Ukwakha uLuntu lweNkxaso yoMhlaza wamabele

Umxholo

• Ungalifumana njani iqela lenkxaso
• Yintoni onokuyilindela
• Ukufumana ulungiso olufanelekileyo
• Ulufumana njani uninzi lweqela lakho lenkxaso

Ukuxilongwa komhlaza webele kunokuguqula umhlaba wakho ujonge ezantsi. Ngequbuliso, yonke into ebomini bakho ijikeleza kwinto enye: ukuyeka umhlaza wakho.

Endaweni yokuya emsebenzini okanye esikolweni, undwendwela izibhedlele kunye neeofisi zikagqirha. Endaweni yokujinga nabahlobo, uhlala ekhaya kwaye uchacha kuxinzelelo lweemvakalelo kunye nomzimba wonyango lwakho.

Umhlaza unokuziva uzihlukanise ngokupheleleyo. Nangona abahlobo kunye nosapho rally ngeenxa zonke kuwe, ukuze bangazi ncam into oyifunayo okanye ukuqonda ngokwenene oko uhamba.

Kulapho iqela lenkxaso yomhlaza wamabele linokunceda khona. La maqela enkxaso ayilwe ngabantu abafumana unyango lomhlaza wamabele-njengawe. Zibanjwe buqu, kwi-intanethi, nangaphaya kwifowuni. Imibutho embalwa yomhlaza ikwabonelela ngenkxaso ngomntu ngamnye kubantu abasindileyo abanomhlaza wamabele kubantu abasandula kufunyaniswa.

Amanye amaqela enkxaso akhokelwa ziingcali-oochwephesha bezengqondo, abongikazi be-oncology, okanye oonontlalontle- abanokubonelela ngengcebiso esebenzayo kwimicimbi enje ngendlela yokujongana nokulahleka kweenwele kunye nezinye iziphumo zonyango. Amanye amaqela enkxaso akhokelwa ngamaxhoba omhlaza wamabele.

Iqela lenkxaso likunika indawo yokwabelana ngeemvakalelo zakho, ufumane iingcebiso, kwaye uphume ngaphandle kokugwetywa.

Ungalifumana njani iqela lenkxaso

Kukho iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zamaqela enkxaso kunye neendawo ezininzi zokuzifumana. Amaqela enkxaso abanjelwe:

• ezibhedlele
• amaziko oluntu
• amathala eencwadi
• iicawa, izindlu zesikhungu, kunye nezinye iindawo zonqulo
• amakhaya abantu

Amanye amaqela enzelwe kuphela abantu abanomhlaza wamabele. Abanye babonelela ngenkxaso kumaqabane, abantwana nakwabanye abanonopheli. Kukwakho namaqela enkxaso axhasa amaqela athile-njengamadoda anomhlaza wesifuba okanye abafazi kwinqanaba elithile lomhlaza.

Ukufumana iqela lokuxhasa umdlavuza webele kwindawo yakho, ungaqala ngokubuza ugqirha okanye unontlalontle ngesindululo. Okanye unokukhangela kwi-intanethi. Jonga imibutho efana nale, ebamba amaqela abo:

• USusan G. Komen
• Umbutho woMhlaza waseMelika
• Uluntu lweNkxaso yoMhlaza
• Umhlaza ukhathalelo

Xa uphanda ngamaqela enkxaso, buza inkokeli le mibuzo ilandelayo:

• Injani imvelaphi yakho? Ngaba unamava okusebenza nabantu abanomhlaza wamabele?
• Likhulu kangakanani iqela?
• Ngoobani abathathi-nxaxheba? Ngaba basandula ukufunyanwa? Unyango?
• Ngaba amaxhoba kunye namalungu osapho aya kwiintlanganiso?
• Uhlangana kangaphi? Ndidinga ukuza kuzo zonke iintlanganiso?
• Ngaba iintlanganiso zasimahla, okanye kuya kufuneka ndihlawule umrhumo?
• Zeziphi izihloko oxoxa ngazo?
• Ngaba kulungile ukuba ndihlale ndithule kwaye ndibukele kwiiseshoni zam zokuqala?

Ndwendwela amaqela ambalwa ahlukeneyo. Hlala kwezinye iintlanganiso ukuze ubone ukuba leliphi iqela elikulungeleyo.

Yintoni onokuyilindela

Amaqela enkxaso yomhlaza ahlangana rhoqo ngeveki okanye kanye ngenyanga. Rhoqo, uya kuhlala kwisangqa ukunika wonke umntu kwiqela ukuba akwazi ukusebenzisana. Inkokeli iya kwazisa ngesihloko ngokubanzi kuloo seshoni kwaye ivumele wonke umntu ukuba axoxe ngayo.

Ukuba umtsha kwiqela lenkxaso, kungathatha ixesha ukuzisebenzisa ekwabelaneni ngeemvakalelo zakho. Ekuqaleni, unokukhetha ukumamela nje. Ekugqibeleni, kuya kufuneka ulazi iqela ngokwaneleyo ukuba uzive ukhululekile ukuvula malunga namava akho.

Ukufumana ulungiso olufanelekileyo

Kubalulekile ukuba uqiniseke ukuba iqela lenkxaso olikhethayo liyahlangabezana neemfuno zakho. Ukujikelezwa ngabantu abakuphakamisayo kwaye bakuthuthuzele kunokuba luncedo kakhulu kuhambo lwakho lomhlaza. Kodwa ukuba amanye amalungu eqela lakho akananto kwaye akanathemba, banokukuhlisa kwaye bakwenze uzive umbi kakhulu.

Nazi iiflegi ezimbalwa ezibomvu ezinokuthetha ukuba iqela lakho lenkxaso alilunganga ngokufanelekileyo:

• Amalungu athambekele ekukhalazeni ngaphezu kokuxhasana.
• Iqela alihlelanga kakuhle. Iintlanganiso azihambelani. Inkokeli yeqela ihlala irhoxisa, okanye amalungu asilele ukuza.
• Inkokeli inyanzela ukuba uthenge iimveliso okanye uthembise ukunyanga isifo sakho.
• Imirhumo iphezulu kakhulu.
• Uziva ngathi ugwetywa nanini na usabelana ngeemvakalelo zakho.

Ukuba iqela lenkxaso likwenza ube nomsindo ngakumbi okanye alisebenzi, yishiye. Khangela elinye iqela elihambelana neemfuno zakho.

Ulufumana njani uninzi lweqela lakho lenkxaso

Nokuba ujoyina umntu buqu, kwi-Intanethi, okanye kwiqela lenkxaso yefowuni, ukubonisa lelona candelo libaluleke kakhulu. Khetha iqela elisebenza kunye neshedyuli yakho, ukuze uyazi ukuba uya kufumaneka ukuya kwiintlanganiso.

Bandakanya amanye amalungu eqela lakho lokhathalelo. Yazisa ugqirha wakho kunye nonontlalontle ukuba ujoyine iqela lenkxaso. Buza iingcebiso malunga nendlela onokufumana okuninzi ngayo kwiiseshoni. Ukuba iqela lakho livumela amalungu osapho ukuba azimase, yiza neqabane lakho, umntwana, okanye nabaphi na obathandayo ababandakanyekayo kwinkathalelo yakho.

Okokugqibela, nangona iqela lenkxaso linokuba luncedo kakhulu, musa ukuyenza ibe ngumthombo wakho wedwa wokhathalelo lweemvakalelo. Yayama nosapho kunye nabahlobo, iingcali zempilo yengqondo, kunye nogqirha wakho ngengcebiso kunye nentuthuzelo ngexesha lonyango lwakho.