Ukwabelana ngesondo ngakumbi akulingani nolonwabo ngakumbi, Utsho isifundo esitsha

Umxholo

• Uphengululo lwe

Ngelixa kunokubonakala kucacile ukuba ukuzixakekisa rhoqo nge-SO yakho ayithethi ukuba ubunjani bobudlelwane obukhulu (ukuba belulula ngolo hlobo!), Izifundo kudala zafumana isini esilingana nolonwabo. Kodwa ngoku, enkosi kuphando olutsha, kukho enye enkulu ye-caatat: Ngelixa ufumana i-frisky rhoqo yenza ikwenze wonwabe, uya konwaba emva kweseshoni enye ngeveki njengoko unokwenza emva kwesine. (Ngelixa sikuyo, bona iimpazamo zeSex ezili-10 ezikukrola engxoweni.)

Ipapashwe kwijenali IzeNzululwazi ngezeNtlalo nezeNzululwazi, Uphononongo lusekelwe kuphando lwezibini ezingaphezu kwama-30,000 eU.S., kwaye yeyokuqala ukufumanisa ukuba ixesha elinye ngeveki yonke into oyifunayo ukuvuna ezo nzuzo zolonwabo! Okumangalisa kukuba, kwakungekho mmahluko kwiziphumo ezisekelwe kwisini, ubudala, okanye ixesha elide izibini ezitshatileyo, wachaza umphandi okhokelayo kunye neengqondo zengqondo, u-Amy Muise, Ph.D, kwi-press release. (Ke amadoda musa ufuna isondo ngaphezu kwabafazi? Iingqondo zibuhlungu.)

Nangona kunjalo, ikhonkco ligcinwe liyinyani kuphela kwabo bakubudlelwane bezothando. Kutheni inokuba njalo? Ewe, kubantu abangatshatanga, unxibelelwano phakathi kwesondo kunye nolonwabo luxhomekeke kwiitoni zezinto, njengomxholo wobudlelwane apho isini senzeka khona (ngaba ungumhlobo ngezibonelelo? Ukuma kobusuku obunye?) Kwaye ukhululeke kangakanani ngesondo ngaphandle kobudlelwane. Ngokusisiseko, njengoko nawuphi na umntu omnye enokuxelela: Kuntsonkothile, kwaye ke ngoko akunakwenzeka ukuba wenze naziphi na izigqibo xa kufikwa kumaxesha okwabelana ngesondo kunye nokuba sempilweni.

I-takeway? Ewe, isondo libalulekile ekugcineni unxibelelwano olusondeleyo kunye neqabane lakho, kodwa akuyomfuneko ukuba uyenze yonke imihla nje ukuba wenza isenzo kanye ngeveki. Kwaye, ewe, unxibelelwano luhlala lusisitshixo, ke bhukhmaka lo mfo ngaphambi kokuba uqhubeke: Iincoko ezi-7 ekufuneka ubenazo zoBomi obuSempilweni beSondo.

Uphengululo lwe