Uyisebenzisa kanjani le ndlela yokuQeqesha iiPotty yeentsuku ezi-3

Umxholo

• Indlela yoQeqesho lweePotty yeentsuku ezi-3
• Ulindelo lweNdlela
• Isicwangciso
• Uhambo lwam loQeqesho
• Ukuthatha

Sibandakanya iimveliso esicinga ukuba ziluncedo kubafundi bethu. Ukuba uthenga amakhonkco kweli phepha, sinokufumana ikhomishini encinci. Nantsi inkqubo yethu.

Ngaba potty uqeqesho lwakho oluncinci kwimpelaveki ende kuvakala kakhulu ukuba kuyinyani?

Kubazali abaninzi, uqeqesho lweebhotile yinkqubo ende, ephazamisayo enzima kakhulu kumama okanye kutata kunakwimeko encinci yokuqeqeshwa. Kodwa umxholo wokukhawuleziswa koqeqesho lwamaxesha asemanzini ayonto intsha. Ngo-1974, isibini seengcali zengqondo sapapasha "uQeqesho lwangasese kwiintsuku ezingaphantsi kosuku," kwaye iindlela zoqeqesho olukhawulezileyo nezicwangciso ziyaqhubeka nanamhlanje.

Thatha indlela edumileyo kaLora Jensen, Indlela yeentsuku ezi-3 yoQeqesho lwePotty. UJensen ngumama wabathandathu kwaye ubhengeze ukuba unguye, "uKumkanikazi woQeqesho lwePotty." Wayilungisa kakuhle indlela yakhe yeentsuku ezintathu nabantwana bakhe emva kokulandela ngokusondeleyo impumelelo yoqeqesho lwamanzi kunye nokusilela kwabahlobo bakhe kunye nosapho, kwaye isiphumo senkqubo yoqeqesho olucekeceke olufunyanwa ngabazali abaninzi.

Indlela yoQeqesho lweePotty yeentsuku ezi-3

Isicwangciso sikaJensen sisekwe kwindlela enothando yoqeqesho lweebhotile egxininisa ukomeleza okuhle, ukungaguquguquki kunye nomonde. Indlela yeentsuku ezintathu ikwathatha indlela ethe kratya yokucinga "ngemiqondiso yokulungela," okanye imiqondiso yokuba umntwana wakho omncinci uyazi ngokwaneleyo ukuba angaqeqesha isitya ngempumelelo.

NgokukaJensen, uphawu lokuqala oluyimfuneko kukwazi komntwana wakho ukunxibelelana ngokungaguquguqukiyo nezinto azifunayo, nangaphandle kokusebenzisa intetho. Ucebisa ukuba umntwana wakho abe nakho ukulala ngaphandle kwebhotile okanye indebe. Okokugqibela, uJensen ufumanisa ukuba elona xesha lifanelekileyo kuloliwe onamanzi anamanzi ziinyanga ezingama-22. Ngelixa eqaphela ukuba abantwana abangaphantsi kweenyanga ezingama-22 ezibonisa iimpawu zokulungela banokuphumelela isitimela, ulumkisa ukuba kuya kuthatha ixesha elingaphezulu kweentsuku ezintathu.

Ulindelo lweNdlela

Ngexesha lenkqubo yeentsuku ezintathu, lonke ujoliso lwakho kufuneka lube kumntwana wakho.

Oku kuthetha ukuba ishedyuli yakho yesiqhelo iya kuphazamiseka kuba uyakube uchitha zonke iintsuku ezintathu ngaphakathi kokutshica umgama womntwana wakho omncinci. Umbono kukuba ngelixa uqeqesha umntwana wakho, uqeqeshwa. Ufunda ngendlela umntwana wakho anxibelelana ngayo nemfuno yokusebenzisa igumbi lokuhlambela, kwaye oko kunokuthatha uvavanyo kunye nephutha.

Indlela yeentsuku ezi-3 ikwafuna ukuba abazali bazigcine bepholile nokuba zingaphi na iingozi ezenzekayo. Ngokuqinisekileyo iingozi ziya kwenzeka. Ukuzola, umonde, ukuqiniseka, kunye nokuhambelana-oku kunyanzelekile.

Ukuze uphumelele, uJensen ucebisa ukuba ucwangcise kwangaphambili iiveki ezimbalwa. Khetha iintsuku zakho ezintathu kwaye usule ishedyuli yakho. Yenza amalungiselelo abanye abantwana bakho (isikolo sithathe siye kulahla, imisebenzi yasemva kokuphuma kwesikolo, njl.njl.), Lungiselela ukutya kwangaphambili, thenga izixhobo zakho zoqeqesho, kwaye wenze nantoni na onokuyenza ukuqinisekisa ukuba ezo ntsuku zintathu ziya kunikezelwa umntwana wakho omncinci kunye nenkqubo yoqeqesho lweebhotile.

Ngelixa ungadingi ukuphambana nezinto, uya kudinga izinto ezimbalwa.

• isitulo esinamanzi esidibanisa nendlu yangasese okanye isitya esizimeleyo somntwana wakho (thenga apha)
• Iibhanti ezingama-20 ukuya kwezingama-30 zeebhulukhwe zangaphantsi "zentombazana enkulu" okanye "zintombazana enkulu" (thenga apha)
• ulwelo oluninzi ezandleni ukudala amathuba amaninzi okuphuka kweebhotile
• ukutya okune-fiber ephezulu
• uhlobo oluthile lokuphatha ukuqiniswa okuqinisekileyo (cinga abaqhekezi, iilekese, iziqwengana zeziqhamo, izitikha, iithoyi ezincinci- nokuba yeyiphi na into aya kuyiphendula umntwana wakho)

Isicwangciso

Usuku lokuqala luqala xa umntwana wakho evuka. Ngokufanelekileyo, uya kuyilungela loo mini ngokwakho, ukuze kungabikho juggling ukuhlamba okanye ukuxukuxa amazinyo ngokubukela umntwana wakho okhozi.

UJensen ucebisa ukuba wenze imveliso ngokukhupha zonke i-diapers zomntwana wakho. Bazithatha njenge-crutch, ngoko ke kungcono ukukhaba izinto ngokuzisusa. Nxiba umntwana wakho kwisikipa kunye neebhulukhwe zangaphantsi ezintsha zomntwana, unike indumiso eninzi ngokuba mkhulu kakhulu. Bakhokelele kwigumbi lokuhlambela kwaye ucacise ukuba imbiza yeyokubamba i-pee kunye ne-poop.

Chaza ukuba umntwana wakho kufuneka agcine ii-undies zomntwana omkhulu zomile ngokusebenzisa i-potty. Buza umntwana wakho ukuba akuxelele xa kufuneka epotile, kwaye uyiphindaphinde. UJensen uxinzelela apha ukuba angabuzi umntwana wakho ukuba ufuna ukuchama okanye ukungcolisa, kodwa endaweni yoko ubanike uluvo lolawulo ngokubacela ukuba bakuxelele ukuba kufuneka baye.

Zilungiselele iingozi-ezininzi, ezininzi izingozi. Kulapho inqaku ekugxilwe kulo lingena khona. Xa umntwana wakho efumana ingozi, kuya kufuneka ukuba ubakhuphe kwaye ubangxamele kwigumbi lokuhlambela ukuze "bagqibe" embizeni. Esi sisitshixo sendlela. Kuya kufuneka ubambe umntwana wakho rhoqo. UJensen uthembisa ukuba, yindlela oza kuqala ngayo ukufundisa umntwana wakho ukuba aqonde ezakhe iimfuno zomzimba.

Yiba nothando kunye nomonde, unike indumiso eninzi xa umntwana wakho egqibile ngempumelelo embizeni okanye ekuxelela ukuba kufuneka basebenzise amanzi. Zilungiselele iingozi, ekufuneka zithathelwe ingqalelo njengamathuba okubonisa umntwana wakho ukuba makenze ntoni kunye nento angayenziyo.

Ngaphezu kwako konke, ungqinelane nodumo, hlala uzolile xa umntwana wakho efumana ingozi, kwaye uqhubeke umkhumbuza umntwana wakho ukuba akuxelele xa kufuneka eye. Ukuba uyayenza loo nto, kunye nokulandela ezinye izikhokelo kwincwadi yakhe, uJensen ukholelwa, kuya kufuneka ube nakho ukuqeqesha umntwana wakho ngeentsuku ezintathu kuphela.

Uhambo lwam loQeqesho

Ndingumama wabane, kwaye sikhe safumana uqeqesho lweembiza kathathu ngoku. Ngelixa ndingawaxabisa amanqaku ambalwa kwindlela kaJensen, andithengiswa ngale ndlela. Kwaye ayisiyiyo kuphela kuba kubonakala ngathi ngumsebenzi omninzi kakhulu. Xa kuziwa kwizinto ezinje ngoqeqesho lwe potty, ndithatha indlela ekhokelwa ngumntwana.

Xa umdala wethu wayeneminyaka eyi-2, waqala ukubonisa umdla kumbumbi. Sathenga isitulo esincinci esingena kwindlu yangasese kwaye samhlalisa apho nanini na xa sisegumbini lokuhlambela, kodwa ngendlela ephantsi kakhulu.

Simthengele neebhulukhwe zangaphantsi zabafana abakhulu. Wayefuna ukuzinxiba kwangoko kwaye wazulazula kwimizuzu embalwa ngaphambi kokuba achame ngokukhawuleza. Simcocile samsa embizeni, sichaza ukuba amakhwenkwe amakhulu achamela ezityeni, hayi kwiimpahla zangaphantsi. Emveni koko samnika esinye isibini sangaphantsi, akavuma.

Sambuyisela ke kwi-diaper, kwaye yonke imihla, kangangeenyanga emva koko, sasimbuza ukuba ingaba ukulungele na ukufumana ibhulukhwe enkulu yamakhwenkwe. Usixelele ukuba wayengekho, kude kube lusuku olunye, xa wayesithi. Ngelo xesha, wayenenyanga ezimbalwa eneentloni zokuzalwa kwakhe kwe-3, wayevuka nge-diaper eyomileyo ekuseni, kwaye efuna ubumfihlo xa ephosa. Emva kokucela ukunxiba ii-undies zamakhwenkwe amakhulu, waqeqesha potty phantsi kweveki.

Ukukhawuleza kwintombi yethu, eqeqeshelwe iimbiza kanye kwinqanaba elifanelekileyo likaJensen. Kwiinyanga ezingama-22, wayethetha ngendlela emangalisayo kwaye wayenomninawa omdala ekubonisa imikhuba yokuhlambela. Silandele kwa le ndlela isezantsi, simbuza ukuba uyafuna na ukusebenzisa potty, emva koko simthengele ii-undies zentombazana yakhe enkulu. Akazange achithe xesha wazinxiba, kwaye emva kweengozi ezimbalwa, wafumanisa ukuba ukhetha ukuzigcina zicocekile.

Umntwana wethu wesithathu, unyana wethu omncinci, wayenabantakwabo ababini ababonisa indlela efanelekileyo yokuhlambela. Wayeyibukele yonke ngomdla omkhulu kunye nenjongo, kwaye kuba wayefuna ukufana nabantwana abakhulu, wayengenakulinda isihlalo esinembiza kunye neenkwenkwe ezinkulu. Wayekwiinyanga ezingama-22, eyayisusa umbono wam wokuba amantombazana anokuqeqesha isitya ngokukhawuleza kunamakhwenkwe!

Ngabo bantwana bathathu, siyabavumela ukuba basixelele xa bekulungele ukuqala inkqubo. Emva koko sihlale sikhuthele malunga nokubabuza ukuba bayafuna na ukusebenzisa potty. Sisebenzise ibinzana elithi, "Mamela umzimba wakho, kwaye usixelele xa ufuna ukusebenzisa potty, kulungile?" Kwakukho iingozi, ngokuqinisekileyo, kodwa yayingeyiyo inkqubo yoxinzelelo olugqithisileyo.

Ukuthatha

Ke ngelixa ndingenakho ukubanga ubuchule beentsuku ezintathu zoqeqesho lokubumba oqinisekisiweyo ukuba luyasebenza, ndinokukuxelela oku: Kulula ngokungenasiphelo ukuqeqesha umntwana ngenxa yokuba bafuna ukuqeqeshelwa amanzi, kwaye hayi kuba bethe imbiza yomlingo. iminyaka yoqeqesho.Ukugcina uxinzelelo oluphantsi, ukubhiyozela impumelelo, ukungagxininisi kwiingozi, kunye nokuvumela abantwana bakho ukuba babeke izinto ngokwamaxesha abo basebenze kakuhle kuthi.