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Ukuqhuba, ukutya ukutya okungenamsoco, kunye nokuthenga kwi-intanethi zizinto ezimbalwa omele uziphephe ukuba awulali, ngokutsho kwabaphandi. (Hmmm ... enokuthi ichaze ii-neon-print mohair stilettos eziboniswe ngokuhambisa ngenqanawa kwiintsuku ezimbini emva kokuba ungakhumbuli ukuzi-odola.) Kodwa isifundo esitsha sifumanise ukuba inye into esenza ngcono xa sisenza udiniwe: ukusombulula ingxaki ngengqiqo. Kwaye izazinzulu zithi unako sebenza isiphumo kuxhamlo lwakho-ke nangona ezo zithende zingabuyiseki, ubuncinci unokujonga iiyure ezongezelelekileyo ukuze uzihlawulele.

Iingxaki ziza kwiindidi ezimbini eziphambili: Uhlalutyo, njengezibalo okanye iingxaki zekhompyuter ezinempendulo enye echanekileyo, kunye neengxaki ezisekelwe kwingqiqo, ezifuna isisombululo sokudala. Kwaye iingqondo zethu zineendlela ezahlukeneyo zokujongana nohlobo ngalunye lomba. Abaphandi abavela kwiYunivesithi yaseAlbion bajonge phantse i-500 yabafundi kwaye bafumanisa ukuba ngelixa iingxaki zohlalutyo zisetyenzwa kakuhle xa ukwingqondo yakho ebukhali, abantu benza ngcono ngemicimbi yokuqonda xa bekhona, kulungile, hayi ngokusemandleni abo. Enyanisweni, abafundi abadiniweyo baqhube kakuhle ngama-20 ekhulwini kunabo baphumle ngokwaneleyo.

UMareike Wieth, i-PhD, unjingalwazi oncedisayo kwizifundo zengqondo kunye nombhali okhokelayo kolu phando ucacisile ukuba xa udiniwe, unothintelo olusezantsi kwaye uzimisele ngakumbi ukuqaphela ezinye iindlela kunye nezisombululo onokuthi ungazinanzi. Ngaphezu koko, ingqondo yakho kunokwenzeka ukuba ibhadule xa udiniwe-kwaye kuvela ukuba konke ukungabikho kokugxila kunokuba kuhle ekuqaliseni ukudala. (Fumana Oko Kwenzeka Ngokwenene Xa Ungalali.)

"Unezinye iingcamango ezizenzekelayo, njengokuthi 'Ndilwe namhlanje ekuseni,' okanye 'kufuneka ndithathe ubisi.' Le ngcinga engaqhelekanga inokudibana nengcinga yakho ephambili kwaye iza nento yoyilo, utshilo uWieth IAtlantic. "Ngexesha lakho elifanelekileyo lemini, awuzukuba nalo ngcinga ingaqhelekanga."

Ungayisebenzisa le nto kwinzuzo yakho, utshilo u-Weith, ngokufaka ishedyuli yakho yendalo. “Kukho ulwazi oluthe kratya kunye nophando oluphumayo olubonisa ukuba kuluncedo ukuthunga xa usebenza kwimisebenzi ethile,” utshilo. Ke unokuzama ukwenza upapasho kusasa, ukuba ngokwendalo unesikhova sasebusuku, okanye unengxaki yokudubula ulwalamano lwakho ebusuku, ukuba uqhele ukuba lilark yentsasa.

Kwaye kwixesha elizayo umphathi wakho ekubuza iibhegi zakho eziphantsi kwamehlo, mxelele nje ukuba ezinye iingxaki zisonjululwe ngcono xa ulele kancinci.

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