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Umxholo

• Ngaba ukukhetha ubuso akunampilo?
• Kusebenza njani ukukhetha ubuso?
• Ukwahlula ngokuchasene nomntwana
• Iindidi zocalucalulo
• Yise kude

Inkcazo yobuhlanga

Ukwahlulahlula ngumdla kwezesondo kugxilwe kwinxalenye ethile yomzimba. Oku kunokuba lilungu lomzimba, njengeenwele, amabele, okanye iimpundu. Eyona ndlela iqhelekileyo yokukhetha ipodophilia, apho umntu evuswa ziinyawo ngokwesondo.

Ukwahlulahlulahlulwa kubonwa njengohlobo lweparaphilia okanye ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo. Iparaphilia ibandakanya ukuvusa isondo kwizinto, iimeko, okanye ekujoliseni ezithathwa ngokuba zi-atypical okanye aziqhelekanga. Ukwahlula-hlulwa kuthathwa njengeparaphilia ngandlel 'ithile kuyimpikiswano kunye nesihloko ekuxoxwa kakhulu ngaso phakathi kwabaqeqeshi bezempilo.

Iindidi ezininzi zeparaphilia azithathwa njengezamkelekileyo eluntwini okanye azikho semthethweni, ezinje nge-pedophilia kunye necrophilia. Ukwahlula-hlula luhlobo lweparaphilia olunomdla ngakumbi okanye ukuthanda ngokwesondo kunesifo separaphilic, kwaye ihlala yamkelekile phakathi kwabantu abadala abavumayo.

Ngaba ukukhetha ubuso akunampilo?

Ukwahlulahlulwa kuthathwa njengokungenampilo ukuba kubangela wena okanye omnye umntu uxinzelelo okanye ukwenzakala. Ngethuba nje kungaphazamisi ukusebenza kwakho ekhaya, emsebenzini, okanye kwezinye iindawo zobomi bakho, okanye ukulimaza abanye, njengabantwana okanye abantu abadala abangathathi ntweni, akuthathwa njengokungenampilo.

Umahluko phakathi kweparaphilia kunye nokuphazamiseka kwengqondo ngoku ichazwe ngokucacileyo kuhlelo lwamva nje lweDiagnostic kunye neNgcaciso yeNcwadi yeNgxaki yeNgqondo (DSM-5). I-DSM-5 yincwadi yesikhokelo esetyenziswa ngoochwephesha kwezempilo eUnited States kwaye uninzi lwehlabathi njengesikhokelo esinegunya ekuchongeni ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo.

Inkcazo entsha ichaza ngokucacileyo umahluko phakathi kweparaphilia njengomdla wesondo okanye ukuthanda, njengokukhetha, kunye nokuphazamiseka kwengqondo okubangelwa kukuziphatha. Ngokwenqobo yokugweba kwi-DSM-5, iparaphilia ayithathwa njengengxaki ngaphandle kokuba ikwenza uzive:

• uxinzelelo malunga nomdla wakho wesondo
• inkanuko yesini okanye indlela yokuziphatha ebandakanya uxinzelelo, ukwenzakala, okanye ukufa komnye umntu
• umnqweno wokuziphatha ngokwesondo kubandakanya umntu ongafuniyo okanye ongakwaziyo ukunika imvume yomthetho

Kusebenza njani ukukhetha ubuso?

Abaphandi abaqinisekanga ncam ukuba ucalucalulo lusebenza njani kwaye yintoni ebangela ukuba umntu onwabe lilungu elinye lomzimba womnye umntu. Kukho iingcamango ezininzi, nangona kunjalo.

Ezinye iingcali zikholelwa ekubeni iipateni zokuvuselela inkanuko yesini ezinxulunyaniswa neparaphilia ziyaphuhliswa ngaphambi kokufikisa. Ithiyori enye kukuba ibangelwa kukuxhalaba okanye ukwenzakala kwangethuba kwiimvakalelo eziphazamisana noko kuthathwa njengokukhula "okuqhelekileyo" ngokwesini.

Enye ithiyori kukuvezwa kwangoko kumava ezesondo ahlawuliswe kakhulu umntu ukuba akholelwe ukuba ilungu lomzimba okanye into engathandekiyo iyonwabisa.

Abanye bakholelwa ukuba inkcubeko inokuba nento yokwenza nokukhetha ubuso. Uphando lubonisa ukuba inkcubeko idlala indima ekukhethweni kwamalungu athile omzimba okanye iimilo. Ezinye iingcali zichaze ukuba kunzima, ukuba akunakwenzeka, ukufumanisa ukuba ngaba umntu utsala kuphela ilungu lomzimba okanye ukuba yinxalenye yomtsalane wabo kwenye yeempawu zomlingane.

Ukwahlula ngokuchasene nomntwana

Umbuzo wokuba ingaba umkhethe ngumntwana bekusoloko kuxoxiswana ngawo kangangeminyaka. Ingxaki yokukhulelwa komntwana ifakiwe kwisahluko se-DSM-5 malunga nokuphazamiseka kweparaphilic. Kwaye ayithathwa njengengxaki ngaphandle kokuba ibangela uxinzelelo okanye ukwenzakala kuwe okanye komnye umntu.

Ukwahlukana kuphela phakathi kokukhetha kunye nokukhulelwa komzimba kukugxilwe ngumdla womntu. Ukwahlula-hlula kukuvusa inkanuko yesini kubandakanya ilungu elithile lomzimba, njengamabele okanye izandla. Umntwana ovusayo ngokwesondo ngento engaphiliyo, ezinje ngezihlangu okanye iimpahla zangaphantsi.

Iindidi zocalucalulo

Ukwahlulahlula kunokubandakanya naliphi na ilungu lomzimba womntu ngaphandle kwelungu lesini. Ezona ntlobo zixhaphakileyo zocalucalulo zibandakanya:

• ipodophilia (iinyawo)
• izandla
• i-trichophilia (iinwele)
• i-oculophilia (amehlo)
• pygophilia (iimpundu)
• mazophilia (isifuba)
• i-nasophilia (impumlo)
• I-alvinophilia (inkaba)
• i-alvinolagnia (isisu)
• iindlebe
• intamo
• maschalagnia (ikhwapha)

Yise kude

Ukhethe kusenokungathathelwa ngqalelo njengesiqhelo ekuhlaleni, kodwa okoko nje kungonzakalisi mntu kwaye kuyonwatyiswa phakathi kwabantu abadala abavumayo, ayisiyongozi. Ukuba unenkxalabo malunga nokukhetha kwakho ngokwesondo okanye uziva ukuba kuchaphazela kakubi nayiphi na into ebomini bakho okanye komnye umntu, thetha nogqirha. Banokukuthumela kwingcali yezempilo yengqondo enamava kuphazamiso lweparaphilic.