UMeghan Trainor Uthetha Ngokucacileyo malunga neentlungu zeemvakalelo kunye nezasemzimbeni zokukhulelwa kwakhe okunzima kunye nokubeleka

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Ingoma entsha kaMeghan Trainor, "Glow Up" inokuba ngumhobe kuye nabani na osondele kutshintsho oluqinisekileyo lobomi, kodwa kuMqeqeshi, amazwi abhalwe ngobuqu. Emva kokubeleka umntwana wakhe wokuqala, uRiley, nge-8 kaFebruwari, uQeqeshi wayekulungele ukubuyisa umzimba wakhe, impilo yakhe, kunye nobomi bakhe-zonke ezo zavavanywa ngexesha lokukhulelwa okunesidima kunye nokuhanjiswa okunzima okwashiya unyana wakhe kwigumbi labagula kakhulu iintsuku ezine.

I-snag yokuqala kuhambo lokuqala lokumitha lokuphumelela kwe-Grammy yafika kwikota yesibini, xa yafumana uxilongo olungalindelekanga: isifo seswekile, isifo esichaphazela malunga neepesenti ezi-6 ukuya kwezi-9 zabasetyhini abakhulelweyo e-United States, ngokweZiko leZifo Ulawulo noThintelo.

"Ngaphandle kwesifo seswekile sokukhulelwa, bendingumdlali we-rock," imvumi ithi Ubume. "Ndandilungile ngokwenene ukuba ndikhulelwe, ndenza into entle. Andizange ndigule ekuqaleni, ndabuza imibuzo emininzi, 'ingaba ndikhulelwe? Ndiyazi ukuba andinawo umjikelo wam kwaye novavanyo lutsho, kodwa ndiziva ndiqhelekile . "

Umqeqeshi uthi yayilihlaya elingacwangciswanga kuvavanyo oluqhelekileyo olukhokelele ekufumanekeni kwakhe ekugqibeleni, okungabangeli zimpawu zibonakalayo kubafazi abaninzi. Ndenze uvavanyo lwegazi kuba ndizama ukwenza ihlaya kwaye ndenza lula igumbi, utshilo. "Ndathi, 'umama uthe unesifo seswekile sokukhulelwa kodwa ucinga ukuba kungenxa yokuba wasela ijusi enkulu ye-orange ngaloo ntsasa kwaye yiloo nto ifake iswekile yegazi."

Amagqabantshintshi alula kaMqeqeshi engaqondanga alumkisa oogqirha bakhe kwiflegi ebomvu enokubakho. Ngelixa oonobangela abangaqondwa kakuhle, uninzi lwabasetyhini abanesifo seswekile sokukhulelwa banelungu elinye losapho elinesi sifo okanye esinye isifo seswekile. Kwaye i-spike yeswekile yegazi likanina yayingeyiyo i-anecdote ehlekisayo-yayibonisa oogqirha bakhe kwinto yokuba umama wakhe kusenokwenzeka ukuba wafumana ukusabela okungaqhelekanga kwiswekile, uphawu olunokubakho lwesigulo. Ukuvavanya isifo seswekile kubasetyhini abakhulelweyo, oogqirha bahlala besenza uvavanyo lokunyamezela i-glucose apho isigulana sisela isisombululo esineswekile ephezulu emva kokuzila ukutya kwaye igazi labo livavanywe rhoqo kwiiyure ezininzi.

Iziphumo zokuqala zikaTrainer zaziqhelekile, kodwa emva koko kwafunyaniswa ukuba unesi sifo kwiiveki ezili-16. "Kufuneka ujonge igazi lakho emva kwesidlo ngasinye nasekuseni, ke amaxesha amane ngemini uthoba umnwe wakho kwaye uvavanye igazi lakho kwaye uqiniseke ukuba amanqanaba akho alungile, utshilo. "Ufunda kwakhona indlela yokutya ukutya kwaye andizange ndibe nobudlelwane obukhulu kunye nokutya, ngoko ke kwakungumngeni."

Ngelixa u-Trainor ekuqaleni wayibiza ngokuba "kukungqubeka endleleni," ukujonga rhoqo kunye nempendulo kwaba nefuthe elibalulekileyo kwimeko yakhe yeemvakalelo. Ngeentsuku zokungaphumeleli kuvavanyo kodwa wenze konke ngendlela eyiyo, uziva ungoyena usilelayo, utshilo. "[Ndandiziva] ngathi, 'Ndiyintsilelo njengomama kwaye umntwana akakho kwalapha.' Kwakunzima kakhulu emoyeni. Ndisacinga ukuba akukho [izixhobo] zaneleyo zokunceda abafazi abanesifo seswekile. "

Kodwa ukuxilongwa yayingumceli mngeni wokuqala umqeqeshi awayejamelene nawo ekuhambiseni unyana wakhe. Njengoko wayexelele abalandeli bakhe be-Instagram kwiposti kaJanuwari ye-Instagram, umntwana wakhe wayene-breech, okuthetha ukuba wayebekwe phezulu esibelekweni, iinyawo zakhe zikhombe kumjelo wokuzala-umcimbi owenzeka malunga neepesenti ezi-3-4 zabo bonke abakhulelweyo. kwaye yenza ukuzala kwelungu lobufazi kube nzima ngakumbi, ukuba akunakwenzeka.

"Kwiiveki ze-34, wayekwisikhundla [esifanelekileyo], wayekulungele ukuhamba!" uthi. "Kwaye emva kweveki emva koko, waphambuka. Wayethanda ukuba secaleni. Ndandifana, 'uyathandeka apha, ke ndiza kulungisa ubuchopho bam ukuze ndilungele icandelo le-C." ICandelo le-C limenze waziva ngathi "usilele")

Kodwa into ahlangabezene nayo uMqeqeshi ngexesha lokuhambisa - ziintsuku nje ezimbalwa eneentloni ngomhla wakhe omiselweyo- yayisesinye isithintelo esingalindelwanga waziva engakulungelanga kwaphela. Uthi: “Xa ekugqibeleni waphumayo, ndikhumbula ukuba sasijonge kuye, ‘wow’ uyamangalisa,’ ndothuka,” utsho. "Sonke sonwabile kwaye sibhiyozela kwaye ke bendifana," kutheni engalili? Kuphi oko kulila? Kwaye khange ize. "

Imizuzu embalwa elandelayo yayisisivunguvungu njengoMqeqeshi-wayexakekile kwaye ekwimeko yovuyo emva kokubona unyana wakhe okokuqala-wazama ukudibanisa ulandelelwano lweziganeko ezisemva kotyando. Uthi: “Bathi, ‘siza kumkhwelisa,’ yaye umyeni wam wabacenga ukuba bandivumele ndimjonge. "Ngoko bambalekise baze [baze] babaleke baphume, ndiye ndanomzuzwana omnye wokumjonga."

U-Riley wakhawuleza wabalekiselwa kwi-NICU apho wanikwa ityhubhu yokutya. Uthi: “Bandixelela yonke into ‘ngexesha awayefuna ukuvuka ngalo. "Bendifana," vuka? ' Baye bandixelela ukuba oku kwenzeka kwiintsana ze-C-section kwaye ndandifana, 'kutheni ndingazange ndive ngayo? Kutheni le nto iyinto eqhelekileyo kwaye akukho mntu uphazamisayo xa, kum, ebonakala ngathi unayo. imibhobho kuyo yonke indawo?' Kwakukhathaza kakhulu kwaye kunzima kakhulu. " (Inxulumene: Olu hambo luKholelekayo lwalo Mfazi ukuya kuMama aluyonto imfutshane iyakhuthaza)

Ukhuthazwe ngulomntana uphume kuwe. Uyikhulisile loo nto. Kungenxa yakho bayaphila ngoku - kuyamangalisa. Ngoko thatha oko kwaye uzikhuthaze. Ndifuna ukuba unyana wam andijonge ndiphumeze yonke into ukuze azi ukuba angayenza loo nto, naye.

UHeather Irobunda, M.D., ugqirha wokubelekisa osekwe kwisiXeko saseNew York kunye nelungu lebhunga leengcebiso ngempilontle kaPeloton uthi ibali lale mvumi liqhelekile. “Kuvakala ngathi umntwana wakhe usenokuba une-tachypnea yexeshana yosana olusandul’ ukuzalwa,” utshilo, ephawula ukuba uhlala eyibona imeko izihlandlo ezininzi ngeveki xa esenza umsebenzi wakhe. I-TTN sisigulo sokuphefumla esibonwa kamsinya nje emva kokubeleka esihlala sihlala ngaphantsi kweeyure ezingama-48. Uphando malunga nokubeleka kwexesha (iintsana ezibelekwe phakathi kweeveki ezingama-37 nama-42), lucebisa ukuba i-TTN yenzeka malunga ne-5-6 kwi-1,000 yokuzalwa. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba kwenzeke kwiintsana ezihanjiswa ngecandelo le-C, ezizalwe kwangoko (ngaphambi kweeveki ezingama-38), kwaye zizalwe ngumama onesifo seswekile okanye isifuba, ngokutsho kweThala leLizwe lezeMpilo laseMelika.

I-TTN inokwenzeka kakhulu kwiintsana ezizalwe ngecandelo le-C kuba "xa usana luzalwa kwilungu lobufazi, uhambo oluya kumjelo wokuzalwa lukhama esifubeni somntwana, olwenza ukuba nolunye ulwelo oluya kuqokelela emiphungeni lucudiswe luze uphume ngomlomo wosana, "kucacisa uGqirha Irobunda. "Nangona kunjalo, ngexesha lecandelo le-C, akukho kukhama kwilungu lobufazi, ke ulwelo lunokuqokelela emiphungeni." (Eyeleleneyo: Inani lokuZalwa kweCandelo le-C linyuke kakhulu)

"Ngesiqhelo, siba nexhala malunga nokuba umntwana unale nto ukuba, ekuzalweni, umntwana ubonakala esebenza nzima ukuze aphefumle," utshilo uGqirha Irobunda. "Kwakhona, sinokuqaphela ukuba amanqanaba e-oksijeni yomntwana aphantsi kunesiqhelo. Ukuba oku kwenzeka, umntwana kufuneka ahlale kwi-NICU ukuze afumane i-oksijini eninzi."

Umqeqeshi uthi emva kweentsuku ezimbalwa, ekugqibeleni uRiley waqalisa ukuphucuka - kodwa yena wayengakulungelanga ukugoduka. Uthi: “Ndandiqaqanjelwa gqitha. "Bendifana," andizukuphila ekhaya, ndiyeke ndihlale apha. "

Emva kosuku olungaphezulu lokuchacha esibhedlele, umqeqeshi kunye nomyeni wakhe, umlingisi uDaryl Sabara, bazise uRiley ekhaya. Kodwa iintlungu zomzimba kunye neemvakalelo zamava zithathe inxaxheba. Uthi: "Ndizifumene ndikwintlungu engazange yabakhona." "Eyona nto yayinzima kuxa ndandifika ekhaya, kulapho [iintlungu] zathi zangqungqa. Ndandihamba-hamba ndilungile kodwa ke ndalala ndalala kwaye iintlungu zazibetha. Ndakhumbula utyando kwaye Ndandidla ngokumxelela umyeni wam ngoxa ndilila, 'Ndisababona xa besenza utyando.' Ngoku iintlungu ziqhagamshelwe kwinkumbulo kangangokuba bekunzima ukudlula. [Kuthathe] kangangeeveki ezimbini ukuvumela ingqondo yam ilibale ngayo. " (Idibeneyo: U-Ashley Tisdale uvule malunga naye "engaqhelekanga" Amava emva kokubeleka)

Inguquko kaTrainor yeza xa wafumana isitampu sokuvunywa ukuba aqale ukusebenza kwakhona-umzuzu athi uhlahle indlela "yokukhanya" acula ngayo kwingoma yakhe entsha, evezwe kwiphulo lamva nje leVerizon.

"Mhla ugqirha wam wandivumela ukuba ndizilolonge- ndandiyirhawuzelela - ndaqala ngoko nangoko ukuhamba kwaye ndaziva ndiziva ndibuyela ekubeni ngumntu," utshilo. "Bendifana, ndifuna ukugxila kwimpilo yam, ndifuna ukubuya ndive umzimba wam kwakhona. Xa ndandineenyanga ezilithoba ndikhulelwe, ndandingakwazi ukuphakama esofeni, ngoko ke andinakulinda ukuqala uhambo lwam ukugxila kum ngenxa yomntwana wam. " (Eyeleleneyo: Ungenza Kangakanani imithambo emva kokubeleka?)

Umqeqeshi waqala ukusebenza nesondlo kunye nomqeqeshi, kwaye kwiinyanga ezine emva kokubeleka, uthi uyaphumelela- kunjalo noRiley. “Uphilile ngoku,” utshilo. "Impilo epheleleyo. Wonke umntu uva nje ngale nto ngoku kwaye ufana, 'yiyiphi into ephazamisayo,' kwaye ndifana, 'oh sikhanya ngoku - oko kwakuyinyanga ezine ezedlulileyo.'

Umqeqeshi uthi uyayibulela impilo yosapho lwakhe, kodwa uyaliqonda ithamsanqa ebenalo ngokuphuma kwakhe ukusuka ekuqaleni kwakhe ukuya kutsho ekubeni ngumama. Udlulisela uvelwano kwabanye abafazi abakhulelweyo kunye noomama abatsha, kwaye unika amazwi obulumko.

“Ukufumana inkqubo efanelekileyo yenkxaso ngundoqo,” utshilo. "Ndinomama omangalisayo kunye nomyeni omangalisayo okhoyo yonke imihla kum kunye neqela lam. Xa ujikeleze abantu abalungileyo, izinto ezintle zenzeka kuwe. Kwaye uphefumlelwe yilo mntwana ophuma kuwe. Uyikhulisile loo nto. Kungenxa yakho bayaphila ngoku - kuyamangalisa. Thatha loo nto kwaye uzikhuthaze. Ndifuna unyana wam andijonge ndenze yonke into ukuze azi ukuba angayenza loo nto, naye.

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