Ukwazisa nge-HIV: Ukubonisa uMsebenzi weGcisa loMlweli

Umxholo

• Nika imvelaphi encinci ukuba ungubani njengomculi. Uqale nini ukwenza umsebenzi wobugcisa?
• Wafunyaniswa nini une-HIV? Kukuchaphazele njani wena kunye nomsebenzi wakho wobugcisa?
• Yintoni ekhokelele ekubeni udibanise umsebenzi wakho wobugcisa nemiyalezo malunga ne-HIV?
• Yeyiphi imiyalezo ofuna ukuyithumela kwabanye abaphila ne-HIV ngomsebenzi wakho wobugcisa?
• Yeyiphi imiyalezo ofuna ukuyithumela kuluntu jikelele malunga ne-HIV?

Nika imvelaphi encinci ukuba ungubani njengomculi. Uqale nini ukwenza umsebenzi wobugcisa?

Ndazalelwa ndaza ndakhulela e-Edmonton, e-Alberta - isixeko esaziwa njengendawo ekuthiwa yi-beef's and heart petroleum heartland yaseCanada, eyakhiwe phakathi kwamathafa kunye nasemva kweentaba zeRocky.

Ndafika ebudaleni ndithanda ukubhala imizobo koololiwe bezinto kwaye ekugqibeleni ndaqala ukuba nenxaxheba kuloo nkcubeko. Ndikhulise uthando lokwenza imifanekiso kwaye ndagxila ekwenziweni kobugcisa emva kokuchongwa kwe-HIV.

Wafunyaniswa nini une-HIV? Kukuchaphazele njani wena kunye nomsebenzi wakho wobugcisa?

Ndafunyaniswa ndinentsholongwane kaGawulayo ngo-2009. Ukufumana kwam isifo, ndaziva ndikhathazekile emphefumlweni. Ukuqala ukuza kuthi ga ngelo xesha, bendiziva ndoyisiwe kwaye ndophukile. Besele ndiziva ngathi ndisondele ekufeni kangangokuba ndaye ndacinga ngokuzibulala.

Ndikhumbula lonke ixesha lomhla lokuchongwa kwam de ndiphume ndiye kugqirha. Endleleni ebuyela ekhayeni labazali bam, ndinokukhumbula iimvakalelo neengcinga, kodwa akukho nanye engqonge indawo, ukubonwa, okanye iimvakalelo.

Ngelixa kuloo ndawo imnyama neyoyikisayo entloko, ndamkele ukuba le yeyona ndawo yam iphantsi, ndingaya nakweliphi icala. Ubuncinci, ubomi abunakuba mbi ngakumbi.

Ngenxa yoko, ndakwazi ukuzikhupha kobo bumnyama. Ndaqala ukumema ubomi obuza koyisa oko kwakubonakala kunzima ngaphambili.

Yintoni ekhokelele ekubeni udibanise umsebenzi wakho wobugcisa nemiyalezo malunga ne-HIV?

Amava am aphilayo okuhamba kwimiceli mngeni njengomntu one-HIV, kwaye ngoku njengotata, yazisa umsebenzi omkhulu endiphefumlelweyo ukuba ndiwenze. Ukuzibandakanya kwam kunye nobudlelwane kunye nokuhamba kwezobulungisa kwezentlalo kukwakhuthaza ubugcisa bam.

Kangangexesha elithile, ndandikhululeka ngakumbi kukuzihlukanisa ekuthetheni nge-HIV kuyo nantoni na endiyenzayo.

Kodwa ngaxa lithile, ndiye ndaqala ukuphonononga obu buhlungu. Ndingazifumana ndivavanya imida yokungafuni kwam ngokwenza umsebenzi ngokusekwe kumava am.

Inkqubo yam yoyilo ihlala ibandakanya ukusebenza ngendawo yeemvakalelo kunye nokuzama ukugqiba ngendlela efanelekileyo yokuyimela ngokubonakalayo.

Yeyiphi imiyalezo ofuna ukuyithumela kwabanye abaphila ne-HIV ngomsebenzi wakho wobugcisa?

Ndingathanda ukunxibelelana namava am obuqu ukubonisa inkcaso yendlela ukukhathazeka, uloyiko, imiceli mngeni, kunye nokulwela ubulungisa kunokuba yinto enokuphinda ibekho, ibonakale, kwaye isebenze.

Ndicinga ukuba ndilandela ubomi obuhluziweyo ngelensi ye-AIDS engenakuphepheka, kwaye iinkqubo ezenziweyo kwihlabathi lethu ezivumela ukuba oku kuchume. Bendiqwalasele into endizoyishiya ngasemva ngethemba lokuba inokusebenza njengesixhobo sokuziqonda ukuba ndingubani, kwaye ukuba konke oko kungena njani kwiphazili yobudlelwane bethu omnye komnye kobu bomi nangaphaya.

Yeyiphi imiyalezo ofuna ukuyithumela kuluntu jikelele malunga ne-HIV?

Singabahlobo bakho, abamelwane, imizimba ehambelana nolunye uncedo lwesisa, unobangela wokuqala weribhoni, izithandwa zakho, imicimbi yakho, abahlobo bakho abanezibonelelo, kunye namaqabane akho. Singumlo wakho weenkqubo zononophelo lwempilo ezingcono, kunye nokususwa kwezithintelo ekufikeleleni kwabo. Kwaye singumlo wakho wehlabathi elakhiwe elingenazintloni, kwaye endaweni yoko lizele yimfesane novelwano.

Ukulandela ukuxilongwa kwakhe yi-HIV ngo-2009, uShan Kelley waphefumlelwa ukuba afumane ilizwi lakhe lobuqu, lobugcisa kunye nelopolitiko kwimeko yesifo kunye nobunzima. UKelley ubeka ubugcisa bakhe ukuba busebenze njengentshukumo ngokuchasene nokungakhathali kunye nokunikezela. Sebenzisa izinto, imisebenzi, kunye nokuziphatha okuthetha mihla le, umsebenzi kaKelley udibanisa uburharha, uyilo, ubukrelekrele kunye nokuthatha umngcipheko. U-Kelley ulilungu lomculi we-AIDS, kwaye ubonise umsebenzi eCanada, e-USA, eMexico, eYurophu naseSpain. Unokufumana ngakumbi ngomsebenzi wakhe ku https://shankelley.com.