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Xa ungomnye weyona modeli ibaluleke kakhulu kwi-Instagram (ekwenzeka ukuba afike nje kwisivumelwano sokumodareyitha kunye nefashoni yakhe) kwaye waziwa ngokukhuthaza iitoni zomzimba oncomekayo kwimidiya yoluntu, ucinga ukuzithemba ibingayi kunqongophala ncam. Kodwa noNadia Aboulhosn oneminyaka engama-28 akakhuselekanga kukungakhuseleki. Uthi: “Ngamanye amaxesha ndivakalelwa kukuba kufuneka ndenze okungakumbi ebomini bam. Ukuya kwakhe kukuzithemba? "Ndiyathanda ukuzifihla egumbini lam, ndivale ifowuni yam, emva koko ndibukele iividiyo ezininzi ezivela kuTony Robbins okanye uJim Carrey kunye nejenali," utsho ehleka. "Ndizama ukufunda kubantu abaye bafumana ngaphezu kwam ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo."

Imodeli yobukhulu obudibeneyo sele inobutyebi bayo bamava-ngakumbi xa kufikwa ekutyhaleni incoko ejikeleze ukubanakho komzimba kwinqanaba elilandelayo. Ngaphandle kwayo yonke loo migudu ishishini eliyenzileyo ukumela abafazi bobukhulu obahlukeneyo kunye nobuhlanga kunye nokuzama ukukhuthaza ukwamkelwa komzimba kunye nothando, kusekho indawo eninzi yokuphucula. "Umfazi oqhelekileyo abamphosayo ubungakanani be-12 okanye i-14 enohlobo lomzimba olugobileyo kwaye ubonakala ngathi ungaphezulu nangaphantsi," utshilo u-Aboulhosn weearhente zokuphosa ubungakanani. "Kuninzi kakhulu ukungamelwa okufuna ukubakho. Abantu bafuna ukuviwa kwaye bafuna ukuba nemifanekiso abanokuthi banxibelelane nayo. Kumajelo eendaba ezentlalo I-nabantu abanjengam-bazise umbono wokuba umhlaba awukho Uhlobo olunye lomntu. " (Eyeleleneyo: UDenise Bidot Wabelana Ngesizathu Sokuba Ethanda Amanqaku Olulo Kwisisu Sakhe.)

Imfihlo yokukhaba ukuzithemba kwakho kwigiya ephezulu kukuthetha malunga ne-taboos-ukusuka kubungakanani ukuya kwisini, utshilo uAboulhosn. "Xa ubona into rhoqo iyenza iqheleke ... lelona nyathelo likhulu ekufuneka silithathe ukuze siqhubele phambili." Leyo nkolelo yeyokuba imodeli kunye nomyili uyimbumba kunye neXOXO ziikhondom zeTrojan ngephulo labo #TrustYourself. "Kukho obu bunzima kubantu basetyhini ekufuneka sibe luhlobo oluthile lwendlela," utsho malunga neenkolelo ezijikeleze yonke into ukusuka kwindlela ekufuneka ujongeke ngayo kwi-bikini ukuya kwindlela omele ukuphatha ngayo ubomi bakho ngokwesondo. "Ukuzithemba ngokwenene kuhamba nokuzithemba komzimba kunye nokuzithemba ngokubanzi."

Ukubamba ukuzithemba kwakhe okungenakundoyisa, ufuna izinto ezimbini, utshilo. Okokuqala, khathalela uluvo lwakho. Uthi: "Oko ucinga ngawe kubaluleke ngakumbi kunoko abanye abantu bakucinga ngawe," utshilo. "Gcina loo nto engqondweni xa abantu benza izigwebo zabo." (Eyeleleneyo: IMantra eXhobisayo u-Ashley Graham Usebenzisa ukuziva njenge-Badass.)

Okwesibini, sika i-crap engalunganga. "Umbutho ngoku unomdla wokubonisa into ongayithandiyo endaweni yokugxila kwizinto ezintle ngawe," utshilo, kodwa kokukhona uzikholelwa kuwe kwaye urhoxise nengxolo yangaphandle, uya kuziva imilo ehambayo ihamba ngokukhululekileyo. Oko kunokuba nzima ngakumbi kumzi-mveliso apho ubungakanani obufanayo-bonke isimo sengqondo siqhelekile. U-Aboulhosn uthi utsaliwe kwiseti yakhe yokubulala yezakhono zendalo zokugcina ulusu lushinyene.

"Ndiyazi ukuba ndi-5 inyawo 3. Ndiyazi ukuba ubunzima bam buyaguquguquka," utsho. "Ndiyayazi into endinayo. Leyo yinxalenye yobomi." Olo luhlobo lokuzithemba onokulufumana ngokunzulu. (Kodwa heyi, ukuba konke okunye kuyasilela, ungahlala uYouTube ezinye zezona ziphambili zikaTony Robbins.

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