Yintoni omele uyenze ukuba umntwana wakho ubonakala kuphela ukuba ulele kakuhle kwi-Swing

Umxholo

• Ulusebenzisa njani umntwana ujingi ngokukhuselekileyo
• Umngcipheko wezixhobo ezihleliyo njengokujija
• Ukukhumbula ukuguquka komntwana
• Ukwahlukana nalo mkhwa
• Ukuthatha

Akusiyo imfihlo ukuba iintsana zithanda intshukumo: ukunyikimisa, ukujija, ukubhuza, ukugigitheka, ukubetha - ukuba ibandakanya intshukumo enesingqi, ungabhalisela. Kwaye uninzi lweentsana lunokukhetha ukulala luhamba, kananjalo, ludityaniswe ekuguqulweni komntwana, esihlalweni semoto, okanye kwirocker.

Ingxaki kuphela? Ezi zihlalo aziyondawo zokulala zikhuselekileyo. Oogqirha babantwana bababiza ngokuba "zizixhobo zokuhlala," kwaye banxulunyaniswa nomngcipheko okhulayo wokuxinana xa besetyenziselwa ukulala.

Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba woyike kwaye ukhabe usana lwakho oluthandayo lujikela kumjikelo, yazi oku: Ukujija kunokuba sisixhobo esimangalisayo, sokugcina ingqondo xa sisetyenziswe ngokuchanekileyo (njengokuthomalalisa usana olungqongqo xa upheka isidlo sangokuhlwa ngaphakathi kwamehlo). Akunjalo nje isitya sokulala, kwaye akufanele isetyenziswe ngale ndlela.

Ukuba umntwana wakho uhlakulele umkhwa wokulala kwi-swing, nantsi yonke into ofuna ukuyifumana malunga nokuba kutheni kufuneka uqale ukophula lo mkhwa- kunye nendlela yokwenza ngayo.

Ulusebenzisa njani umntwana ujingi ngokukhuselekileyo

Into yokuqala ekufuneka uyazi malunga nokutshintsha komntwana kukuba abayingozi xa uzisebenzisa ngendlela ezazenzelwe ukuba zisetyenziswe ngayo. Oku kuthi:

• Kufundwa ipakeji yendlela yolwazi malunga nokusetyenziswa kojingi lwakho kunye nayiphi na i-buckles okanye izincamathiselo eziza nayo. (Kwakhona qaphela naluphi na ukuphakama kunye nemilinganiselo yokulinganisa kwi-swing yakho ethile; ezinye iintsana zinokuba zikhulu kakhulu okanye zincinci ukuba zingasebenzisa ngokukhuselekileyo.)
• Ungamvumeli umntwana wakho ukuba alale ujingi ixesha elide. I-catnap phantsi kolawulo lwakho inokuba ilungile, kodwa umntwana wakho ngokuqinisekileyo akufuneki achithe ubusuku elele ujingi ngelixa ulele, nawe. IAmerican Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) icebisa ukuba ususe umntwana wakho ekujikeni uye kwindawo yokulala ekhuselekileyo ukuba ulala ujingi.
• Ukuqonda ukuba ujingi sisixhobo somsebenzi, ayizukutshintsha indawo yokulala okanye ibassinet. Kuya kufuneka usebenzise ujingi njengendawo yokuphazamisa ngokukhuselekileyo, ukubamba, okanye ukuthomalalisa umntwana wakho xa ufuna ikhefu.

Ezi ngcebiso zisebenza nakwesiphi na isixhobo esihleliyo umntwana wakho anokufuna ukusisebenzisa. Isitulo semoto, umzekelo, sithathwa njengeyona ndlela ikhuselekileyo yosana ukuhamba. Ayisiyiyo, nangona kunjalo, indawo ekhuselekileyo yokulala kosana ngaphandle isithuthi.

Umngcipheko wezixhobo ezihleliyo njengokujija

Kutheni ukulala endaweni ehleli kuyingozi kwiintsana? Kungenxa yokuba imisipha yabo yentamo ayikakhuli ngokupheleleyo, ke ukulala kwi-engile ethe tye kunokubangela ubunzima beentloko zabo ukubeka uxinzelelo ezintanyeni zabo kwaye kubangele ukuba badilike. Ngamanye amaxesha, oku kudilika kungakhokelela ekufuthanisweni.

Kwisifundo seminyaka eli-10 esenziwe yi-AAP, izixhobo zokuhlala-ezichongiweyo kolu phando njengezihlalo zeemoto, ii-strollers, i-swings, kunye ne-bouncers-zafunyanwa zibangele iipesenti ezi-3, okanye ezingama-348, zokufa kwabantwana abali-12,000. Kule 3 yeepesenti, malunga neepesenti ezingama-62 zokufa kwabantu kwenzeka kwizitulo zokhuseleko lweemoto. Uninzi lweentsana zaziphakathi kwenyanga enye ukuya kwezine ubudala.

Ngaphezulu, izihlalo ubukhulu becala bezingasetyenziswa njengoko kuyalelwe, ngaphezulu kwama-50 epesenti okusweleka okwenzeka ekhaya. Olu phononongo luye lwafumanisa ukuba oku kufa kwakuxhaphake kakhulu xa iintsana zazigadwe ngumntu ongakhathaliyo (njengomgcini womntwana okanye utatomkhulu).

Asizami ukukoyikisa, kodwa kubalulekile ukuba usebenzise kuphela izixhobo zakho zosana ngenjongo yazo-kwaye uqiniseke ukuba nabani na obeka iliso kumntwana wakho kanjalo uyazi ukuba umntwana wakho angalala njani ngokukhuselekileyo kwaye njani.

Ukukhumbula ukuguquka komntwana

Kwixesha elidlulileyo, abanye abantwana abatshintshayo baye bakhunjulwa ngenxa yokunxibelelana kwabo nokufa kweentsana okanye ukwenzakala. Umzekelo, uGraco ukhumbule izigidi zotshintsho umva ngo-2000 ngenxa yemicimbi yokuthintela amabhanti kunye neetreyi.

Phantse amashumi amabini eminyaka kamva, baqala ukukhupha iinkumbulo zokulala kwabo ngenxa yokungcungcutheka komngcipheko kwiintsana ezinokuthi ziqengqele emacaleni okanye esiswini.

Ngeli xesha, i-Fisher-Price ikhumbule iimodeli ezintathu ze-swings kwi-2016 emva kokuba abathengi bexelile ukuba isikhonkwane sithetha ukubamba isihlalo sokujinga endaweni ephumayo (ebangela ukuba isihlalo siwe).

Ngaphandle koku kukhumbula, kufanelekile ukukhumbula ukuba akuzange kubekho kuvalwa kubanzi konke Ukutshintsha komntwana kwaye uninzi lweejingi zikhuselekile xa uzisebenzisa ngokuchanekileyo.

Ukwahlukana nalo mkhwa

Simfumana: Uphelile, umntwana wakho uphelile, kwaye wonke umntu ufuna ukulala. Ukuba umntwana wakho ulala kakuhle kwi-swing, usenokungabi nayo inkuthazo yokubanyanzela ukuba balale kwenye indawo bengakhululekanga (kwaye babuyele ekubeni yi-zombie yokulala).

Kodwa ukuba usafunda le nto, uyazi ukuba ujingi ayondawo ikhuselekileyo yomntwana wakho yokulala. Nazi ezinye iingcebiso zokwenza utshintsho kwisibhedlele okanye kwi-bassinet:

• Ukuba umntwana wakho ungaphantsi kweenyanga ezi-4 ubudala, bahambise kwisibhedlele okanye kwi-bassinet xa sele belele kwi-swing. Oku kunokubanceda banciphise ngokukhawuleza kwisibhedlele sabo sokulala.
• Ukuba umntwana wakho ungaphezulu kweenyanga ezi-4 ubudala, unokufuna ukuqaphela uhlobo oluthile loqeqesho lokulala. Okwangoku, ukuhambisa umntwana wakho kwi-swing uye kwi-crib ngelixa belele kunokudala umbutho wokuqala wokulala, eyenye intloko ongayifuniyo (sithembe!).
• Ziqhelanise nokulala nomntwana wakho embhedeni ozele kodwa avuke. Sebenzisa umatshini wengxolo emhlophe okanye ifeni kunye namagumbi amnyama amakhethini ukwenza okusingqongileyo kube lula ukulala kangangoko.
• Gcina ujingi lomntwana wakho kwindawo exakekileyo, ekhanyiswe kakuhle, kunye / okanye enengxolo yendlu emini, ukuyenza kwakhona njengendawo apho izinto ezimnandi zenzeka khona. Oku kuya kufundisa umntwana wakho ukuba ujingi kukudlala, hayi ukulala.

Ukuba akukho nanye kula macebo asebenzayo okanye uziva udiniwe kakhulu ukuba ungasebenza, fikelela kugqirha wabantwana ukuba uncede. Ukuba umntwana wakho unzima kakhulu ukulala kwisibhedlele, kunokubakho isizathu sezonyango njenge-reflux eyenza ukuba umhlaba ongathandekiyo ungakhululeki kubo.

Okona kuncinci, ugqirha womntwana wakho unokukwazi ukukunceda ukusombulula ingxaki ukusuka kuguquko ukuya kwisibeleko ngokukhawuleza okukhulu.

Ukuthatha

Awunyanzelekanga ukuba ucime usana olujingayo kwirejista yakho (okanye uzise lowo unikwe ngu-Aunt Linda kwindawo yokulahla idolophu). Xa isetyenziswa njengesixhobo somsebenzi, hayi indawo yokulala, ujingi unokugcina umntwana wakho exakekile ngelixa ufumana ikhefu elifunekayo.

Kodwa bade babe nolawulo olungcono lwentamo, ekuphela kwendawo ekhuselekileyo yokulala kosana kumqolo wabo kwindawo eqinileyo, ethe tyaba ukuze umoya wabo uhlale uvulekile ukuphefumla. Unokufumana iingcebiso zokulala ngokukhuselekileyo ze-AAP apha.