Omama abayi-7 babelana ngento ekuthanda ngokwenene ukuba neC-Section

Umxholo

• "Umzimba wam uziva ngathi izibilini zam bezisandula ukukhutshwa zaphoswa emva nangaliphi na ixesha."
• "Kwakukho umculo kunomathotholo kwaye oogqirha kunye nabongikazi babecula kunye neengoma ngokubambisana ngokungathi siseti yefilimu."
• "Ndaziva ndimangalisa kakhulu ukuba ndingaziva naziphi na iintlungu kodwa ukuziva behambisa iingaphakathi zam."
• "Ndandidiniwe, ndididekile, kwaye ndidanile. Abahlengikazi bandiqinisekisa ukuba andizange ndiphumelele."
• "Utyando ngokwalo lwaluyinto encinci yentlungu kum."
• "Nangona bendindindisholo, usayiva ingxolo, ngakumbi xa oogqirha bekophula amanzi."
• "Ndikhumbula ivumba elahlukileyo ngexesha lotyando, endathi kamva ndafunda ukuba livumba lamalungu namathumbu am."
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Ngelixa icandelo le-Cesarean (okanye i-C-icandelo) lisenokungabi ngamava amaphupha onke okuzalwa komama, nokuba kucwangcisiwe okanye uqhaqho olungxamisekileyo, xa umntwana wakho efuna ukuphuma, nantoni na iyahamba. Ngaphezulu kweepesenti ze-30 zokuzalwa zikhokelela kwi-C-section, ngokutsho kweWorld Health Organization. Nabani na osabuza imibuzo yokuba oomama abazale ngecandelo le-C baninzi nje "ngoomama bokwenene" njengabo bazala indlela yakudala kufuneka bamamele.

Ukuhlonipha iNyanga yoKwazisa ngeCandelo laseKesareya, makuqondwe kube kanye: ukuba neC-icandelo hayi indlela elula yokuphuma. Ibala ekuhlaleni kufuneka liphele apha kwaye ngoku. Funda amabali asuka kwamanye amaqhawe aziwayo aphila ngawo. (Idibeneyo: Ukutya uMama oMtsha kutyhila iNyaniso malunga neC-Amacandelo)

"Umzimba wam uziva ngathi izibilini zam bezisandula ukukhutshwa zaphoswa emva nangaliphi na ixesha."

"Ndandifumana umntwana wam wesithathu kwaye wayenomlinganiselo omkhulu, njenge-98th percentile enkulu. Ndaphinda ndafunyaniswa ukuba ndine-polyhydramnios kwiiveki ze-34, oku kuthetha ukuba ndine-fluid eyongezelelweyo, ngoko oko kwandenza ukukhulelwa okukhulu. Ukuba ne-C- ecwangcisiweyo. Ukusukela ngexesha lokuzalwa kwam kwesibini (ukubeleka kwilungu lobufazi) ndaye ndagqiba ukopha kanye emva koko kwaye ndadinga utyando olungxamisekileyo, ndandifuna ukuyiphepha imeko yokufa malunga neli xesha. Isibhedlele ngaphandle kokuqhekeka, akukho kuqhekezwa kwamanzi, akukho zimpawu zabasebenzi.Ukulala phantsi kwitafile yokusebenza kuphaphile kuyinto entle.Bakunika isifo, ke uyazi ukuba awuva nto, kodwa uziva utsala ngaphakathi Ndikhumbula amazinyo am exokozela kwaye ndingakwazi ukuyeka ukungcangcazela kuba bekubanda kakhulu.Babeka ikhethini esifubeni sakho, kwaye ngelixa ndiyibulela loo nto, indenze ndanovalo ndingazi ukuba kuqhubeka ntoni. ukutsala nokutsala emva koko Kwakuyinto nje enkulu yokutyhala esiswini sam-yayingathi ngumntu otsibele kuyo kwaye yam intombazana eyintombazana engama-9-13-ounce yaphuma! Kwaye yayiyinxalenye elula leyo. Iiyure ezingama-24 ezalandelayo yayingcungcuthekiso olusulungekileyo. Umzimba wam uziva ngathi amathumbu am ebesandula ukukhutshwa kwaye aphoswe emva ngokungahleliwe. Ukuphuma ebhedini esibhedlele ukuya kwigumbi lokuhlambela kwakuyinkqubo yeyure yonke. Ukuhlala nje ebhedini ukuze ulungele ukuphakama kwathatha ukuzimisela okukhulu. Kwafuneka ndihambe ndibambe imiqamelo emibini esuswini sam ukuzama ukuvala iintlungu. Ukuhleka kubuhlungu, nako. Ukuqengqeleka kubuhlungu. Ukulala kubuhlungu. "-UAshley Pezzuto, 31, Tampa, FL

Idibeneyo: Ngaba i-Opioids iyimfuneko ngokwenene emva kweC-C?

"Kwakukho umculo kunomathotholo kwaye oogqirha kunye nabongikazi babecula kunye neengoma ngokubambisana ngokungathi siseti yefilimu."

"Ndithe ndakufumanisa ukuba kufuneka ndibene C-section nosana lwam lokuqala, ntombi yam, ndothuka. Sifumanise ukuba ngenene ndinesisu esimile okweentliziyo, okuthetha ukuba sasibheke ezantsi, yiyo loo nto waphulwa. I Ndineentsuku ezili-10 zokucinga ngayo kwaye ndenze iindaba. Umama wam wazala ngokwendalo kwiintombi ezintathu, kwaye igama elithi 'C-icandelo' lalithathwa njengegama elingcolileyo, okanye ubuncinci lithetha 'ukuthatha indlela elula yokuphuma' Ukuba nendlu yecandelo le-C yayingeyonto endandicinga ukuba inokwenzeka kum. Nabani na owayesazi ukuba bendicwangcisiwe waziva isidingo sokundibalisela awabo amabali oyikisayo. Khange ndikhe ndichithe ubusuku esibhedlele.Ngoko ke ukuva umntu omnye esiza kwaye athi, 'hey bekungekubi kangako' khange kundilungiselele kakuhle. kangangokuba ugqirha wam kwafuneka aqhubeke endikhumbuza ukuba ndiphefumle ngokunzulu ukuze ndithobe umoya ngenxa yokuba uxinzelelo lwegazi lwam lwalunyuke phezulu kakhulu. Ndithe ndakuba ngenene phezu kwetafile yokuhlinza ndaziva ngathi ndisephupheni. Kuye kwakhala umculo kunomathotholo oogqirha bam kunye nabongikazi babecula kunye neengoma ngazwi linye ngokungathi sikwifilimu ethile. Ndiza kuhlala ndicinga 'Yiyo le nto beyibiza ngokuba ziiBlues' nguElton John ngokwahluke ngoku. Kuba esi yayisisiganeko sobomi esikhulu kum, bendilindele ukuba yonke into iza kubanzima kwaye ibukhali macala onke kum, kodwa ndiye ndaqonda ukuba lolunye usuku oluqhelekileyo lomntu wonke. I-vibe egumbini ngokuqinisekileyo yanciphisa uloyiko lwam kuba ndiye ndafumanisa ukuba oku kwakungekho 'ngxakeko' njengoko ndandicinga njalo. Liyinene elithi bendingeva ntlungu tu ngenxa yokuba bendindisholo ngawo onke amayeza, kodwa ndiye ndaziva nditsalwa ndixhuzula, kwakungathi kukho umntu ozama ukundinyumbaza ngaphakathi ngendlela engathandekiyo. Ngokubanzi ndiziva ndisikelelekile ngokuba namava amnandi kangaka. Ndicinga ukuba indenze ndangomnye wabo bafazi banokuthi ngoku bagqithise amabali alungileyo. Ingaziva yoyikeka kakhulu xa isenzeka kuwe, kodwa ayizukubi ngendlela edla ngokwenzeka ngayo. "-UJenna Hales, 33, Amathafa aseScotch, NJ

"Ndaziva ndimangalisa kakhulu ukuba ndingaziva naziphi na iintlungu kodwa ukuziva behambisa iingaphakathi zam."

"Ndibenabantwana ababini ngecandelo le-C elicwangcisiweyo kuba imbali yam yezonyango yotyando lokunyanga isifo sam sokukrala kwezilonda sandenza ndangumgqatswa ofanelekileyo kunikezelo lobufazi. Ukufumana isifo sesifo lelona candelo lixinzelelekileyo kwinkqubo-kuba kufuneka inkqubo engenabungozi, wena wedwa kuloo tafile ngelixa bencamathele kuwe inaliti ende, engathuthuzeliyo.Bakukubeka phantsi emva kokuba kwenziwe kuba oko kubanda kwenzeka ngokukhawuleza. yaqala kwicala lasekhohlo kuphela kwaye ekugqibeleni yasasazeka ngasekunene kwam - yayiyinto eyothusayo ukuba icala elinye libe ndindisholo. umnqa ndingeva ntlungu kodwa ndizive zindinyakazisa amathumbu.ubelekile umntanam zange ndimve ekhala ngemizuzu nje kodwa ndiye ndambona phambi kokuba asiwe e nursery umthungo. Inkqubo -up ayiziva ngathi kunikezo. Akukho kutsalwa okanye ukutsalwa, ukucoca nje kunye nokuthunga njengoko ulele phantsi etafileni ulungisa yonke into esanda kwenzeka. Into ekungekho mntu wayendilumkisa ngayo, nangona kunjalo, yayikukucuthwa kwasemva kokubeleka okwenzeka qho xa ndincancisa. Ngokusisiseko, ukuncancisa kubangela ukuba isibeleko singene kwaye kuyanceda ukuba ibuyele kubungakanani obuqhelekileyo emva komntwana. Kum, yenzekile malunga neeyure ezimbini emva kokuba ndiyincancisile intombi yam ukuze ichache. Abahlengikazi bafuna ukuba i-epidural yakho iguge ukuze uqalise kwangoko ukuhambahamba, kuba oko kunceda kakhulu inkqubo yokubuyisela. Kodwa kwathi nje ukuba i-epidural iphele ndeva ukuthontelana ndaza ndacinga ukuba ndiza kufa-yavakala ngathi kukho umntu oqhuba imela emzimbeni wam. Yayingekuko nje ukushwaqa endingazange ndizive kuba andizange ndiye kusebenza ngokwenene, kodwa kwakusenzeka kanye apho ndandisikwe khona. Kwakusoyikeka kwaye kwafika ngamaza xa ndiza kuncancisa kwinyanga ezayo okanye ngaphezulu. Ukuhamba emva kwecandelo le-C kwakungumceli mngeni kwiintsuku ezimbalwa. Kuba ndingumgqirha ngokwasemzimbeni, ndingasebenzisa ubuqhetseba ukunciphisa iintlungu-ezinje ngokuqengqeleka ecaleni kwakho phambi kokuba uvuke ukhusele ukusikwa kwakho kwaye ukhulule izihlunu zesisu. Okwangoku, ukuziqengqa kunye nokuvuka ebhedini ezinzulwini zobusuku kwiiveki ezintathu zokuqala kuya kuhlala kundikhathaza. Ndivakalelwa kukuba wonke umthungo uzakuphuma. "-UAbhigayil Bales, 37, kwisiXeko saseNew York

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"Ndandidiniwe, ndididekile, kwaye ndidanile. Abahlengikazi bandiqinisekisa ukuba andizange ndiphumelele."

"Ukukhulelwa kwam kwakulula. Akukho kugula kwasekuseni, akukho sicaphucaphu, akukho kugabha, akukho kutya. Intombi yam yayijonge phantsi kwaye ijonge emqolo, eyona ndawo ifanelekileyo yokuhambisa. Ngoko ndacinga ukuba ukuzala kwakuya kuba lula. Ndisebenze malunga neeyure ezingama-55. olu sana, hayi nje ngendlela yesiqhelo ebendisoloko ndiyicinga.Andikhathali nokuba uthini na umntu, icandelo le-C luluqhaqho olukhulu.Ukulala okanye ukuvuka, uyanqunyulwa.Andikwazi ukuyishukumisa le ngcinga njengo Ngethamsanqa khange ndive zintlungu ngexesha lotyando.Mhlawumbi yayiyindibaniselwano ye-anesthesia endandiyifumana nge-epidural yeeyure ezili-12 nangaphezulu Ukutsala ngobunono, ukutsala, okanye uxinzelelo ugqirha wandixelela ukuba ndiza-okanye andikhumbuli Kungenxa yokuba ekuphela kwento endinokujolisa kuyo kukuva ukukhala kwakhe kokuqala. Kwaye ke wenza. Kodwa andizange ndikwazi ukumbamba. Khange ndikwazi ukumncamisa okanye ukumgona. Bendingakwazi ukuba ngumntu wokuqala ukumthulisa. Ngelo xesha iintlungu zabetha. Ukungakwazi ukufumana ulusu kulusu kwakubuhlungu. Endaweni yoko, bamgcina ngaphezulu kwekhethini emva koko bamhambisa bemkile ukuze bajonge ubungakanani kwaye bacoceke. Ndidiniwe kwaye ndibuhlungu, ndiye ndalala phezu kwetafile yotyando ngelixa begqibezela ukundivala. Ndithe xa ndivuka ndiphila ndade ndambamba. Ndafumanisa ethubeni ukuba losisi uzamile ukumnika umyeni wam e-OR kodwa akavuma. Wayeyazi indlela ekubaluleke ngayo kum ukuba ndiqale ndiyibambe. Wahlala ecaleni kwakhe, wahamba ecaleni kwebhasethi yakhe ukusuka kwigumbi elinye ukuya kwelilandelayo, emva koko wandinika umzuzu endicinga ukuba ndilahlekile. "UJessica Isandla, i-33, iChappaqua, NY

"Utyando ngokwalo lwaluyinto encinci yentlungu kum."

"Ndandine-C-section kunye nabantwana bam bobabini. Ulwelo olusesibelekweni sentombi yam lwaluphantsi kakhulu ngasekupheleni kokukhulelwa kwam, ngoko ke kwafuneka ndinyanzeliswe kwiiveki ezimbini kwangaphambili. Kwaye emva kweeyure zokutyhala, sagqiba nge-C- Ukuchacha kwakuthatha ixesha elide kwaye kubuhlungu kwaye andizange ndikulungele konke oko ngokwasengqondweni, kuquka ukubeleka kwiiveki ezimbini ngaphambi kokuba ndandicebe. Kodwa ke amanzi am agqabhuka kwiiveki ezingama-27 ngoku ndandilalisa intombi yam eneenyanga ezili-18 ubudala. Kwiiveki ezintathu, kwafuneka aphume.Ndandiyazi ukuba ndiza kuba necandelo le-C.Kwaye nangona okokuqala ukujikeleza ndaziva njengomoya ovuthuzayo, ngesi sihlandlo ndandiziva ndikhululekile ukuba ndivalelwe ebhedini esibhedlele. Andikhumbuli lukhulu lotyando, kodwa bendonwabile ukuba le nkqubo iphelile. nangona unyana wam wazalwa kwiiveki ezili-10 ngaphambi kwexesha, wayenamandla angama-3.5 eeponti, ethathwa njengenkulu kwi-preemie. Uchithe iiveki ezintlanu eNICU kodwa namhlanje usempilweni ngokupheleleyo kwaye uyachuma. Utyando ngokwalo lwalulolona loyiko luncinane kum. Ndinezinye iingxaki ezininzi kangangokuba imeko ebonakalayo ibonakalisiwe xa ithelekiswa neemvakalelo ezijikeleze zombini ezo zinto. "-Inkundla Walker, i-35, iNew Rochelle, NY

Inxulumene: Ndiphinde ndaphinda ndifumana amandla am emva kokuba ndineC-C

"Nangona bendindindisholo, usayiva ingxolo, ngakumbi xa oogqirha bekophula amanzi."

"Oogqirha kuye kwafuneka bandicenge ukuba ndophuke amanzi am nosana lwam lokuqala, kwaye emva kweeyure zomsebenzi owomeleleyo kunye nokusebenza, oogqirha bam babiza icandelo le-C likaxakeka kuba ukubetha kwentliziyo yonyana wam kwehla ngokukhawuleza. Babiza icandelo le-C ngo-12: 41. pm nonyana wam wazalwa nge-12: 46 pm Kwenzeke ngokukhawuleza kangangokuba umyeni wam waphoswa ngelixa babemnxibisa. Isibhedlele kodwa iintlungu zaya zisiba mbi kwaye ndaye ndagqibela ngokufumana umkhuhlane omkhulu, kwaye kwavela ukuba ndandifumene ukosuleleka kwaye kwafuneka ndibekwe kwizibulali ntsholongwane. usana olusandul 'ukuzalwa Kodwa ekugqibeleni luye lwahamba kwaye ulibale ngayo yonke into-endizise ukuyenza kwakhona! Kwiminyaka emithandathu kamva, ukukhulelwa kwam okwesibini kwakunzima ngakumbi ngenxa yemeko ebizwa ngokuba yi-placenta previa apho i-placenta ikhula khona ngaphezulu umlomo wesibeleko kwaye kunokubangela ukopha . Ngenxa yokuba i-placenta yayikwindawo eyingozi, kuye kwafuneka ndifumane icandelo le-C elicwangcisiweyo kwiiveki ezingama-39. Nangona ukukhulelwa kwam kwakubuhlungu, icandelo lesibini le-C laliphumle kakhulu! Kwakunjalo amava ahlukileyo. Ndaya esibhedlele, ndatshintsha ndaya kwigiya-njengoko wenza nomyeni wam ngeli xesha! -Baye bandizisa kwigumbi lotyando. Inxalenye eyoyikisayo kuzo zonke yayiyi-epidural. Kodwa ndanga umqamelo ukuthomalalisa imithambo-luvo yam, ndayiva incinana, emva koko yaphela. Emva koko, abongikazi bandibuza ukuba ngowuphi umculo endiwuthandayo kwaye ugqirha wangena kungekudala emva koko wandihamba ngayo yonke into. Umyeni wam kunye nomnye ugqirha bahlala entlokweni yam ngalo lonke ixesha, bathetha nam, kwaye baqinisekisa ukuba ndilungile kwinyathelo ngalinye lendlela-yayiyinto nje eqinisekisayo leyo. Nangona ndandindindisholo, uva ingxolo ngakumbi xa oogqirha bekophula amanzi! Ndiva ukurhuqa ngaphakathi kwam, kwaye yayiyeyona nxalenye imangalisayo. Kodwa ukuva yonke into kwaye ngokuzolileyo uqaphele ukuba kwenzeka ntoni yayiyimvakalelo elungileyo. Unyana wam wesibini wafika ndafika ndambamba xa bendivalela. Ukuchacha kwakungekubi kangako okwesibini. Ndandisazi ngcono ngeli xesha, ngoko ndiye ndashukuma ngokukhawuleza njengoko ndandikwazi kwaye ndazama ukungoyiki intshukumo nganye. Olo tyeshelo lincinci lwenza ukuba kubuyiselwe impilo kwaye ikhawuleze. Olona nyango lolona nyango luphambili, kodwa lolona luza nomvuzo omkhulu. "-Danielle Stingo, 30, Long Island, NY

"Ndikhumbula ivumba elahlukileyo ngexesha lotyando, endathi kamva ndafunda ukuba livumba lamalungu namathumbu am."

"Mna nogqirha wam senza isigqibo sokuba kufuneka ndibe ne-C-section ngenxa yomngcipheko weengxaki ngenxa yokulimala komqolo endakufumana xa ndikwishumi elivisayo. Isigqibo esilula ukusithatha kwaye ndaziva ndikhululekile ukungabi naxhala lokuba ndiza kubeleka nini kwaye nokuba umyeni wam angakhona ukundinceda-khange ndikhathazeke tu yile Ndiza kuba necandelo le-C elicwangcisiweyo njengabafazi abaninzi.Intsasa yoqhaqho lwam ndiyakhumbula ndothuke kakhulu, nangona kunjalo.Oyona nto yoyikisayo kum yayixa baxelela umyeni wam ukuba aphume kwigumbi ukuze bakwazi ukundilawula Ndandisazi ukuba yinyani.Ndandingcangcazela kwaye ndinesiyezi.Xa imeds zaqala ukusebenza ndaziva ndothukile kuba okwesihlandlo sokuqala ngaphezulu kweminyaka engama-20 ndandingafumani zintlungu kwaphela emva! Ndixakekile kwaye ndibukele abongikazi besonga imilenze yam kwaye behambisa umzimba wam ukubeka i-ca Iterter yayinzima nje. Ndaziva sendizixakekisa, kodwa ndathi ndaphinda ndadibana nomyeni wam ndaphola. Ngexesha lecandelo le-C, kwakungathi ngamava aphuma emzimbeni ngenxa yokuba ndiziva nditsala kwaye nditsala, kodwa kwakungekho nantlungu. Umkhusane wawuphezulu ngoko ndandingaboni nto ezantsi kwesifuba sam, nam. Ndikhumbula ivumba elahlukileyo endathi kamva ndalifumanisa livumba lamalungu am kunye namathumbu. Ndinoluvo lokunuka ngokungenangqondo kwaye lwaluphakanyisiwe kuphela ngexesha lokukhulelwa, kodwa eli yayilelona vumba lingaqhelekanga kubo bonke. Ndaziva ndisozela kakhulu kodwa ndingonelanga ukuba ndingavala amehlo ndilale. Emva koko ndaqala ukufumana i-antsy kwaye ndizibuza ukuba izakuba lixesha elingakanani.Baye bakhupha umntanam oyinkwenkwe bambonisa. Kwakumangalisa. Kwakunemvakalelo. Ibintle. Ngelixa bezimcoca kwaye bejonga izibalo zakhe, kuye kwafuneka ukuba bahambise iplacenta kwaye bandithuke. Oku kuthathe ixesha elide kunokuba bendilindele. Kude kunokuhanjiswa konyana wam. Kamva ndafumanisa ukuba ugqirha wam eneneni wayethatha ixesha lakhe endithunga ukuze ashiye umvambo wam unjalo. Ndandichukumisekile kuba ndandingazange ndimxelele ukuba ndifuna ukuyisindisa! Ngokubanzi, ndingathi i-C-section yam yayiyeyona nxalenye ilungileyo yokukhulelwa kwam. (Ndandingumfazi okhulelweyo olusizi!) Andinazikhalazo kwaye ndingaphinda ndiyenze ngokubetha kwentliziyo."-Noelle Rafaniello, 36, Easley, SC

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