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Amanqaku okuolula awacaluli-kwaye yile nto kanye enefuthe lomzimba kuMilly Bhaskara ekujolise ekungqineni.

Umama omncinci uthathe i-Instagram kwangoko kule veki ekwabelaneni ngemifanekiso yomyeni wakhe uRishi, ezipeyintwe kwisilivere ebengezela. Kulo mfanekiso, unyana wabo, uEli, ubonwa ebeke intloko yakhe ethangeni likayise yaye encumile. (Idibeneyo: Lo mfazi usebenzisa i-Glitter ukukhumbuza wonke umntu otyhila amanqaku amhle)

"Amadoda nawo afumana amanqaku olula," uBhaskara ubhale ecaleni komfanekiso onamandla. "Ziqhelekile ngokugqibeleleyo kubo bonke ubulili."

Ngokuzenzela ububele, uBhaskara uthi yena nomyeni wakhe banethemba lokufundisa unyana wabo ngokwamkelwa komzimba esemncinane. Ubhale ubuze kule ndlu, siqhelanisa imizimba yesiqhelo kunye namanqaku esiqhelo, amaqhuma kunye namaqhuma, utshilo. "Siqhelekile ukuba ngumntu kunye nomzimba womntu." (Idibeneyo: Lo mfazi uQinisekayo kuMzimba uchaza ingxaki 'ngokuthanda iziphene zakho')

“Ngethemba lokuba iya kumnceda ekwamkeleni kwakhe umzimba xa emdala,” wongeze watsho.

Ngosuku olulandelayo, uBhaskara wabelane ngeefoto zakhe ezolulekileyo kunye nomyalezo ofanayo: "Yenza imeko yesiqhelo (nokuba yeyiphi na eqhelekileyo) kubantwana bakho," ubhale watsho. "Yenza ubungqingili ubungqingili, amanxeba, ukuchukumiseka kweplatonic, imvume, imida yomzimba, ukwamkeleka komzimba [nokuthetha kakuhle ngesiqu sakho."

Nangona imilinganiselo yobuhle engafanelekanga-kuquka inkolelo ephosakeleyo yokuba amanqaku alula kufuneka afihlwe, kunokuba abhiyozelwe-ixhaphake kakhulu kumajelo aqhelekileyo, abazali banethuba lokucela umngeni loo milinganiselo ekhaya kunye nabantwana babo, ukuba bakhetha njalo. Ukususela ekuphuhliseni ubudlelwane obuhle kunye nokutya kunye nokuzilolonga ukubeka phambili imikhwa yokuphila enempilo, abantwana banokuthatha ukuziphatha kwabazali babo kwasebuncinaneni.

Njengoko uBhaskara esitsho ngokwakhe: "Abantwana bakho bayayiva into oyithethayo. Bayayibona indlela owuphatha ngayo umzimba wakho ukuze ube nobubele kuwe nasemzimbeni wakho nokuba kuya kufuneka uwenze mbumbulu ekuqaleni kwabo!"

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