Kutheni unganyanzelekanga ukuba ukhethe phakathi kweMisipha kunye nobufazi, NgokukaKelsey Wells

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Xa kuziwa kwimizimba yabasetyhini, abantu ababonakali ngathi babambe ukugxeka kwabo. Nokuba kukuhlazisa ngamanqatha, kukuhlazisa ulusu olunqanqathekileyo, okanye kwabasetyhini ngesondo, ukuhamba okuzinzileyo kwezimvo ezimbi kuyaqhubeka.

Abasetyhini bezemidlalo abanjalo-inqaku likaKelsey Wells elenziwe kwi-Instagram post enamandla. (Inxulumene: UKelsey Wells uyigcina eyinyani malunga nokungabi nzima kakhulu kuwe)

"Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ukhethe phakathi kokuba womelele OKANYE ube sesichengeni. Uthobekile OKANYE uzithembe. Imisipha OKANYE ubufazi. Ulondolozo OKANYE u-sexy. Ukwamkela OKANYE uqinile kumaxabiso akho," ubhale watsho umqeqeshi we-SWEAT. "Ubomi abukho lula OKANYE bunzima, buhle OKANYE bunzima kwaye intliziyo yakho ayisoloko igcwele OKANYE ibuhlungu." (Eyeleleneyo: U-Kelsey Wells Wabelana Ngento Ethetha Ngayo Ukuziva Uxhotyisiwe Ngokuqina)

U-Wells wabelane ngesikhumbuzo esibalulekileyo ecaleni kweefoto zakhe ezisecaleni. Ngomnye umfanekiso, unxibe iimpahla zokuzilolonga, ephethe i-dumbbell, kwaye eguqula izihlunu zakhe. Kwelinye, likhazimlisiwe kwaye linxibe ilokhwe entle entle yomgangatho. Inqaku lakhe? Ungumfazi ngokulinganayo kuzo zombini iifoto, nangona abanye abantu banokucinga ngenye indlela. (Idibeneyo: USia Cooper uthi uziva ngathi "ungowesifazana ngakumbi kunakuqala" emva kokususa izinto zakhe zebele)

“Ukuba ungumfazi, umzimba wakho mhle ngokwendalo kwaye ubufazi awubalulekanga kubunzima bezihlunu okanye ubume bomzimba okanye ubungakanani ngenxa yokuba UNGUMFAZI,” ubhale watsho. "Yeka ukuzabalaza ukuze ulungele ukubumba umhlaba obekwe phambi kwakho owenziwe kwizimvo zabanye nakwimigangatho yoluntu eguquguqukayo. Ngapha koko, thatha loo mbumbulu uze uyikhawuleze." (Fumana ukuba kutheni uKelsey Wells efuna ukuba ucinge ngokulahla ubunzima bomgomo wakho.)

Kungokwemvelo ukufuna ukwahlulahlula izinto ngendlela uWells azichaza ngayo. Kodwa ubuhle bokwenene busoloko bufumaneka kwiindawo ezingwevu zobomi, nto leyo kanye kanye akukhuthaza ngayo uWells ukuba uyamkele. Ugqiba ngento entle, kwaye ubufazi yinto oyenzayo.

“UNGUYE, hayi OKANYE,” ubhale uWells, equkumbela isithuba sakhe. "Nina nonke niyinxalenye yenu. Nigqibelele, nina. Yamkelani inyaniso yenu kwaye nithathe inxaxheba ekutyhilekeni kwenu. NYHELANI KUMANDLA ANU."

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