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Xa ndatshata, ndaye ndatyisa indlela yam ndangena kwisinxibo somtshato esayizi-9/10. Ndithenge ilokhwe encinci ngenjongo, ngenjongo yokutya iisaladi nokuzilolonga ukuze ndingene kuyo. Ndiphulukene neeponti ezingama-25 kwiinyanga ezisibhozo kwaye ngomhla wam womtshato, ilokhwe yayilingana ngokugqibeleleyo.

Ndakwazi ukuhlala ndilingana ndade ndafumana umntwana wam wokuqala. Ukutshintsha kwehomoni kwiinyanga ezimbalwa zokuqala zokukhulelwa kwam kwandenza ndacaphuka kakhulu kangangokuba andizange nditye kakhulu. Xa ndaphinda ndafuna ukutya, ndatya ngokukhululekileyo "ukubamba" kwinto endandingayityanga ngaphambili ngexesha lokukhulelwa kwam kwaye ndafumana iiponti ezingama-55. Emva kokuba ndihambisile unyana wam, ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba andizukubuyela esimeni kwakhona kuba bendiceba ukuba nomnye umntwana kungekudala.

Kwiminyaka emibini kamva, emva kokuba ndibelekile umntwana wam wesibini, ndandiziikhilogram ezingama-210. Ngaphandle, ndandincumile kwaye ndikhangeleka ndonwabile, kodwa ngaphakathi ndandilusizi. Bendingenampilo kwaye ndingonwabanga ngomzimba wam. Ndandisazi ukuba imingcipheko yempilo yokutyeba ngokugqithiseleyo yayiza kububeka esichengeni umgangatho wobomi bam. Andinasizathu sakushiya ukulibaziseka ukunciphisa umzimba. Ndisazi ukuba kufuneka ndenze utshintsho, kodwa bendingazi ukuba ndiqale ngaphi.

Ndajoyina iklasi ye-aerobics exhaswa ngabantu. Ekuqaleni, ndacinga, "Ndiza kwenza ntoni apha?" kuba ndandiziva ndingekho ndawo kwaye ndingekho sikweni. Ndahlala nayo ndade ndazifumana ndiyonwabela. Ukongeza, mna nomhlobo wam saqala ukuhamba-hamba ekuhlaleni nabantwana bethu kwii-strollers. Yayiyindlela elungileyo yokusebenza kunye nokuphuma ngaphandle kwendlu.

Isondlo, ndiye ndaqala ukulandela ukutya okunamafutha asezantsi kwaye ndatshintshela ekusikeni inyama kwaye ndongeza imifuno (ebendingafane ndiyitye ngaphambili). Ndisike uninzi lwe-junk kunye nokutya okukhawulezayo kwaye ndaya kwiiklasi zokupheka ezigxininisa ukulungiswa kokutya okunempilo. Ukongeza, ndaqala ukusela ubuncinci iiglasi zamanzi ezisibhozo ngosuku. I-ice cream (kwaye isekhona) ubuthathaka bam, ke ndiye ndajika ndanamafutha asezantsi kunye neenguqulelo ezilula zokundinika incasa eyaneleyo yokundigcina ndonelisekile. Ngombulelo, umyeni wam ungomnye wabaxhasi bam abakhulu. Uye walwamkela lonke utshintsho endilwenzileyo ebomini bethu kwaye ekuhambeni kwethuba, uye waba sempilweni ngakumbi.

Njengoko iiponti zehla, ndajoyina indawo yokuzivocavoca umzimba ukuqala uqeqesho. Ndasebenza nomqeqeshi wam owandibonisa indlela efanelekileyo nobuchule, nto leyo eyandinceda ukuba ndiqhube kangangoko ndinako. Ngolu tshintsho, ndilahlekelwe malunga neeponti ezi-5 ngenyanga. Bendisazi ukuba ukuyicotha akuyi kuba nempilo entle kuphela kum, kodwa kuya kuqinisekisa ukuba ubunzima buya kuhlala bukuhle. Emva konyaka, ndalufikelela usukelo lwam lobunzima obuziikhilogram ezili-130, nto leyo evumelana nobude nohlobo lomzimba wam. Ngoku ukwenza umthambo kuye kwaba yinto yam yokuzonwabisa kungekhona nje indlela yokuphila.

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