Nguwuphi uMndilili weXesha loQeqesho lwaMakhwenkwe naMantombazana?

Umxholo

• Ngaba umntwana wakho ukulungele?
• Kumhlaba jikelele
• Ngaba amantombazana afunda ukusebenzisa imbiza ngaphambi kwamakhwenkwe?
• Kuthekani ngabantwana abaneemfuno ezizodwa?
• Ingaba ithatha ixesha elingakanani?
• Kuthekani ngeendlela zekampu yebhuthi?
• Umndilili weminyaka yoqeqesho lokulala ngeembiza
• Iingcebiso ngoqeqesho lwe potty
• Isikhokelo seGiya
• Ukuthatha

Umntwana wam kufuneka aqale nini ukuqeqesha amanzi?

Ukufunda ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese kubalulekile. Uninzi lwabantwana baqala ukusebenza kobu buchule phakathi kweenyanga ezili-18 ukuya kwiminyaka emi-3 ubudala. Umndilili weminyaka yoqeqesho lwamanzi uwela kwindawo ethile kwiinyanga ezingama-27.

Umda wexesha womntwana wakho uya kuxhomekeka kubo:

• iimpawu zokulungela
• izakhono zophuhliso
• gxila kulo msebenzi

Ngokubanzi, iingcali zicacisa ukuba abantwana abangaphantsi konyaka ukuya kwiinyanga ezili-18 abanalo ulawulo kwisinyi nakwizisu zabo. Uqeqesho ngaphambi kweli xesha alunakho ukuvelisa ezona ziphumo zihle.

Funda ukuze ufunde ngakumbi malunga noqeqesho lwe potty, kubandakanya ukwahluka koqeqesho lwamakhwenkwe xa kuthelekiswa namantombazana, iimpawu zokulungela, kunye neengcebiso zoqeqesho olunempumelelo.

Ngaba umntwana wakho ukulungele?

Usenokuba uqaphele inkangeleko ethile yobuso okanye utshintsho kwimisebenzi, njengokuwela imilenze okanye ukubamba amalungu esini, abonisa ukuba isinyi sakho sincinci sigcwele okanye bafuna ukukhupha amathumbu abo.

Ezinye iimpawu zokulungela zibandakanya:

• ukukwazi ukuthetha ngamazwi okanye iimfuno
• ukwazi ukuhlala phezu nokuphakama kwindlu yangasese okanye embizeni
• ukuba nomnqweno wokukholisa (umzekelo, ukonwabela ukunconywa)
• uxelisa abantu abadala okanye abantakwenu
• ukuba nokuhamba kwamathumbu kwishedyuli
• ukuba nexesha elide le-diaper eyomileyo
• ukulandela imiyalelo yenyathelo elinye
• ukubonisa umnqweno wenkululeko engakumbi ngokubanzi

Umntwana wakho akudingeki ukuba akwazi ukutsala ibhulukhwe yakhe phezulu nasezantsi, kodwa ukukwazi ukuqonda obu buchule kunokunceda ukwenza uqeqesho lweebhotile lube yimpumelelo.

Kumhlaba jikelele

1. Iminyaka yoqeqesho oluphakathi kweembiza zichaphazeleka kakhulu ekukhuleni komntwana njengoko zinjalo ngokwenkcubeko. Kwamanye amazwe, abantwana baqeqeshwa kwangethuba, ukanti kwezinye, abantwana baqeqeshwa kamva. Ekugqibeleni, yenza eyona nto ilungele wena nomntwana wakho.

Ngaba amantombazana afunda ukusebenzisa imbiza ngaphambi kwamakhwenkwe?

Ngelixa kunokubakho iyantlukwano phakathi kwesini kunye noqeqesho lwe potty, umxholo uyafana. Konke malunga nokufunda isinyi kunye nolawulo lwamathumbu kwaye emva koko ukhethe ukusebenzisa imbiza.

Okwangoku, usenokuba ukhe weva ukuba ukuqeqesha amakhwenkwe anezimbiza kunzima kunokuqeqesha amantombazana. Ngaba oku kuyinyaniso? Hayi rhoqo.

Olunye uphononongo oludala lucebise ukuba amantombazana anokuqhubela phambili ngokubonisa isidingo sokusebenzisa iityile kunye nokulawula amathumbu kunye nolawulo lwesinyi kumakhwenkwe. Nangona kunjalo, iAmerican Academy of Pediatrics iqaphela ukuba ezi ntlobo zezifundo azisoloko zimela abantu. Ngokubanzi, iminyaka yobudala yoqeqesho olupheleleyo lweebhotile ayifani phakathi kwamakhwenkwe namantombazana.

Ekugqibeleni, kuyehla kumntwana kunye neempawu zabo zokulungela. Amakhwenkwe kunye namantombazana ngokufanayo bafuna ukunconywa kunye nenkuthazo ngelixa beqeqeshwa emanzini. Bafuna uthando kunye nokuqonda ukuba kwenzeka (kwaye nini) iingozi.

Kuthekani ngabantwana abaneemfuno ezizodwa?

Abantwana abaneemfuno ezizodwa bavame ukuqala uqeqesho lwe potty kamva kunabanye abantwana. Inkqubo ihlala igqityiwe ngamanye amaxesha emva kweminyaka emi-5 ubudala, kodwa umgca wexesha uyahluka phakathi kwabantwana.

Dibana nogqirha wabantwana womntwana wakho ukuba uziva ukuba umntwana wakho ukulungele. Banokubonelela ngesikhokelo esithile emntwaneni wakho, kubandakanya uvavanyo lomzimba, iingcebiso kunye neengcebiso ngezixhobo.

Ingaba ithatha ixesha elingakanani?

Kuthatha ixesha elingakanani ukuqeqeshwa njengamanzi njengenkqubo kuya kuxhomekeka kumntwana wakho ngamnye kunye nendlela oyikhethayo. Uninzi lwabantwana bayakwazi ukulawula zombini isinyi kunye namathumbu kwaye bashiye amanabukeni ngasemva ngaxa lithile phakathi kweminyaka emi-3 ukuya kwengama-4 ubudala.

Kuthekani ngeendlela zekampu yebhuthi?

Enye indlela edumileyo yindlela yoqeqesho lweebhotile yeentsuku ezintathu. Ngelixa likhawulezayo, izicwangciso zesimbo senkampu yesiqalo zinokunikela ngeendlela ezithile eziluncedo kunye nesikhokelo, xhathisa ukunamathela kuzo ngokungqongqo. Ukuba umntwana wakho ubonakala enganyangeki, thatha imikhondo yabo kwaye ubuyele kwiziseko okwethutyana.

Kwaye nokuba umntwana wakho uphume kwi-diapers emva kweentsuku ezintathu ezinzima, kuya kufuneka ulindele ukuba babe neengozi. I-Nap kunye noqeqesho lwasebusuku zinokuthatha ixesha elide, nazo.

Umndilili weminyaka yoqeqesho lokulala ngeembiza

Emini nasebusuku uqeqesho lweebhotile zizakhono ezahlukeneyo. Ngelixa umntwana wakho enokuqeqeshwa ngokupheleleyo emini, kungathatha iinyanga ezininzi okanye neminyaka ukuba ahlale omile ebusuku.

Umndilili xa abantwana beqeqesha ebusuku buphakathi kweminyaka emi-4 ukuya kweyi-5. Uninzi lwabantwana sele benamanzi aqeqeshwe ngokupheleleyo xa beneminyaka emi-5 ukuya kwemithandathu ubudala.

Iingcebiso ngoqeqesho lwe potty

Njengokwazisa kwangoko kuqeqesho lwendlu yangasese, zama ukubeka umntwana wakho onxibe ngokupheleleyo ebhodweni. Bayeke bafunde incwadi okanye bacule ingoma ebhodweni ngaphandle kokugxila ekuhambeni.

Emva koko, hambisa ukuhlala umntwana wakho ebhodweni ngqo emva kokukhupha i-diaper emanzi okanye engcolileyo. Ukusuka apho, unokukhuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba asebenzise potty enye kathathu ngemini okwemizuzu embalwa ngexesha. Emva kwamaxesha okutya lelona xesha lilungileyo lokuzama, njengoko kuhlala kunjalo xa abantwana benesinyi esipheleleyo kunye namathumbu.

Unokonyusa inani lohambo okanye ukuzama ukuba umntwana wakho athathe usuku lonke ngokuhamba kwexesha. Kunokuba luncedo ukwenza ishedyuli evulekileyo, enje:

• xa uvuka
• emva kwamaxesha okutya
• ngaphambi kokulala

Ukulandela ishedyuli kunokunceda umntwana wakho angene kwisigqi.

Nazi ezinye iingcebiso zempumelelo:

• Thatha ukhokelo lomntwana wakho, uqhubeke kancinci kancinci okanye ngokukhawuleza ngokokulungela kwabo.
• Melana nokwenza ulindelo, ngakumbi ekuqaleni.
• Sebenzisa amagama athe ngqo njenge "poop" xa ushukumisa amathumbu okanye "uchame" xa uchama.
• Fumana amathuba okunika umntwana wakho imvakalelo yokulawula okanye inkululeko.
• Naka ingqalelo kwiimpawu zomntwana wakho ukuba isinyi okanye amathumbu abo kufuneka ahluthwe. Ukwenza njalo kuya kunceda umntwana wakho ukuba aziqonde, naye.
• Nika indumiso ngomsebenzi owenziwe kakuhle, nokuba uza kuya okanye hayi umntwana wakho.

Khumbula: Umntwana wakho unokuba neengozi nasemva kokuba "ephumelele" kwiidrafti. Oku kuqhelekile kwaye kulindelekile. Yalatha ingozi, kodwa ngaphandle kokugxeka okanye ukudana. Unokubakhumbuza ngokulula ukuba i-pee okanye i-poop ihamba ebhodweni.

Kwakhona kubalulekile ukukhumbuza umntwana wakho ukuba asebenzise i-potty. Ngenxa yokuba bephumelele kwizambatho zangaphantsi akuthethi ukuba baya kuhlala bekhumbula ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese. Abantwana abancinci bayaphazamiseka kwaye banokumelana nokushiya umdlalo kwikhefu lokuhlambela. Bazise ukuba emva kwekhefu lokuhlambela, banokubuyela ekudlaleni.

Isikhokelo seGiya

1. Ngaba ufuna izixhobo ezizodwa kuloliwe onamanzi? Nazi ezinye zoqeqesho lwe potty ekufuneka uzenzile.

Ukuthatha

Eyona nto ibalulekileyo ekufuneka uyikhumbule ngoqeqesho lwe potty kukuba abantwana ngabantu ngabanye. Ngelixa kukho amaxesha amiselweyo okuqala nini kwaye ungayigqiba nini inkqubo, umntwana wakho unokulungela kungekudala okanye kamva kunesiqhelo. Kwaye kulungile.

Iingozi zinokukhathaza, kodwa ukohlwaya okanye ukuthethisa ngexesha okanye emva kwengozi kunokukhokelela ekuhleleni kwaye wenze uqeqesho luthathe ixesha elide ngokubanzi.

Ukuba unenkxalabo ngenkqubela phambili yomntwana wakho okanye ufuna uncedo ngoqeqesho lwamanzi, thetha nogqirha wabantwana. Banokunika iingcebiso okanye bakwazise ukuba sikhona isizathu sokukhathazeka.