Yintoni iOedipus Complex

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• Zithini izigaba ze-Oedipus Complex
• Yeyiphi i-Oedipus esonjululwe kakubi?

Ubunzima be-Oedipus ngumbono owawukhuselwe yi-psychoanalyst uSigmund Freud, obhekisa kwisigaba sokukhula komntwana ngengqondo, ebizwa ngokuba sisigaba sobudoda, apho aqala khona ukuziva enomnqweno wokuba ngoyise wesini esahlukileyo kunye nomsindo nomona kwinto yesini esinye.

Ngokuka-Freud, isigaba sesini senzeka malunga neminyaka emithathu, xa umntwana eqala ukuqonda ukuba akangombindi wehlabathi kwaye nothando lwabazali aluyonto eyabo kuphela, kodwa ikwabelwana ngayo phakathi kwabo. Kukweli nqanaba, le nkwenkwe iqala ukufumanisa amalungu ayo obuni, ixhaphaza rhoqo, nto leyo edla ngokungamkelwa ngabazali, idala inkwenkwe ukoyika ukuthenwa, imenze abuyele kolo thando nomnqweno kanina, ekubeni utata oyimbangi ungaphezulu lee kunaye.

Eli linqanaba lokumisela indlela oziphethe ngayo xa sele umdala, ngakumbi ngokunxulumene nobomi bakho ngokwesondo.

Zithini izigaba ze-Oedipus Complex

Malunga neminyaka emi-3 ubudala, inkwenkwe iqala ukuncamathela kunina, ifuna yena yedwa, kodwa xa efumanisa ukuba utata uyamthanda nomama wakhe, uziva ngathi ulutshaba, kuba umfuna kuphela ngokwakhe, ngaphandle kongenelelo lwakho. Njengokuba umntwana engakwazi ukushenxisa imbangi yakhe, ngubani utata, angangathobeli, kwaye abe nesimo sengqondo sokulwa.

Ngapha koko, xa inkwenkwe ingena kwinqanaba lesini, uqala ukuqondisa umdla wakhe kunye nelukuluku kwilungu lakhe lobuni, elinokuqondwa ngabazali, kuba ulisebenzisa rhoqo, elihlala lingavunyelwa ngabo, besenza- ukubuyela kuloo nto uthando nomnqweno kanina, ngenxa yokoyika ukuthenwa, kuba utata wimbangi ephezulu kakhulu kunaye.

Ngokuka-Freud, kukwakweli nqanaba ukuba amakhwenkwe namantombazana axhalabile ngumahluko wokwakheka phakathi kwesini. Amantombazana aba nomona ngelungu lobudoda kwaye amakhwenkwe oyika ukuthenwa, kuba acinga ukuba incanca yentombazana isikiwe. Kwelinye icala, intombazana, yakufumanisa ukungabikho kwelungu lobudoda, iziva ingaphantsi kwaye isola umama, ikhulisa imvakalelo yentiyo.

Ngokuhamba kwexesha, umntwana uqala ukuxabisa iimpawu zikatata, ngokuxelisa indlela aziphethe ngayo kwaye njengoko esiya ebudaleni, inkwenkwe iyazimela kunina kwaye izimele, iqala ukuba nomdla kwabanye abantu basetyhini.

Iimpawu ezifanayo zinokwenzeka kubantwana ababhinqileyo, kodwa uvakalelo lomnqweno lwenzeka ngokunxulumene notata kunye nolomsindo nomona ngokunxulumene nomama. Kumantombazana, esi sigaba sibizwa ngokuba yi-Electra Complex.

Yeyiphi i-Oedipus esonjululwe kakubi?

Amadoda asilelayo ukoyisa ubunzima be-Oedipus banokuphumelela kwaye bahlakulele uloyiko, kwaye abasetyhini banokufumana isimilo sokuziphatha samadoda. Bobabini banokuba ngabantu abapholileyo ngokwesini kunye nabantu abaneentloni, kwaye banokuziva bephantsi kwaye benoloyiko lokungamkelwa.

Ngapha koko, ngokukaFreud, kuqhelekile ukuba xa ubunzima be-Oedipus buqhubeka ukuya ebudaleni, bunokuxhokonxa ubufanasini besilisa okanye besetyhini.