Andikho Flaky, Ndinesifo esingabonakaliyo

Ndingumntu onokuthenjwa. Ngokunyaniseka, ndinguye. Ndingumama. Ndiqhuba amashishini amabini. Ndiyakuhlonipha ukuzibophelela, ndisa abantwana bam esikolweni ngexesha elifanelekileyo, kwaye ndihlawule amatyala am. Ndibaleka inqanawa exineneyo, njengoko besitsho, yiyo loo nto abahlobo bam kunye nabantu endibaziyo befumanisa ukuba badidekile - {textend} bacaphukile, nditsho - {textend} ngamanye amaxesha xa ndifumana ngathi "ndidangele."

Umhlobo: "Uyakhumbula ukuba eliqhula saya kulo nyaka uphelileyo- {textend} umfana onetikiti lokubaleka?"

Mna: “Ewe, obo bubusuku obumnandi!”

Umhlobo: “Ulapha edolophini ngolwe-Sihlanu. Ufuna ndithenge amatikiti? ”

Mna: “Ngokuqinisekileyo!”

Kuya kufuneka uqonde, bendineenjongo zonke zokuhamba. Bendingazukuvuma ukuba bendingavumanga. Ndilungiselele ukutya ngaphambi kwexesha, ndibhukishe umntu ogcina umntwana, ndide ndakhetha nento emnandi ukunxiba ubusuku obunqabileyo. Yonke into ibimiselwe ukuba ihambe, kude kubethe u-4. ULwesihlanu ...

Mna: “Heyi, naliphi na ithuba omaziyo umntu oza kuthatha itikiti lam lalo mboniso ngokuhlwanje?”

Umhlobo: "Ngoba?"

Mna: Kulungile, ndinemigraine ebuhlungu. ”

Umhlobo: “Owu, bummer. Ndiyazi xa ndinentloko, ndithatha ibuprofen kwaye ndikulungele ukuhamba iyure. Usenokuza nangoku? ”

Mna: “Andiqondi ukuba licebo elihle elo. Uxolo ngale nto. Andifuni kukushiya ushiyekile. Ndithumele umyalezo kubantu abambalwa ukubona ukuba ukhona umntu olifunayo na itikiti. Ndilinde nje ukuva impendulo. ”

Umhlobo: “Owu. Ngaba sowuphumile? ”

Mna: "Ewe. Ndiza kuqinisekisa ukuba uyayifumana imali yetikiti. ”

Umhlobo: “Ndiyaqonda. Ndizakucela uCarla emsebenzini ukuba uyafuna na. ”

Ewe, ngethamsanqa kubo bonke ababandakanyekayo, uCarla uthathe indawo yam. Kodwa ke malunga nengcaciso "eqondwayo", andiqinisekanga ukuba ndicinga ntoni. Ngaba wayeqonda ukuba emva kokuba ndibeke ifowuni ndakugcina umzimba wam uswelekile kwiiyure ezintathu ezizayo kuba ndisoyika ukuba nayiphi na intshukumo izakundizisela iintlungu?

Ngaba wayecinga ukuba "intloko ebuhlungu" yayisisizathu esifanelekileyo sokuphuma kwinto endigqibe ekubeni andifuni ukuyenza? Ngaba wayeqonda ukuba bekungekho ngoMgqibelo kusasa ukuba iintlungu ziye zaphela ngokwaneleyo ukuba ndizirhuqe ebhedini imizuzu embalwa, kunye nezinye iiyure ezintandathu ukuze kudlule inkungu?

Ngaba wayeqonda ukuba ukwenza oku kuye kwakhona Ngaba ibonakalisa imeko enganyangekiyo kunokubona ukungazithembi kwam, okanye okubi, kukungabuhoyi ubuhlobo bam?

Ngoku, ndiyazi ukuba abantu abasenamdla wokuva zonke iinkcukacha ezimnandi zesimo sam esinganyangekiyo kunokuba ndibathumele, ke ndiza kuthi: I-Migraines ayinyamezeleki kulo lonke igama. Ukubabiza ngokuba "yintloko ebuhlungu" yinto engekhoyo kwaphela. Batyhafisa ngokupheleleyo xa bevela.

Into endifuna ukuyichaza ngokweenkcukacha ezithe kratya - {textend} kuba ndiyabuxabisa ubudlelwane bam - {textend} kungoko le meko ibangela ukuba ndibenama “flaky” ngamanye amaxesha. Uyabona, xa ndenza izicwangciso nomhlobo wam njengoko bendenzile ngenye imini, okanye xa ndizibophelela kwisikhundla kwi-PTA, okanye xa ndamkela esinye isabelo somsebenzi, le ndiyenzayo ndiyithethayo Ewe. Ewe uyokuphuma uyokonwaba nomhlobo, ewe ukuba lilungu elinegalelo ekuhlaleni kwesikolo sethu, kwaye ewe ekwakheni ikhondo lomsebenzi wam. Andixolisi ngenxa yezo zinto.

Ndiyazi xa ndisithi ewe, ngenxa yezizathu ezingaphaya kolawulo lwam, kunokwenzeka ukuba andizokwazi ukuhambisa kanye njengoko bendithembisile. Kodwa, ndiyabuza, yeyiphi enye indlela? Umntu akanakho ukuqhuba ishishini, ikhaya, ubuhlobo, kunye nobomi obunamanqatha amakhulu mhlawumbi ngalo lonke ixesha.

“Ufuna ukuya kwisidlo sangokuhlwa sangoMgqibelo? Ndingabhukisha? ”

"Ingayiyo."

“Ungasifumana esi sabelo ngoLwesibini?”

"Siza kubona ukuba kwenzeka ntoni."

“Mama, uyasilanda namhlanje esikolweni?”

"Ingayiyo. Ukuba andifumani migraine. ”

Ubomi abusebenzi njalo! Ngamanye amaxesha kuya kufuneka uyenzile! Ukuba kwaye xa kuvela imeko kwaye u "ewe" ajike abe yinto engenakwenzeka, ukuphuculwa okuncinci, ukuqonda, kunye nenethiwekhi elungileyo yenkxaso ihamba ngendlela ende.

Umntu othile uthatha itikiti lam lekonsathi, umhlobo urhweba ngokujika kwindlela yethu ye-carpool, umyeni wam uyolanda intombi yethu kwiklasi yomdaniso, kwaye ndibuye ngolunye uhlobo ngolunye usuku. Into endiyathemba ukuba icacile yeyokuba nakuphi na ukungahambi kakuhle okunokuvela "kubuqhophololo" bam ayisiyonto yobuqu - {textend} ziyimveliso nje yokuzama ukwenza okona kulungileyo kwesandla endikhe ndaphathwa ngaso.

Konke okuthethileyo, kumava am, ndifumene uninzi lwabantu ukuba lukwicala lokuqonda lezinto. Andiqinisekanga ukuba imeko yemeko yam ihlala icacile kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, kuye kwakho iimvakalelo ezibi kunye nokuphazamiseka kule minyaka idlulileyo.

Kodwa, ubukhulu becala, ndinombulelo kubahlobo abalungileyo abangakhange bacinge ngokutshintsha izicwangciso ngoku.

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