Le Ngxelo yezeMidlalo ekhulelweyo ixakeke kakhulu imophula umsebenzi wakhe ukuze ivumele iishamers zoMzimba ziTrotle
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Umsasazi we-ESPN uMolly McGrath wayexela ecaleni komdlalo webhola ekhatywayo ebutsheni bale nyanga xa wayefumana i-DM engathandekiyo kwitroli ehlazisa umzimba. UMcGrath, okwangoku kwikota yakhe yesithathu, uhlala evumela ukuba loo magqabantshintshi ahambe kwisilayidi. Kodwa ngeli xesha, akavumanga ukuhlala phantsi. Endaweni yoko, kwi-Instagram post esuka entliziyweni, wabelana ngamandla omzimba wakhe okhulelweyo-ayisiyiyo nje yokukhula komntu omncinci, kodwa ukugcina umsebenzi odla ngokurhafisa ngokwasemzimbeni.
"Ngobusuku bokugqibela bendime ngenyawo ngaphezulu kweeyure ezintandathu ndithe ngqo, emvuleni, kwaye bendisazi ukuba ndiza kulala iiyure ezintathu kuphela ngenxa yotshintsho kwinqwelomoya lokugqibela," ubhale ecaleni komfanekiso obonisa ukuba unika ingxelo ecaleni . "Ngethuba lokuqala, mhlawumbi nanini, ndivumele i-troll ekhohlakeleyo ngeenguqu zomzimba wam okhulelweyo zifike kum." (Idibeneyo: Kutheni ukuhlazeka komzimba kuyingxaki enkulu kunye nento ongayenza ukuyiyeka)
Ukuqhubeka nomsebenzi wakhe, uMcGrath wavula malunga notshintsho olunzima emzimbeni wakhe, ngakumbi ngoku xa sele eza kufikelela esiphelweni sokukhulelwa kwakhe. “Iinyawo zam ziyadumba kwaye zibuhlungu ngendlela endingazange ndiyicinge kwaye umqolo wam uhlala uqaqamba,” ubhale watsho. "Singasathethi ke ngokubulawa kwezinye iimpawu ezifana nesicaphucaphu, isicaphucaphu, kunye nokudinwa." (Eyeleleneyo: Iziphumo ezingalindelekanga zokumitha ezingaqhelekanga ziqhelekile)
Ngayo yonke loo nto engqondweni, into yokugqibela uMcGrath ayikhathazayo ngale mihla yindlela umzimba wakhe ubukeka ngayo, wabhala. "Ndenza UBOMI BOMNTU," wabelane. "Umntwana endimthweleyo unokuhlala ngaphandle komzimba wam ngoku, kwaye umzimba wam oqinileyo we-esile wenze loo mntwana ukususela ekuqaleni."
Ngaphezulu koko, uMcGrath uthi umsebenzi wakhe ngokwawo awukho lula. "Umsebenzi wentatheli esecaleni unzima kuhambo, ukulungiselela, ukufumana ulwazi, kunye nenyani yokuba asize singene kusasazo kangangoko besinokuba negalelo," ubhale watsho. "Kodwa uyazi, andinakutshintsha naziphi na iimeko zam ngomzuzwana. Ndiziva ndinethamsanqa elimangalisayo lokufumana umsebenzi endiwuthandayo, kundenza ndilibale ukuba umntu omncinci ukhaba iimbambo zam."
Kudliwanondlebe no Ubomi bukaYahoo, UMcGrath uthe uthumele malunga nentetho ekrwada yetroll hayi ukubonisa nje ukuba abasetyhini akufuneki babe neentloni ngemizimba yabo, kodwa njengendlela yokunyusa ukubonakaliswa kwemizimba ekhulelweyo kumajelo eendaba. "Kunqabile ukubona umfazi okhulelweyo kumabonwakude, kodwa akufuneki ukuba umabonwakude abe ngummeli wehlabathi esiphila kulo?" uxelele iphuma. (Eyeleleneyo: I-Fat-Shaming inokuwonakalisa umzimba wakho)
Ngaphandle kokungakhathali, uMcGrath wabhala kwisithuba sakhe ukuba uyawuxabisa umzimba wakhe ngayo yonke into onokuyenza kwaye uyala ukubonisa isigwebo kuwo. "Ndiyazingcangokuba ndingumfazi okhulelweyo osebenza isigxina kwaye ndiyazingca ngokuba ubukhulu bokudala ubomi bomntu abuzange, kwaye abuzukundicothisa," wabelane. "Abafazi bayamangalisa kwaye banamandla kwaye nabani na ongayiboniyo angancamisa i-achey butt yam." (Eyeleleneyo: I-Twitter iphendula ngokugqibeleleyo emva kokuba uMzimba weTroll uhlaze utitshala ngesinxibo sakhe)
UMcGrath ukude nentatheli yokuqala ukuba phantsi kolu hlobo lokuziphatha okuhlazisa umzimba. Emuva ngo-2017, intatheli esekwe eDallas, eDemetria Obilor, wagxekwa ngenxa yegophe lakhe kunye nokukhetha iimpahla ngumbonisi ongaxolanga kuFacebook. Kutshanje, i-WREG-TV i-anchor yeendaba, uNina Harrelson uthethe emva kokuba indoda imxelele ukuba ujongeka "emkhulu" kumabonwakude. Kukwakho noTracy Hinson, isazi ngemozulu se-KSDK News, owaqhwaba emva kokuba i-troll imxelele ukuba ufuna ibhanti lokuvala isisu sakhe "iqhuma." (Faka ukuncwina okude apha.)
Ezi ziganeko ziyadimaza, kodwa abafazi abanjengoMcGrath, Obilor, Harrelson, kunye noHinson benze okungaphezulu kokuthatha nje ukungakhathali. Baye bawagxininisa la magqabaza anenzondo kumathuba okukhuthaza ukuzithemba kwabanye. Imeko: Emva kokuba uMcGrath wabelane ngamava akhe okuhlamba umzimba kwi-Instagram, wayekhukuliswe yimiyalezo evela kwabanye abafazi abakhulelweyo abasebenzayo abaziva benamandla ngebali lakhe.
"Hey @MollyAMcGrath. Screw the trolls. Andizange ndidibane nendoda enokuthi ikhuphe ukukhula kobomi bomntu ngelixa iqhubeka nokutyumza umsebenzi wabo, "u-anchor weTV u-Emily Jones McCoy wabhalela ecaleni kwesithombe sakhe esibika ecaleni.
"Qhubeka uyibulale, ntombazana!" Intatheli yezemidlalo uJulia Morales ubhale kwenye i-tweet. "Andinakulinda ndixelele usana lwam oluyintombazana ukuba lingakanani ixesha leTV alifumene ngaphambi kokuba azalwe. Ndaye ndayibamba ndaza ndayichaza kwiveki engu-38."
"Yithande yonke imifanekiso yabasasazi ababhinqileyo ebethumela ukuba basebenze emoyeni ngexesha lokukhulelwa," intatheli ye-NASCAR uKaitlyn Vincie wathumela umyalezo kunye nomfanekiso wakhe wasemoyeni.
"Nantsi ke enye: Iinyanga ezintandathu ukhulelwe, umntwana uyandikhaba ngalo lonke ixesha, ngakumbi uthanda xa ndithetha kumabonwakude. Ngaba ngekhe ibe nayo enye indlela!"