Ngaba Ukufunda 'Iincwadi Ezingcolileyo' Kungakunika ii-Orgasms ezingakumbi?

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• Yima, yintoni kanye kanye uncwadi oluthandayo?
• Iifom ze-Commons ze-erotica
  
• Iintsomi ezi-3 malunga ne-erotica
• Inkolelo 1: Abafazi bathanda i-erotica kunamadoda
• Intsomi yesi-2: I-Erotica ilimaza ubudlelwane
• Intsomi 3: Abafundi baya kufuna ukwenza imidlalo yamabali abawathandayo
• Ikhithi yakho yokuqala ye-erotica
• Ukuqala ngethala leencwadi lakho

Sibandakanya iimveliso esicinga ukuba ziluncedo kubafundi bethu. Ukuba uthenga amakhonkco kweli phepha, sinokufumana ikhomishini encinci. Nantsi inkqubo yethu.

Ukungabikho komdla wesondo kunye nomnqweno sesona sikhalazo sesondo sixhaphakileyo sabasetyhini abanaso kwiofisi kagqirha. Kwaye nasemva kokuba ipilisi yokuqala "yabasetyhini Viagra" iqhushumbe kwiminyaka emibini edlulileyo, abasetyhini basakhangela iindlela ezingaphumeleliyo, ezinobungqina besayensi zokunyusa i-libido kunye nolonwabo- nokuba badlala bodwa okanye neqabane.

Ngelixa abanye bebanga ii-aphrodisiacs zendalo ezinje ngetshokholethi kunye neeoysters zinefuthe kumanqanaba ehomoni yesini kunye nokuziphatha egumbini lokulala, abukho ubungqina obuqinisekileyo bokuba benza isifotho kwimoto yakho yemihla ngemihla yokwabelana ngesondo. Kodwa uphononongo lwakutsha nje lubonakalisile ukuba ukutya uncwadi olunomdla kunokunceda yonke into ukusuka kwi-libido yakho ukuya kumandla e-orgasm yakho.

Uphononongo luka-2016, olwapapashwa kwiphephancwadi lonyango kunye nolwalamano, lurekhode ukusebenza ngokwesondo kwabafazi abangama-27 ngaphezulu kweeveki ezintandathu. Isiqingatha sazifundela iincwadi zokuzinceda, kwaye esinye isiqingatha sifunde iinyani. Isiphumo? Omabini la maqela enze ukulingana, ukuzuza ngokubaluleka xa kufikwa ku:

• umnqweno wesondo
• inkanuko yesini
• ukuthambisa ajikeleze
• ukwaneliseka
• ii-orgasms
• ukunciphisa iintlungu
• ukusebenza ngokubanzi ngokwesondo

"IBibliotherapy," njengoko esi sifundo sasiyibiza njalo, ayizange iviwe imnandi kwaye inomvuzo.

Yima, yintoni kanye kanye uncwadi oluthandayo?

Ngokubanzi, i-erotica ichazwa njengalo naluphi na uhlobo lobugcisa obenzelwe ukudala iingcinga zesondo okanye ukuvusa inkanuko. Kukho umahluko omncinci phakathi kwe-erotica kunye ne-plain ol 'yephonografi: I-Erotica ibonwa njengobugcisa obunento yokwenza nesondo, ngelixa iphonografi ibonwa njengamagama kunye nemifanekiso ekhoyo kuphela kwimincili yesini, ngaphandle kobugcisa obuninzi bokubonelela.

Namhlanje, igama elithi erotica lihlala lisetyenziselwa ngokuthe ngqo ukuchaza amagama abhaliweyo avusa aze avuse.

Iifom ze-Commons ze-erotica

• intsomi, ukusuka kumabali amafutshane ukuya kwiinoveli
• Isincoko esinganyaniyo kunye nokubaliswa kwakhona kwamava ayinyani
• Iinoveli zothando
• Intsomi yabalandeli
• Umxholo wewebhu kunye neencwadi ze-e

Iintsomi ezi-3 malunga ne-erotica

Kukho inani lezimvo eziphosakeleyo ezingqonge i-erotica. Ezinye zeentsomi ziziphumo zamaqela angenasondo ajolise ekuhlaziseni nasekulawuleni abasetyhini. Ezinye zisekelwe kwiingcamango kunye nolwazi olungelona. Makhe sijonge ezona zinkulu kwaye zixhaphakileyo ezintathu.

Inkolelo 1: Abafazi bathanda i-erotica kunamadoda

Yimbonakalo enkulu yokuba amadoda akhetha imifanekiso ebonakalayo yesini (iphonografi), ngelixa abasetyhini bekhetha ukufunda "i-bodice-rippers" ngenxa yokuthula kwabo, ngakumbi isondo lobuchopho. Uninzi lwezifundo lubonakalisile ukuba amadoda ajikwe ngokulinganayo ngegama elibhaliweyo njengabafazi, kwaye abo basetyhini badla imifanekiso engamanyala ngakumbi kunokuba ucinga. Kwaye emva phaya ngo-1966, uMasters noJohnson bafumanisa ukuba i-physiology ngokubanzi yokuvuselela inkanuko yesini emadodeni nakwabafazi intle ngokufanayo.

Intsomi yesi-2: I-Erotica ilimaza ubudlelwane

Amanye amaqela athanda ukulumkisa ukuba i-erotica ibangela amaqabane ukuba abalekele kwi-fantasyland echitha naliphi na ithemba lokuba banokuvuselelwa liqabane labo lokubaleka ebhedini yabo yokubaleka.

Kodwa izifundo zibonise ukuba ukufunda i-erotica kukwenza ukuba ungene phakathi kwamashiti kunye neqabane lakho okanye uzonwabise kwiiyure ezingama-24 emva kokuba uyifundile. Kwaye isifundo sokuqala esichaze apha ngasentla sicebisa ukuba i-erotica inokunyusa kakhulu ukuqhuba kwesondo kunye nolonwabo lomfazi olifundayo.

Intsomi 3: Abafundi baya kufuna ukwenza imidlalo yamabali abawathandayo

Abafika kwi-erotica banokukhathazeka ukuba bavuliwe yi-BDSM eboniswe kwi "Fifty Shades of Grey" okanye ubudlelwane bobufanasini xa bengazange bazive bethandana nabesini esifanayo. Kodwa uLinda Garnets, PhD, umphandi kwiYunivesithi yaseCalifornia eLos Angeles, unokubeka inkxalabo yakho ekuphumleni. Uthi ubuntu bethu obukrwada buhlukile njengophawu lweminwe yethu, kwaye isazisi sethu, ezomtsalane ngokwesini, kunye neminqweno yesini akuyomfuneko ukuba ilingane kunye ngaphandle komthungo (kwaye inokuthi itshintshe ngokuhamba kwexesha).

Umzekelo, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba uvulwe ngumbono wesini esifanayo nokuba awuchonganga njenge-gay, okanye ngayo nayiphi na into onokucinga ngayo. Ngokuqinisekileyo oko kusombulula imfihlakalo yokuba kutheni ezinye zezona ndawo zithandwayo ze-erotica zingagqityi ukubonakaliswa kubomi bokwenyani- bashushu ngokulula ukuba bafunde kwaye bacinge, akukho okunye.

Ewe, i-erotica inokukunika izimvo zokuzonwabisa, izinto ezintsha oza kuzizama kwigumbi lokulala, ukusuka kwizikhundla ezitsha ukuya ekudlaleni indima.

Ikhithi yakho yokuqala ye-erotica

Ukuba unomdla wokuhlola i-erotica, ukuqalisa kunokuba nzima. Ngokutsho kwevenkile yabantu abadala uAdam noEva, iintlobo zothando kunye neerotica zenza i-1.44 yezigidigidi ngonyaka. Kwaye kuninzi ukukhetha.

Nazi iingcebiso ezimbalwa malunga nokuntywila:

• Fumana into oyithandayo. Kunokuba nzima ukwazi ukuba yintoni ekujikelezayo de ube uyifundile. Indawo enye yokuqala ukuqala nge-anthology enezinto ezininzi zokubhala, iimeko kunye nababhali. Enye indlela kukujonga iincwadi ze-e kwiAmazon. Uninzi lwazo lubonelela ngesinciphiso samaphepha ambalwa simahla.
• Zama ukufunda ngesandla esinye. Akukho ndlela ephosakeleyo yokufunda i-erotica. Abanye abantu bayathanda ukuyonwabela njengayo nayiphi na enye incwadi kwaye emva koko bacinge ngayo kamva, ngelixa bekunye neqabane okanye ukuphulula amalungu esini. Abanye bayisebenzisa ngokuthe ngqo njengesixhobo kwigumbi lokulala. Fumanisa ukuba yintoni ekufaneleyo.
• Zama ukubandakanya iqabane lakho. Njengamanyala, i-erotica ayisiyomdlalo wedwa kuphela. Ungazama ukuyifunda ngokuvakalayo kwiqabane, okanye ubafundele. Okanye ungacela iqabane lakho ukuba lifunde ibali kwaye emva koko lililinganise nawe.
• Zama ukubhala amaphepha ambalwa ngokwakho. I-Erotica ayisiyofundo kuphela. Izigidi zabasetyhini kunye nezamadoda ziyakonwabela ukuyibhala ngokungaphezulu (okanye ngaphezulu kune) bayakuthanda ukuyifunda. Bhala amabali ngokwakho, zama isandla sakho kwiintsomi zabalandeli, okanye uthathele ingqalelo ukupapasha umsebenzi wakho.

Ukuqala ngethala leencwadi lakho

Nazi iincwadi ezimbalwa kunye neewebhusayithi ukuze uqalise, ukusuka kwii-classics ukuya kwi-anthologies:

• "Incwadi eNkulu ye-Erotica ye-Sexy Librarian," ehlelwe nguRose Caraway. Le ngqungquthela ineentlobo ezininzi zeentlobo, ukusuka kwi-horror ukuya kwi-romance ukuya kwi-sci-fi, konke ngamazwi ahamba phambili kwihlabathi lokubhala ngothando.
• "IDelta yaseVenus," ebhalwe nguAnains Nin. Esi siqwenga seklasikhi singabhalwa kumashumi eminyaka eyadlulayo, kodwa sisahleli sinomphunga njengangaphambili. Olu lukhetho olukhulu ekubhaleni umntu onomdla kwimifanekiso engamanyala.
• "Uchungechunge loMlilo," nguSylvia Day. Olu luhlu lwanamhlanje lwe-erotica / yothando lulandela isibini kubudlelwane babo obushushu, ngaphandle kwedrama kunye needemon ezingcwatyelwe.
• Iintsomi zabantu abadala. IiWebhusayithi zigcwele intsomi yasimahla fan kwiwaka leefom, ukusuka "kuHarry Potter" ukuya ku "L.A. Umthetho. ” Kukho uninzi lokubhala kwasekuqaleni ngaphandle, kunye namathuba okuzama ukubhala i-erotica ngokwakho.

Nje ukuba uqalise, unokulandela iincwadi kunye noluhlu olukhethiweyo kwiiGoodreads ukufumana iindlela zamabali owonwabelayo. I-Erotica inokufumana ifomula ngamanye amaxesha, kodwa ukubanakho ukulindela i-turn-ons eza ngendlela yakho yenye yeentsikelelo ezininzi zobugcisa.