizwe liphela kwiiyure ezilandela umboniso, ngokutsho kwesikhululo seendaba saseTexas TV, IWFAA. Ababukeli abafake izikhalazo bebexhalabile kukuba intsebenzo "ibingafanelekanga kubaphulaphuli ngokubanzi" kwaye "bekungekho silumkiso esidlangalaleni esinikiweyo malunga nokuziphatha okungamanyala" komboniso.

Andibhalisi kwi-Playboy Channel, asithengi i-porn nge-20 yeedola, sifuna nje ukuhlala phantsi njengosapho kwaye sibukele i-Super Bowl, utshilo omnye umbukeli waseTennessee. "UThixo akanakuba sasilindele ukubukela ibhola kunye nekonsathi ekhawulezayo kodwa endaweni yoko amehlo ethu ahlukunyezwa. Iintloni kuni nonke ngokuvumela ukuba oko kungene kumakhaya ethu."

UGqirha uThatha ukugxekwa

Ukuphendula koku kugxekwa, abantu abaliqela beza kuJo Lo no-Shakira ukuzikhusela. Phakathi kwabo yayinguRachel Wright, MA, LMFT, ugqirha wezengqondo kunye nomtshato kunye nengcali kwezobudlelwane. Kwiposti ecingisisiweyo ku-Instagram, uWright wabelane ngeengcinga zakhe ngokugxeka, esithi waziva "enyanzelekile" ukuba aphawule ngalo mbandela. (Khumbula elo xesha abalandeli bakaLady Gaga behlisa ii-body-shamers ngexesha leSuper Bowl?)

"Abantu abanxibe into ebenza bazive benomdla kwaye bexhotyisiwe yinto elungileyo," uWright ubhale kwincwadi yakhe.

Ewe kunjalo, njengemvakalelo ngokubanzi, ukuphawulaekabani Umzimba, inkangeleko iyonke, kunye / okanye ukhetho lwempahla alupholanga — yima ngokupheleleyo. Yiyo yabo ukhetho kunye yabo ishishini. Oko kwathiwa, njengoko uWright esitsho, zikhona ke imigangatho ephindwe kabini yamadoda nabafazi, ngakumbi xa kufikwa kwinkangeleko yomzimba. Kwimeko yenqaku: Uyakhumbula xa uAdam Levine wayikhupha ihempe yakhe phakathi kwe-2019 Super Bowl LIII Halftime Show performance?

U-Wright uthi: “[ULevine] wayephaya phezulu engenasinxibo Ubume. "Ungandivi kakubi, ibintle. Kodwa wayekhuphe iingono zakhe, kwaye akukho mntu waziva engelobuhlobo nosapho. Ke, kutheni aba bafazi babini, [babonisa] iitalente zabo, bathathwa njengabangafanelekanga? , nangona babembethe ngokupheleleyo? "

Kwaye, ukuba ujonga ngokusondeleyo, uJo Lo ubonakala enxibe ii-leggings ezininzi phantsi kwengubo yakhe, utshilo uWright. UShakira, kwelinye icala, waveza kuphela imilenze kunye ne-midriff, eyahlukileyo kunxiba isuti yokuqubha elwandle, utshilo uWright.

"Banxibe iimpahla ezincinci njengabasetyhini kwi-ballet," uyongezelela. "Kodwa ii-ballerinas zithathwa njengezodidi kwaye ziyaxatyiswa ngenxa yemidlalo, ngelixa aba bafazi bengekho. Ngumanyano thina, njengabantu abadala, esenza imidlalo efana nale enengxaki, hayi imidlalo ngokwayo."

Yile mibutho yenze ukuba abantu abaninzi bazive bengakhululekanga ngomboniso wokudanisa, uWright wabhala ngeposi. "Ukudanisa epalini ngumngeni, umdlalo wezemidlalo kwaye mhle umdaniso," wabelane naye. "Ibizwa ngokuba yi-POLE DANCING."

Enyanisweni, iingcali ezininzi zokomelela ziye zabelana ngendlela enokuba ngumceli mngeni umdaniso wepali: "[Pole dancing] idibanisa ngokufanelekileyo uqeqesho lwamandla, ukunyamezela, kunye noqeqesho oluguquguqukayo lube yinto enye yokuzonwabisa," umhlohli uTracy Traskos, wase-NY Pole, ekwabelwana nathi ngaphambili. "Yeyoga, Pilates, TRX, kunye nePhysique 57 zonke zisongelwe zaba nye. Kwaye kwizithende eziphakamileyo!" (Nazi ezinye izizathu ezisi-8 zokuba kufuneka uzame ukomelela.)

Kwakhona ngokukhawuleza iba yenye yeendlela ezishushu zomzimba, ngenxa yendlela ewutyhala ngayo umzimba nengqondo yakho. "Ukudanisa kwepole kufezekisa izinto ezininzi ngaxeshanye. Ayisiyiyo kwaphela eyomeleleyo yomzimba womzimba ongasentla kunye nokwakha amandla, kodwa kukwabelana ngesondo, ngokwasemphefumlweni, indlela yokubonisa, kunye nokuzihlola," u-Amy Main, co -umvelisi wefilimu Kutheni ndiDanisa, sixelelwe kwangaphambili. "Lona luhlobo lwempilo oluguqukayo kakhulu endakha ndanalo. Kwaye andizange ndithande kakhulu umzimba wam kunye neegophe!"

Nditsho noJ.Lo-ibhinqa eli, ngokweengxelo zonke, irhamncwa kwindawo yokuzivocavoca-livuleleke malunga namandla omzimba kunye nokuqina okufunekayo ukuze ufunde ukudansa: "Kunzima emzimbeni wakho," utshilo emva kwe-scenes. Ividiyo esetyenziselwa ukukhuthaza ifilimu yakhe yamva nje, Hustlers. "I-acrobatic ngokwenene. Ndifumene ukusikeka kunye nemivimbo kunye nezinto ezivela kwiimuvi, kodwa andikaze ndenzakaliswe ngoluhlobo kuyo nantoni na endiyenzileyo." (BTW, nantsi indlela uShakira noJ. Lo abalungiselela ngayo ukusebenza kwabo kweSuper Bowl.)

Umgca ongezantsi

Ukonakalisa iindlela ezahlukileyo zokudanisa yenye into. Kodwa uWright uthathe umba obalulekileyo ngengcebiso yokuba ukusebenza kukaShakira noJ.

“Yinto echaseneyo ngqo,” utshilo uWright Ubume. "Inqaku elipheleleyo lobufazi kukuba abantu kufuneka bakwazi ukwenza le nto bayifunayo kwaye banxibe into abayifunayo kuba lilungelo labo elisisiseko." (Idibeneyo: Abasetyhini babelane ngamanye amaNqaku amnandi abaye bawafumana malunga nomzimba wabo)

Ngapha koko, uWright angakuphikisa oko ukuthuka okanye ukugxeka omnye umfazi ngendlela bayakhetha ukunxiba kukuchasene noluntu ngokwalo, uyongeza. "Ukuba uyabahlonipha abantu basetyhini, kuya kufuneka ubahloniphe ngelixa besabelana ngesondo, ingeyiyo eyokwabelana ngesondo, okanye nantoni na ephakathi," uyacacisa. "Ukubuza loo nto, kwaye [ukuhamba] ngokuchasene nendlela umfazi akhetha ngayo ukuwola umzimba wakhe, ayisiyonto yabasetyhini."

Nangona kukho inkqubela phambili ekuqhubeleni phambili kubufazi, uWright uthi uziva ngathi usemninzi umsebenzi ekufuneka wenziwe. “Kufuneka siqale ukuthatha uxanduva kwezi meko,” utsho njalo. "Kufuneka sizibuze ukuba kutheni ezi zinto zisenza singakhululeki kwaye sikulungele ukuva izimvo zabanye abantu."

Konke kuphelela ekubeni nengqondo evulekileyo, utshilo uWright. "Kufuneka siqale ukuzifundisa kwaye sifunde ukuba novelwano endaweni yokugxekana," uxelela Ubume. "Xa umisela umda kumbono wakho ngoluhlobo, ubambisa umbono wakho wehlabathi. Kulapho inkqubela iba nzima, ukuba ayinakwenzeka."

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