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Abafana abalungileyo ukugqiba okokugqibela kuphelelwe lixesha. Kwaye nokuba kunzima kangakanani ukuthanda kwakho inkwenkwe embi, mhlawumbi sele uyayazi le nto kwinqanaba elithile-sikho isizathu sokuba iiromics zisigcine ngenxa yomhlobo osenyongweni. (Kodwa ngaba uthando luvela entliziyweni yakho okanye kwingqondo yakho?)

Kodwa ngokophando olutsha olupapashwe kwiphephancwadi Evolutionary Psychology, eneneni kukho isayensi ngasemva kokuba ulingeka ukuba unike umfana olandelayo. Kutshanje, abaphandi kwiYunivesithi yaseWorchester bafumene kuphononongo lwabasetyhini abangama-202 ukuba iintlobo ezithile zobuhle zenza amadoda abe nomtsalane ngakumbi.

Siyazi, asazi-ayizizo iindaba ezinyanisekileyo. Kodwa eyona nto yayinomdla malunga neziphumo zabo yayikukuba ezi mpawu zibekwe njenge Kaninzi enomtsalane kunayo nayiphi na impawu yomzimba. Endaweni yoko, ngababhali bokufunda, imbono yomtsalane ixhomekeke ikakhulu kwi-altruism. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ngubani odinga ii-biceps ezinkulu ukuba awunayo intliziyo enkulu? Bacele abantu basetyhini ukuba bajonge uninzi lweefoto zamadoda-ezinye zishushu, ezinye azikho. Emva koko abathathi-nxaxheba bafunda inkcazo yamadoda ababesandula ukuwajonga kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo. Umzekelo, umfana mhle unika umntu ongenakhaya isandwich okanye angamhoyi ahambe. Isivumelwano esifanayo sendoda engemhle kangako.

Abafazi ke bacelwa ukuba babhale ukuba batsaleleke kangakanani emadodeni kuzo zombini ezi meko- bobabini bema ubusuku obunye kunye nento ebaluleke ngakumbi. Kuwo omabini la matyala, abasetyhini babetsala kakhulu kumfana obonakalise isenzo sobabalo, nokuba babenomtsalane kangakanani na ngokomfanekiso wakhe.

Ngaphandle kokumangalisa, abafana abashushu abangenantliziyo babesanqweneleka ngokujongwa (inzululwazi ithi ubuso obuhle bufana neheroin, i-FYI). Kodwa nje ukuba ukuzibophelela kungene kwi-equation, konke malunga nokuzincama ngenxa ye-abs. Uphononongo lwalunqunyelwe kwabasetyhini abathandanayo, kodwa iziphumo zinengqiqo kulwazelelo. Ekupheleni kosuku, iimpawu zomzimba ziya kuphela, ngelixa iimpawu zobuntu zisigcina sibuyele ngakumbi.

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