Inani elothusayo labantu bacinga ukuba ukuziphindezela kwi-Porn kulungile

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Ukwahlukana kunzima ukwenza. (Leyo yingoma, akunjalo?) Izinto zinokuphazamiseka ngokukhawuleza, njengoko iincoko zisiba ziimpikiswano-kwaye zibi, ngelo xesha. Kwaye ngoku kuyacaca ukuba abantu balungile ngokuziphindezela nge-porn (aka ukuthumela ngasese, iifoto zesondo ze-intanethi ex ngaphandle kwemvume) kunokuba ucinga. WTF, akunjalo?

Abaphandi kwiDyunivesithi yaseKent bafumanise ukuba yiipesenti ezingama-22 kuphela zabemi ezinokuthi zithumele into (phew), kodwa iipesenti ezingama-99 (99%, INGQESHO YAKHO) ngekhe ibenangxaki ukuba abanye baziphindezela kwi-porn kwenzeka nje ukuba kuvuze. Abaphandi bafumanise ukuba iipesenti ezingama-87 zabathathi-nxaxheba baveze ubuncinci uhlobo oluthile lokuzonwabisa ngombono wokuziphindezela kwi-porn. Ke ewe, kubonakala ngathi baninzi abantu abonwabileyo kwintlungu ye-ex.

Ukufakwa kuphela kwesilivere kukuba kukho ubuncinci beempawu zesilumkiso. Abantu ababonisa iimpawu ezihambelana ne-narcissism, i-psychopathy, kunye ne-Machiavellianism (eyaziwa ngokuba yi-"Dark Triad" yobuntu obuyinkimbinkimbi) kunokwenzeka ukuba baxhase kwaye babandakanyeke kwimpindezelo ye-porn. Ke jonga le miqondiso uthandana narcissist.

Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele, nangona kunjalo, ukuba olu phando lwenziwe kwisampulu ekhethwe ngabantu abadala abayi-100 abaneminyaka eli-18 ukuya kwengama-54 eqokelelwe kwi-Intanethi-ayinakubonakaliswa ngokuchanekileyo kwabemi bonke. Kodwa kusekho izifundo esinokuthi-kwaye kufuneka-sisuse kolu phononongo, eyona icacileyo kukuba ukwabelana kuphela iifoto ezivuselelayo kunye neevidiyo kunye neqabane olithembayo ngokwenene. Umzuzwana? Abantu abaninzi ngakumbi kufuneka bafumane iindlela ezingcono zokuhambisa umsindo kunye nengqumbo emva kokwahlukana. Kutheni ungasebenzisi ubudlelwane be-DOA njengenkuthazo yokuphelisa iinjongo zakho, uchithe ixesha nabahlobo bakho, okanye uthathe iklasi yomdlalo wamanqindi? Singacebisa ukuba ujonge ezi zinto zintlanu ungaze uzenze emva kokwahlukana.

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