Yintoni ubuhlengikazi beTandem kwaye ngaba ikhuselekile?

Umxholo

• Yintoni ubuhlengikazi obuhlangeneyo?
• Umongikazi ongumlingani kunye namawele onesi
• Unjani tandem nurse?
• Zeziphi izikhundla zokuncancisa ezisebenza kakuhle kubuhlengikazi?
• Iinkxalabo eziqhelekileyo
• Ngaba kukhuselekile ukuncancisa ngexesha lokukhulelwa?
• Ndizokwazi ukubenzela ubisi abantwana bam bobabini?
• Izibonelelo zobuhlengikazi obuqhelekileyo
• Imiceli mingeni yokuba ngumongikazi
• Yise kude

Ukuba usancancisa umntwana wakho okanye umntwana omncinci kwaye uzifumanisa ukhulelwe, enye yeengcinga zakho zokuqala inokuba yile: "Kwenzeka ntoni emva koko malunga nokuncancisa?"

Kwabanye oomama, impendulo icacile: Abananjongo zokuncancisa ngelixa ukhulelwe okanye ngaphaya koko, kwaye isigqibo sokuncancisa usana lwabo okanye usana oluncinci alunangqondo.

Abanye oomama, izinto azicacanga, kwaye banokuzibuza ukuba ukuqhubeka nokuncancisa usana lwabo okanye usana oluncinci kunokwenzeka.

Akukho mpendulo ichanekileyo apha, kwaye bonke oomama mabenze into esebenzayo kubo nakwiintsapho zabo. Kodwa ukuba ucinga ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba ube ngumongikazi we-tandem-ukuncancisa umntwana wakho osanda kuzalwa kunye nomdala ngexesha elifanayo-kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba ukwenza oko kuyinto eqhelekileyo, esempilweni, kwaye ikhuselekile ngokubanzi.

Yintoni ubuhlengikazi obuhlangeneyo?

Ukonga i-tandem kukonga nje abantwana ababini okanye nangaphezulu abakwiminyaka eyahlukeneyo ngaxeshanye. Ngokwesiqhelo oku kwenzeka xa unosana oludala, usana oluncinci, okanye umntwana owongayo, kwaye wongeza umntwana omtsha emfanekisweni.

Uninzi loomama abangabahlengikazi ngabantwana ababini kuphela - umntwana kunye nomntwana osele ekhulile- kodwa ukuba uyaphindaphinda okanye uzale ukuphindaphindeka, unokuzifumana uncancisa abantwana abangaphezulu kwesibini.

Ubuhlengikazi beTandem buhlala buthetha ukuba uya kuncancisa umntwana wakho omdala ngexesha lokukhulelwa kwakho. Kwezinye iimeko, abantwana abadala balumle okanye banciphise ngexesha lokukhulelwa-ngesiqhelo ngenxa yokuhla kobisi oluqhelekileyo ekukhulelweni-kodwa ke babonakalise umdla omtsha kubuhlengikazi xa usana luzelwe kwaye ubisi lubuyela kwakhona.

Umongikazi ongumlingani kunye namawele onesi

Ubuhlengikazi beTandem bufana nokuncancisa amawele kuba ufumanisa ukuba ufuna ukuhlangabezana neemfuno zomntwana ongaphezulu kwenye ngexesha elinye, enokuba sisenzo sokulinganisa.

Unokujamelana nemiceli mngeni efanayo, kubandakanya ukuthatha isigqibo sokuba uyafuna ukuncancisa abantwana bakho bobabini ngaxeshanye okanye ngokwahlukeneyo. Unokuzifumana usebenzisa ubisi lwebele olufanayo kunye nezikhundla xa uncancisa abantwana ababini ngaxeshanye.

Kodwa ukonga tandem kwahlukile kumawele okonga kuba ungabantwana abongayo abakwiminyaka eyahlukeneyo. Ngokwesiqhelo umntwana wakho okhulileyo okhulileyo akaxhomekeki kwixabiso lesondlo sokuncancisa kuba bekwadla ukutya okuqinileyo. Umntwana wakho omdala ngekhe afune ukuncancisa rhoqo njengosana lwakho olusanda kuzalwa.

Unjani tandem nurse?

Akukho mithetho inzima kwaye ikhawulezayo xa kufikwa kubongikazi be-tandem. Zonke iintsana zahlukile, kwaye bonke abantwana abasancancisayo baneemfuno ezahlukeneyo.

Oomama kufuneka baqonde ukuba yeyiphi eyona nto isebenza kubo nakubantwana babo, kwaye khumbula ukuba into esebenzayo kwiveki enye inokutshintsha elandelayo!

Konke malunga nokulungiselela iimfuno zabantwana bakho kunye nokuqinisekisa ukuba uyayihlonipha imida yakho njengomama, ngakumbi kuba kunokuba lula ukuba uzive ukhululekile kwaye "uchukunyiswe" xa unesi ngaphezu komntwana omnye ngexesha elinye.

Izinto oza kuzigcina engqondweni malunga nokonga:

• Umzimba wakho uya kwenza ubisi olwaneleyo ukondla bobabini abantwana bakho, kodwa ukuba unenkxalabo malunga nosana lwakho olusandul 'ukuzalwa ukuba lufumane ubisi olwaneleyo, ungavumela usana lwakho olusandul' ukuzalwa ukuba lunyanye kuqala emva koko longe umntwana wakho omdala.
• Njengokuba ubisi lwakho lusekiwe kwaye wena nosana lwakho ningena kumngxunya wokonga, ungaqala ukuqaphela ukuncancisa abantwana bobabini ngaxeshanye. Kodwa kwakhona, oko kuxhomekeke kuwe kunye nezinto ozikhethayo.
• Abanye oomama bathatha isigqibo sokuba babeke amacala kubo bobabini abantwana babo, batshintshe amacala ukusuka ekondleni batye, okanye badibanise iindlela.
• Akukho mpendulo ichanekileyo xa kufikwa kwindlela yokwakha indlela yakho yokondla; ngokubanzi, kungcono ukuba uthembe ukuba umzimba wakho uza kwenza ubisi olwaneleyo kubo bobabini abantwana bakho, kwaye awudingi ukulawula amava.

Zeziphi izikhundla zokuncancisa ezisebenza kakuhle kubuhlengikazi?

Xa unakekela abantwana bakho bobabini ngaxeshanye, kungathatha uvavanyo oluncinci kunye nephutha ukufumana isikhundla esiziva sikhululekile kuye wonke umntu obandakanyekayo.

Uninzi lwezikhundla zokonga ezizodwa ezikhethwa ngoomama ziyafana nezikhundla ezisetyenziswa ngoomama abangamawele. Izikhundla kunye nokubamba kunokubandakanya:

• Ukubeka usana lwakho olusandul 'ukuzalwa kwindawo "yokubamba ibhola" apho beza khona esifubeni sakho ukusuka kwicala lomzimba wakho. Oku kushiya umlenze wakho ukhululekile ukuba umntwana wakho omdala angene kwaye anesi.
• Unokuzama kwakhona indawo "yokulala", apho usana lwakho olusandul 'ukuzalwa kunye nosana lwakho luhleli kuwe ngelixa uncancayo. Esi sikhundla sisebenza kakuhle ebhedini, apho kukho indawo eninzi yokuba wonke umntu akhululeke.
• Unokuzama ukuncancisa usana lwakho olusandul 'ukuzalwa ekubanjweni komntwana ngelixa umntwana wakho eguqa ecaleni kwakho ngelixa unesi.

Iinkxalabo eziqhelekileyo

Ngaba kukhuselekile ukuncancisa ngexesha lokukhulelwa?

Oomama abaninzi baziva bekhathazekile malunga nokonga ngelixa bekhulelwe. Bayazibuza ukuba ngaba kuya kubangela ukuphuphuma kwesisu okanye ukuba umntwana wabo okhulayo uza kufumana ukutya okwaneleyo.

Ezi zinto zixhalabisayo ziyaqondakala, kodwa inyani kukuba kukho umngcipheko omncinci obandakanyekayo ekuncanciseni ngexesha lokukhulelwa, nokuba kukwakho okanye kusana lwakho olukhulayo, njengoko kuphawuliwe kwisifundo sango-2012.

Njengoko iAmerican Academy of Family Physicians (AAFP) ichaza ukuba, “Ukuncancisa ibele xa ukhulelwe akuqhelekanga. Ukuba ukukhulelwa kuyinto eqhelekileyo kwaye umama usempilweni, ukuncancisa xa ekhulelwe sisigqibo sobuqu somfazi. ”

I-AAFP igxininisa ukuba ukuncancisa kwiminyaka yokuhamba encinci kuluncedo ebantwaneni, ke ukuba uyakhulelwa kwaye ufuna ukuqhubeka, unesizathu esihle sokuzama.

Ewe kunjalo, ukonga ngexesha lokukhulelwa kuneeseti zalo zemiceli mngeni, kubandakanya iingono ezibuhlungu, ukutshintsha kweemvakalelo kunye nokutshintsha kwehomoni, kunye nokubanakho kokulunyulwa komntwana wakho ngenxa yokuncipha kobisi okubangelwa zihomoni zokukhulelwa.

Kwakhona, ukuqhubeka nokuncancisa ngexesha lokukhulelwa sisigqibo sakho, kwaye kufuneka wenze oko kukusebenzelayo.

Ndizokwazi ukubenzela ubisi abantwana bam bobabini?

Enye inkxalabo abahleli nayo oomama abangabongikazi bahlala benayo kukuba baya kuba nakho na ukuvelisa ubisi olwaneleyo kubo bobabini abantwana babo.

Ewe umzimba wakho uya kulwenza ubisi oludingayo kubo bobabini abantwana bakho, kwaye ixabiso lesondlo sobisi lwakho lwebele luya kuhlala lomelele kubo bobabini abantwana bakho.

Xa ukhulelwe umntwana wakho omtsha, umzimba wakho waqala inkqubo yokulungiselela ukuncancisa, nokuba uyaqhubeka nokuncancisa umntwana wakho omdala. Ke umzimba wakho uya kuvelisa icolostrum yosana lwakho olusandula kuzalwa, emva koko umisele ubisi ngokusekwe kwiimfuno zomntwana wakho nezindala zomntwana.

Khumbula ukuba indlela esebenza ngayo ubisi ngobonelelo nangemfuno ukuze abantwana bakho bafune ubisi, kokukhona uya kwenza ubisi oluninzi. Unayo le!

Izibonelelo zobuhlengikazi obuqhelekileyo

Ukuba ukhetha ukukhulisa umntwana wakho osandul 'ukuzalwa kunye nomdala, uya kufumanisa ukuba zininzi izibonelelo ezintle, kubandakanya:

• Inokunceda umntwana wakho omdala azive ekhuselekile kwaye eqinisekile njengoko utshintshela kusapho olutsha olunamandla.
• Umntwana wakho okhulileyo unokunceda ukunciphisa iimpawu ze-engorgement nje ukuba ubisi lwakho lungene, olunokuba luncedo kakhulu ukuba uhlala unomdla kakhulu.
• Umntwana wakho omdala anganceda ukuqhuba ngokukhawuleza ubisi lwakho xa ufuna ukonyuswa.
• Ukonga umntwana wakho omdala kunye nosana lwakho olusandul 'ukuzalwa yindlela elungileyo yokubagcina behlala (kwaye ngaphandle kwengxaki!).

Imiceli mingeni yokuba ngumongikazi

Ngaphandle kwenkxalabo malunga nokubonelelwa ngobisi, mhlawumbi eyona nkxalabo inkulu kunye nomceli mngeni abajamelana nawo oomama ngelixa uongikazi ulunge kakhulu ngamanye amaxesha

Unokuziva ukuba awuzange ufumane ikhefu, kwaye uhlala usondla umntu, kwaye awunaxesha lokufezekisa iimfuno zakho. Unokuziva ngathi "uchukumisiwe" okanye uphazamisekile ngelixa uncancisa.

Ukuba izinto zivakalelwa ngathi zininzi kakhulu, yazi ukuba unokukhetha. Ubuhlengikazi beTandem abuyiyo "yonke into okanye akukho nto" kwaye kulungile ukuba uqale ukusetha imigaqo ethile yomntwana wakho omncinci okanye umntwana omdala. Cinga ngoku:

• Ukuthatha isigqibo sokunciphisa ukutya kwabo kwinani elithile lamaxesha ngemini
• uzama "musa ukunikela, musa ukwala" ukubanceda ngokwendalo ukunciphisa
• ukunciphisa ixesha abanokuhlala ngalo ebeleni - umzekelo, abanye oomama baya kucula iivesi ezintathu "zengoma ye-ABC" kwaye emva koko bavule emva koko.

Ukuba akukho nto iyakunceda, ungaqwalasela ukulunyulwa. Ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokulumla, qiniseka ukuba uyakwenza ngobunono kwaye ngokuthe ngcembe ukuze umntwana wakho akwazi ukuzihlengahlengisa kwaye amabele akho angagcwali. Khumbula ukuba ukulunyulwa akuthethi ukuphela kokubopha: Wena kunye nomntwana wakho niza kufumana iindlela ezintsha zokuzimela kwaye nisondele.

Yise kude

Ubuhlengikazi beTandem lukhetho olukhulu koomama abaninzi nakubantwana babo. Nangona kunjalo, ngamanye amaxesha kunokuba yedwa. Kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba awuwedwa.

Uninzi lwabamama be-tandem nurse - ininzi nje into yokonga abantwana abadala kwenzeka ngasemva kweengcango ezivaliweyo ukuze ungaboni ngokubanzi okanye uve ngayo. Oomama abaninzi ababelani ukuba bangabongikazi abahlali ngenxa yokuba abantwana abancinci okanye abantwana abadala isengumba wesifundo esithile.

Ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokuba ngumongikazi, cinga ukufikelela kwinkxaso kumcebisi wokuncancisa okanye kumcebisi ngezahlulo. Ukujoyina iqela lenkxaso yendawo yokuncancisa okanye ukufumana isizwe sakho kwi-intanethi kunokunceda kakhulu.

Ubuhlengikazi beTandem bunokuba bumnandi, kodwa abukho ngaphandle kwemiceli mngeni, ke ukufumana inkxaso kuya kuba yinto ebalulekileyo kwimpumelelo yakho.