Abantu abakhubazekileyo bafumana ubuGcisa bokwenza iimpahla zisebenze kubo

Umxholo

• Ukuthenga ngaphandle kwemigca kunye nokwenza uhlengahlengiso
• Isidingo sokuphuculwa kwesitayile kunye nesitayile
• Ikamva lefashoni eguqukayo

Abaqulunqi befashoni bezisa iimpahla zokuziqhelanisa nezinto eziqhelekileyo, kodwa abanye abathengi bathi iimpahla azilingani nemizimba yabo okanye uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali.

Ngaba ukhe wanxiba ihempe kwikhabethe lakho kwaye wafumanisa ukuba ayilunganga ncam? Mhlawumbi wolule ukuhlamba okanye ukumila komzimba utshintshe kancinci.

Kodwa kuthekani ukuba yonke impahla oyizamileyo ibingalingani? Okanye okubi kakhulu - yenzelwe ngendlela yokuba ungabinakho nokuyityibilika emzimbeni wakho.

Yiloo nto abantu abaninzi abakhubazekileyo abajamelana nayo xa benxiba kusasa.

Ngelixa abayili befashoni, njengoTommy Hilfiger, beqalisile ukwenza imigca yempahla eguqukayo-iimpahla ezilungiselelwe ngokukodwa abantu abakhubazekileyo-umhlaba wefashoni ebandakanyayo usenendlela ende ekusafuneka uyenzile.

“Okwangoku, zimbalwa ngaphantsi kwe-10 [iimpahla eziguqukayo] endinokuthi ziyamangalisa kwaye ndingacebisa kakhulu. Ndibeka le ngxelo kubantu endisebenza nabo, utshilo uStephanie Thomas, isitayile sabantu abakhubazekileyo kunye nomyili weCur8able, ibhlog malunga nefashoni eguqukayo.

Amanani alahlekileyo esandleni sakhe sasekunene nasezinyaweni, uThomas uyazibonela ngokwakhe imiceli mngeni yokunxiba xa unesiphene esibelekweni, kwaye wabelana ngebali lakhe kunye neenkcukacha zenkqubo yakhe yokuKhubazeka kweFashoni © kwiNtetho yeTEDx.

Ke abantu abazizigidi ezingama-56.7 abakhubazekileyo bazakha njani iingubo zabo zokunxiba ngeendlela ezimbalwa zokunxiba ezikhoyo?

Ngamafutshane, bayila ngobuchule apho bathengela khona kunye nezinto abazinxibayo.

Ukuthenga ngaphandle kwemigca kunye nokwenza uhlengahlengiso

Xa kuthengwa iimpahla ezintsha, uKatherine Sanger, umququzeleli weqela lenkxaso kubazali abaneemfuno ezizodwa zabantwana, uhlala ethatha izibini ze "mama jean" kwivenkile yesebe. Benzelwe unyana wakhe oneminyaka eli-16 ubudala, uSimon Sanger, one-autism kunye nengqondo kunye nokhubazeko lokukhula.

“Kuba uSimon esokola nobuchule obufanelekileyo bemoto, oko kunefuthe kubuchule bakhe bokusebenzisa iziphu kunye namaqhosha. Iibhulukhwe zakhe zifuna umbhinqo welastikhi ukuze aye yedwa kwigumbi lokuhlambela, utshilo uSanger. "Unokufumana kuphela ijini enje ngamadoda ngobukhulu obukhulu okanye eyenzelwe abantu abakumakhaya abantu abalupheleyo."

Ngelixa uSimon ngamanye amaxesha enxiba iimpahla zokubila ekhaya, ijini yinxalenye yomfaniswano wesikolo. Kwaye isitayile sebhulukhwe yakhe sihluke mpela kwinto enxitywa ngoogxa bakhe afunda nabo: baswele iipokotho, banesinqe esiphezulu, kwaye banokulunga ngakumbi.

“Akanangxaki nabo kuba akakhathali nokuba ibhlukhwe yakhe yenzelwe abantu ababhinqileyo, kodwa ijean ayisiyonto intle ukubeka umntwana wakho. Nokuba akayazi ingcinezelo yoontanga, ayenzi njalo. mbeke kwindawo elungileyo. ” USanger uyacacisa.

Iibhanti ezinqatyisiweyo lolunye uhlengahlengiso loyilo oluya kwenza izinto zibe lula kwabanye abantu abakhubazekileyo.

Imilambo esinqeni inokubanceda abantu abanobuchule obunomda ukukhupha iibhulukhwe zabo. Iiflaps zinokwenza kube lula ukutshintsha ibhegi yomlenze. Kwaye ukunqumamisa umlenze we-pant kunokunceda umntu ukuba afikelele kwindawo yakhe yokufakelwa.

Ngelixa kukho ii-brand eziguqukayo eziza kwenza iimpahla zijongane neemfuno zabathengi zabo, abanye bathi iindleko zezo mpahla zingaphaya kokufikelela.

Abantu abakhubazekileyo bafumana umvuzo ongaphantsi kunabanye baseMelika kwaye bahlala befumana umvuzo ochanekileyo. Ukutshiza kwisibini esikhethekileyo seejini akusoloko kuyinto onokukhetha kuyo.

Endaweni yoko, abantu abakhubazekileyo bayaziguqula iingubo ngokwabo- okanye ngoncedo lomhlobo okanye umthungi, utshilo uLynn Crisci, owayesakuba sisihlalo sabakhubazekile kunye nosindileyo kwibhombu yaseBoston Marathon.

Iintlungu ezingapheliyo zimnyanzele ukuba ahlengahlengise iimpahla zakhe ukuze zibelula kwaye zikulungele ukunxiba.

“Uzifumana zonke ezi ndlela zokutshintsha iimpahla. Nditshintshe izihlangu ezibotshwayo ngezine-Velcro, ndaza endaweni yeentambo zezinye izihlangu ndafaka iintambo ze-bungee. Oko kuguqula iiteki kwii-slip-ons, kwaye kungcono kakhulu xa unengxaki yokugoba kunye nokubopha, utshilo.

Izinto ezikhawulezayo zinokuba yingxaki ngakumbi kwabanye abantu abakhubazekileyo. Kungaba buhlungu, kunzima, kwaye kuyingozi ukuzama ukucofa ihempe, ukuba akunakwenzeka ngokuqinisekileyo.

“Kufuneka ufunde indlela onokwenza ngayo ubomi bakho. Wena okanye umhlobo unokusika amaqhosha ngaphambili kwehempe yakho endaweni yoko ubambe iimagnethi ngaphakathi, ke konke okubonayo ngamaqhosha. Unokudibanisa amaqhosha ngasemva ngaphezulu ukuze kubonakale ngathi ihempe inamaqhosha, ”wongeza uCrisci.

U-Etsy ube sisixhobo esikhulu kuCrisci sokufumana iimpahla ezihambelana neemfuno zakhe, nditsho nakubathengisi abangazange bazimisele ukwenza iimpahla eziguqukayo.

“Abantu abaninzi e-Etsy ngamagcisa. Nangona bengenayo kanye le ndiyifunayo, ndingabathumela umyalezo kwaye ndenze isicelo esikhethekileyo, kwaye amaxesha amaninzi baya kunikezela ukuba bayenze, "wabelana.

Isidingo sokuphuculwa kwesitayile kunye nesitayile

Kodwa ayisiyongxaki yeempahla kuphela. Ukuphuculwa kokusika kunye nesitayile kukwaphezulu kuluhlu lweeminqweno yeewadi zabantu abathile abakhubazekileyo.

"Ngendlela esihlala ngayo kwizitulo esinamavili, umva webhulukhwe wethu uyehla kakhulu kwaye abantu banendawo yabo yokuxhoma," utshilo uRachelle Chapman, isithethi seDallas Novelty, ivenkile yokudlala ngesondo kubantu abakhubazekileyo.

Wakhubazeka ukusuka esifubeni ukuhla emva kokutyhalwa wangena echibini ngobusuku bepati yakhe ye-bachelorette kwi-2010.

Iibhulukhwe ezinomqolo ophezulu nangaphantsi zingasombulula umngeni wesitayile, kodwa kunzima ukuzifumana kwaye ngokwendleko zibiza kakhulu kunoChapman.

Endaweni yoko, ukhetha ijee ezinde (ezihlala zivela kwiiAmerican Eagle Outfitters) eziza ezihlangwini zakhe xa ehleli kunye neehempe ezinde ezifihla isinqe sakhe esinqabileyo.

Ngelixa uChapman ethanda ukunxiba iilokhwe, kufuneka alumkele ukuba zeziphi iindlela akhetha ukuzinxiba. "Ndiyacinga ngeengubo ezininzi ezingenakusebenza kumzimba wam omtsha," utshilo.

Ngenxa yokuba izihlunu zakhe zesisu zibuthathaka kwaye ngenxa yoko isisu sakhe siyaphuma, ukhetha izimbo ezingagxininisi isisu sakhe.

Imigangatho yehemmline isebenza ngcono kunokusikwa okufutshane kukaChapman, isifundo asifundileyo xa wayedliwanondlebe noKatie Couric kumabonakude. Wayenxibe ilokhwe emnyama engenamikhono ebetha ngentla kwedolo.

"Andikwazi ukuyibamba imilenze yam ngokudibeneyo, ngoko ke amadolo am avuleka kwaye ajongeka kakubi," utshilo uChapman. "Bendi ngasemva kwaye sisebenzise into, ndicinga ukuba ibiyibhanti, ukubamba amadolo ndonke."

Ukuthatha isikere kwisinxibo sakho somtshato akunakuqondakala koomolokazana abaninzi, kodwa yiloo nto kanye eyenziwa nguChapman ngemini yakhe enkulu. Wayengazukuvumela ingozi imnqande ekunxibeni ilokhwe awayeyikhethile kunye nomama wakhe.

“Umva yayiyicorset eboshwe ngentambo. Ke siyinqumle ukusuka kwi-corset ukuya ezantsi ukuvula ilokhwe (bendihleli kwela cala kunjalo). Ndakhwela ebhedini, ndajongisa ubuso phantsi, ndafola ilokhwe ngesifuba. Ngequbuliso ndangena, utshilo.

Ikamva lefashoni eguqukayo

UThomas, ingcali yesitayile sokukhubazeka, uthi iimpahla eziguqukayo zivela kude ukusukela oko waqalisa ukuphanda ngazo ekuqaleni kweminyaka yoo-1990. Kwiminyaka yakutshanje, abaqulunqi befashoni abaqhelekileyo kunye nevenkile yeempahla baqalisile ukulungiselela iintlobo ezahlukeneyo ezinkulu zomzimba.

Kutshanje i-ASOS iqale umnyhadala womculo-i-jumpsuit ekulungeleyo ukunxitywa ngabantu abasebenzisa izitulo ezinamavili kunye nabo bangenakho. Ithagethi iye yandisa umgca wayo oguqukayo ukubandakanya uluhlu olukhulu lobukhulu. Amadoda, abasetyhini, kunye nabantwana banokuthenga ijean eguqukayo, iimpahla ezinomdla, izihlangu zeswekile, kunye nokunxiba emva kotyando eZappos.

UThomas ukholelwa ekubeni imithombo yeendaba zentlalo iyanceda ukuhambisa iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zomzimba kwizinto eziqhelekileyo nokuxhobisa abantu abakhubazekileyo ukuba bacele iimpahla ezibasebenzelayo.

“Ndiyayithanda into yokuba abantu bengasaxolisi ngokungabinangalo okanye iinzwane ezintathu. Abantu abakhubazekileyo badiniwe kukuya ezivenkileni kwaye ukungahoywa ngabantu abathengisayo, kwaye abo basebenzisa isitulo esinamavili badiniwe kukufumana ii-bums zabo ukuba zibonwe lihlabathi. Eli lixesha lokuba abantu abakhubazekileyo bave amazwi abo, ”utshilo uThomas.

Ngale nto ithethwayo, iimfuno zesitayile sabantu abakhubazekileyo zahlukile njengemizimba yabo. Akukho zimbini ziyafana ngokuchanekileyo, ezenza ukuba ukulingana okufanelekileyo kube ngumceli mngeni, ngaphandle kokukhula kokufumaneka kweempahla eziguqukayo.

Kuze kube kufikeleleke, iimpahla ezilungele ukunxiba ziba ziipesenti ezili-100 zenziwe ngokwezifiso, abantu abakhubazekileyo baya kuhlala besenza oko bebesoloko bekwenza: ukwenza ubuchule ngezinto ezikwii-racks, ukongeza iindawo ezivaliweyo zemagnethi, ubukhulu kunye nokucutha iinxalenye zeempahla ayiyisebenzisi imizimba yazo.

Kudinga umzamo owongezelelweyo, kodwa uTomas uthi elo lixesha nemali esetyenziswe kakuhle.

"Ndiwubonile umohluko olawulwa kukunxiba kubantu abakhubazekileyo," utshilo. Imalunga nobomi bobomi kunye nokusebenza ngokwakho, ukuba nakho ukuzijonga esipilini kwaye uyayithanda into oyibonayo.

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