UKate Upton kunye noKelly Clarkson baXhamle ngaphezulu kokuncancisa kunye nokuBeka umzimba

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Xa oomama abadumileyo bethetha ngokukhululekileyo malunga nokuba kunjani ukuba ngumzali-ukusuka ekukhulelweni kunzima ukuya ebomini kunye nabantwana abancinci-inceda oomama abaqhelekileyo yonke indawo bazive bencinci bebodwa kwizinto abanokuthi bahambe nazo.

Ekuqaleni kwale veki, uKate Upton umeUmboniso kaKelly Clarkson ukuncokola nomnxibelelanisi wentetho osandula ukuveza malunga nazo zonke izinto zokuba ngumzali.

Aba babini bathethe ngokungathandabuzekiyo ngezihloko ezininzi, ukusuka ekuncanciseni, ekuqinisekiseni umzimba ngexesha nasemva kokukhulelwa, nayo yonke into ephakathi. (Eyeleleneyo: Kutheni uKate Upton egxile kakhulu kuMandla akhe okuzuzwa kunokuphulukana nobunzima)

Kwisihloko sokuncancisa, uClarkson kunye no-Upton bafumana uninzi lomhlaba ofanayo. Zombini ii-mamas zavuma ukuba "ukumpompa yeyona nto imbi kakhulu," kunye Idol yaseMelika alum esongeza: "Kubuhlungu kakhulu, andikhathali nokuba umntu uthini."

UClarkson wade wakhumbula ixesha xa wayencancisa ngelixa esebenza kwaye wafumanisa ukuba umntu othile ngempazamo wayilahla ibhotile "ngentwana encinci" yobisi lwakhe lwebele olusele kuyo. "Ndangena egumbini lam ndaza ndawa phantsi ndaza ndalila. Ndandifana, 'Awunalo nofifi lokuba ndisebenze nzima kangakanani kuloo nto!'" UClarkson wabelane. "Kwaye ngenene, kwakungekho nto ebhotileni; ndiyaphambana. Kodwa, ngokoqobo, lixesha lamahomoni. Andicingi ukuba abantu bayayithathela ingqalelo loo nto, ngakumbi xa singabafazi emehlweni abantu. lixesha elinzima. " (Idibene: UKelly Clarkson wafunda njani ukuba ukuba Mncinci akufani nokuba seMpilo)

"Amandla ethu athatyathwa kuthi [xa sincancisa]," wongeze watsho u-Upton. "Ke awuziva ngathi uwedwa. Kunzima kwaye into ekufuneka abantu bayithethe ngaphezulu."

U-Upton ukwavuleleke kuClarkson malunga nekhava yakhe yamva nje Impilo's inkupho kaSeptemba, apho wabonisa khona ngokupheleleyo unretouched iinyanga ezintandathu emva kokuba umntwana wakhe oyintombazana, Genevieve-imenza inkwenkwezi yokuqala eqweqwe lweqweqwe kwimbali yemagazini.

Isupermodel eneminyaka engama-27 ivumile ukuba ibisancancisa ngexesha lokudubula, ityhila ukuba "iyaphazamiseka" kuba "yayinoxinzelelo" kuye wonke umntu oseti, kubandakanya neqela lakhe le-glam, owayesazi ukuba ngekhe kubekho ithuba lokuhlela iinkcukacha ezincinci kwiifoto, njengenxeba emlenzeni ka-Upton, umzekelo.

U-Upton ucacisile, nangona kunjalo, ukuba bekubalulekile kuye ukuba asebenzise ukudubula nokuba kukho isiphithiphithi. “Siku-Instagram ngalo lonke ixesha, kwaye sibona abantu befota yonke into,” uxelele uClarkson. Iphela nini? oyena mntu wokwenene kunye nefuthe lokwenyani kwabanye abantu. " (Idibeneyo: Yonke ifoto kule Phulo lokuDada elinomdla alichazwanga)

Kodwa nangaphambi kwe-Upton's Impilo Ukudubula, imodeli ihlala ifumana amagqabantshintshi ngomzimba wakhe, watsho uClarkson.

"Xa [ukugxekwa] kwakuqala ukwenzeka, kwakunzima ngenene," Upton wabelane. "Ndandinje, 'Ndisebenza ngamaxesha onke, kutheni wonke umntu endibiza ngokuba ngamanqatha?'

Kule mihla, "incoko itshintshe ngokupheleleyo," utshilo u-Upton. "Oko kubonisa nje ukuba ishishini litshintsha njani, indlela elibaluleke ngayo ilizwi lethu, nezinto zinokutshintsha. Sithetha into. Singayitshintsha into." (Inxulumene: UKelly Clarkson uthi uziva esabelana ngesondo kunanini na emva komtshato nabantwana)

U-Upton emva koko wabelana ngaloo nto ngenxa yempembelelo yakhe Impilo ikhava, ngoku uqalile eyakhe i-Instagram hashtag enomzimba, #ShareStrong, ukwenza indawo yabafazi apho banokwabelana khona ngokwabo kwaye yintoni ebakhuthazayo ukuba bomelele.

I-ICYDK, zombini i-celebs kunye nabantu abaqhelekileyo ngokufanayo bathathe i-Instagram nge-hashtag ka-Upton, besabelana ngayo yonke into ukusuka kwi-selfie ye-no-makey ukuya kubumama bokwenza. "Kuyinto enkulu kakhulu ukuya kwi-hashtag kwaye ufumane inkuthazo kubo bonke abanye abafazi ngenxa yokuba somelele, kwaye sikwazi ukwabelana ngamandla omnye komnye yinto eyenza abafazi bamangalisa," u-Upton utshele uClarkson.

Isupermodel yathi "#ShareStrong" yintombi yakhe: "Ndifuna ukuba ngumzekelo anokujonga kuwo, kwaye ndifuna ukudala ilizwe elonwabileyo, elisempilweni ukuze akhulele kulo."

Ukhuthazwe ngumbono wokuxhobisa u-Upton malunga nokuba ngumama, umama omtsha kubaphulaphuli ogama linguAlex wabelana ngebali lakhe Umboniso kaKelly Clarkson, etyhila ukuba woyika indlela umzimba wakhe onokutshintsha ngayo ngexesha nasemva kokukhulelwa. Kodwa xa uAlex wayenomntwana oyintombazana, wabona u-Upton Impilo Ingqondo kwaye ingqondo yakhe yatshintsha ngokupheleleyo. "Andinatyala lamntu 'mhle' okanye 'ogqibeleleyo' okanye 'ubhityile' okanye nantoni na," utshilo u-Alex onenyembezi ku-Upton. "Ukuba ngumzekelo nje kwintombi yam kwaye ube ngumntu nje onokujonga kuye, kwaye womelele kwintombi yam, yeyona nto ndingayiyo." (Idibeneyo: Ukuvuma kukaMfazi okubuhlungu malunga nokuncancisa #SoReal)

U-Upton uthe ngamabali afana naka-Alex enza umsebenzi wakhe uzive unomvuzo ngokwenene.

"Ithetha lukhulu kum. Xa usiva konke ukugxekwa, ngamanye amaxesha ufana nokuthi 'Kutheni ndisenza lento? sonke siyiyo kunye. Sonke siyayifumana kunye. "

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