Kuthetha Ukuthini Ukuxhalaba?

Umxholo

• Ithetha ntoni kanye-kanye ipanromantic?
• Ngaba yinto efanayo nokuba ne-pansexual?
• Linda, ke kukho umahluko phakathi komtsalane wothando kunye nokwabelana ngesondo?
• Ngawaphi amanye amagama asetyenziswayo ukuchaza umtsalane wothando?
• Ngaba i-biromantic kunye ne-panromantic yinto enye? Zivakala zifana!
• Ngawaphi amanye amagama asetyenziswayo ukuchaza umtsalane wesini?
• Ngaba zikho ezinye iindlela zokufumana umtsalane?
• Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba umtsalane wothando kunye nokwabelana ngesondo ukuwele kwiindidi ezahlukeneyo?
• Kutheni le nto kukho amagama amaninzi ahlukeneyo?
• Ungafunda phi ngaphezulu?

Ithetha ntoni kanye-kanye ipanromantic?

Umntu otyhwatyhwa luthando utsala abantu bazo zonke izazisi ngokwesini.

Oku akuthethi ukuba uyathandana wonke umntu, kodwa ukuba isini somntu asiyonyani ukuba uyathandana nabo okanye akunjalo.

Ngaba yinto efanayo nokuba ne-pansexual?

Hayi! "I-Pansexual" imalunga nomtsalane wesini ngelixa "i-panromantic" imalunga nomtsalane wothando.

Linda, ke kukho umahluko phakathi komtsalane wothando kunye nokwabelana ngesondo?

Ewe. Ngaba ukhe waziva utsalelekile emntwini, kodwa khange ufune ubudlelwane obunzulu nabo?

Kuyenzeka ukuba ufuna ukuba namava ezesondo nomntu ngaphandle kokufuna ukuthandana nabo.

Ngendlela efanayo, kunokwenzeka ukuba ufuna ukuthandana nomntu ngaphandle kokufuna ukulala naye.

Kungenxa yokuba umtsalane wesini ayifani nomtsalane wothando.

Ngawaphi amanye amagama asetyenziswayo ukuchaza umtsalane wothando?

Maninzi amagama asetyenziswayo ukuchaza umtsalane wothando- akunjalo ukuba olu luluhlu olupheleleyo.

Amanye amagama aqhelekileyo asetyenziswa kubandakanya:

• Aromantic: Unamava amancinci okuthandana nomntu ongathandani naye, nokuba ungubani na.
• I-Biromantic: Utsaleleke kubantu besini esinye nangaphezulu.
• Ngobunono: Ufumana umtsalane wothando rhoqo.
• Ubungqina: Ufumana umtsalane wothando rhoqo, kwaye xa usenza oko kuphela emva kokuphuhlisa unxibelelwano olomeleleyo lweemvakalelo komnye umntu.
• IHeteroromantic: Utsaleleke kuphela kubantu besini esahlukileyo kuwe.
• Ulwalamano: Utsala kuphela abantu besini esifana nesakho.
• Polyromantic: Utsaleleke kubantu abaninzi - ayingabo bonke - isini.

Ngaba i-biromantic kunye ne-panromantic yinto enye? Zivakala zifana!

Isimaphambili “bi-” ngesiqhelo sithetha isibini. IiBinoculars zinamacandelo amabini, kwaye iibhayisekile zinamavili amabini.

Nangona kunjalo, uluntu oluthandanayo luye lwacinga ukuba "ulwabelana ngesondo" kuthetha ukuba "utsalane ngokwesondo kubantu ababini okanye nangaphezulu isini. ”

Ngokufanayo, i-biromantic ithetha "ukuthandana nabantu ababini okanye nangaphezulu isini. ”

I-Biromantic kunye ne-panromantic ayifani ncam, nangona kunokubakho ukungqubana.

"Uninzi" alufani no "bonke." "Zonke" zinokungena kudidi lwe "ezimbini okanye nangaphezulu," kuba ngu ngaphezulu kwesibini, kodwa ayifani ncam.

Umzekelo, ukuba uthi, "Ndonwabela iintlobo ezininzi zeti," ayifani nokuthi, "Ndonwabela zonke iintlobo zeti."

Isebenza ngokufanayo nesini.

Unokuba nomtsalane kubantu abathandanayo ezininzi isini, kodwa ayifani nokuthandana nothando kubantu be konke Isini.

Ukuba ungathanda, ungachonga zombini njenge-biromantic kunye ne-panromantic, kuba "konke" ngobuchwephesha kuwela kudidi "olungaphezulu kwesibini."

Ekugqibeleni kuxhomekeke kuwe ukuba ukhethe ileyibhile okanye iilebhile ezikufanelayo.

Ngawaphi amanye amagama asetyenziswayo ukuchaza umtsalane wesini?

Ngoku ukuba sigubungele umtsalane wothando, makhe sijonge umtsalane wesini.

Nazi ezinye zeendlela eziqhelekileyo ezisetyenziswayo:

• Isini: Unamava omncinci wokutsala ngesondo nakubani na, nokuba ungubani na.
• Ulwabelana ngesini: Utsaleleka kubantu besini esinye nangaphezulu.
• Izesini: Ufumana umtsalane wesini rhoqo.
• Ubungqina: Ufumana umtsalane wesini rhoqo, kwaye xa usenza oko kusemva kokuphuhlisa unxibelelwano lweemvakalelo olomeleleyo komnye umntu.
• Ukuthandana kwabantu besini esinye: Utsalwa kuphela ngokwesini ngabantu besini esahlukileyo kuwe.
• Ubufanasini: Utsalwa kuphela ngokwesini ngabantu abalinganayo nesini.
• I-Polysexual: Utsaleleka kubantu abaninzi - hayi bonke - isini.

Ngaba zikho ezinye iindlela zokufumana umtsalane?

Ewe! Zininzi iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zokutsala, kubandakanya:

• Umtsalane ngobuhle, etsalwa ngumntu ngokubhekisele kwinkangeleko yakhe.
• Inkanuko yenyama okanye yomzimba, emalunga nokufuna ukubamba, ukubamba, okanye ukwanga umntu.
• Umtsalane kaPlato, emalunga nokufuna ukuba ngumhlobo womntu.
• Umtsalane ngokweemvakalelo, Kulapho ufumanisa ukuba ufuna unxibelelwano lweemvakalelo nomntu.

Ewe, ezinye zezi zaphuma ziye egazini.

Umzekelo, abantu abaninzi banoluvo lokuba ukutsala inkanuko yeyona nto iphambili ekuvakaliseni umntu othile ngokwesondo.

Kwabanye abantu, ukutsala ngokweemvakalelo kunokuba yinto ephambili yomtsalane weplato.

Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba umtsalane wothando kunye nokwabelana ngesondo ukuwele kwiindidi ezahlukeneyo?

Uninzi lwabantu luthandana nabantu besini esifanayo abathandana nabo ngokwesondo.

Umzekelo, xa sisebenzisa igama elithi "isini esahlukileyo," kuhlala kuchazwa ukuba lo mntu utshatile ngokwesondo nangothando kubantu besinye isini.

Kodwa abanye abantu bafumanisa ukuba bayathandana kwiqela elinye labantu kwaye banomdla ngokwesondo kwelinye iqela labantu.

Oku kuhlala kubizwa ngokuba yi "cross-orientation" okanye "ukuxubana okuxubeneyo."

Umzekelo, masithi umfazi ungoyiki kwaye ungowesini esahlukileyo.

Ngamanye amagama, utsala abantu abathandanayo ngokwesini, kwaye unokuzibona enobudlelwane obunzulu, obuthandanayo, obuzinikeleyo nakowuphi na umntu wesini.

Nangona kunjalo, kuba uyathandana nabantu besini esahlukileyo, utsala kuphela kumadoda.

Kutheni le nto kukho amagama amaninzi ahlukeneyo?

Sisebenzisa amagama ahlukeneyo ukuchaza amava ethu kuba amava ethu anomtsalane ngokwesondo nangothando ahlukile kwaye ahlukile.

Ukufunda ngamagama ahlukeneyo kunye neentlobo zokutsala kunokuba yinto encinci ekuqaleni, kodwa linyathelo lokuqala elibalulekileyo.

Iilebheli esizikhethayo zisinceda ukuba siqonde ezethu iimvakalelo kwaye sinxibelelane nabantu abavakalelwa ngendlela efanayo.

Ewe kunjalo, ukuba awufuni ukuleyibhelisha ulwalamano lwakho ngokwesondo okanye kwezothando, awunyanzelekanga!

Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba uhloniphe abo benza ileyibhile yokuqhelaniswa kwabo, nokuba awuyiqondi.

Ungafunda phi ngaphezulu?

Ukuba ungathanda ukufunda ngokwemiqathango eyahlukeneyo yomtsalane, jonga:

• Isikhokelo se-GLAAD sokufumana indawo yakho ye-ace
• Ukubonakala ngokwesini kunye neNethiwekhi yezeMfundo, apho unokujonga khona amagama ahlukeneyo ngokunxulumene nokwabelana ngesondo, ukuthanda isini, kunye nokuziqhelanisa nothando.
• Ubufazi bemihla ngemihla, obunamanqaku amaninzi malunga nokuzibandakanya kwezesondo kunye nokuthandana

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