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Umxholo

• Ukunyamekelwa kweenwele kutyalo-mali lwakho lokuzithemba nolonwabo
• Ulwalamano lwakho nomgcini weenwele yenye yezona zinto zibalulekileyo oya kuze ube nazo
• Ndiphulaphule, kuthekani ukuba unyango lweenwele lunokunceda ukunciphisa usizi olushiyekileyo?

Iinwele zam zenza le nto ihlekisayo apho ithanda ukundikhumbuza malunga nokusilela kolawulo endinalo ebomini bam. Ngeentsuku ezilungileyo, kufana nentengiso yePantene kwaye ndiziva ndinethemba kwaye ndikulungele ukuthatha usuku. Ngeentsuku ezimbi, iinwele zam ziba frizzy, zi-greasy, kwaye zibe yinto ebangela ukunyuka koxinzelelo kunye nokucaphuka.

Ngesinye isikhathi, ngelixa ndandithandabuza ubudlelwane obutsha, ndibukele ixesha elitsha likaNetflix lamaGilmore Girls apho uEmily Gilmore ecoca indlu yakhe esekwe kwincwadi kaMarie Kondō Ubomi obuTshintsha ubuGcisa bokuDibanisa. Indlu yam izakuhlala imoshekile yile. Andinangxaki. Kodwa iinwele zam?

Kuthekani ukuba iinwele zam ziye zaba yinto eyahlukileyo ebonisa ukungcola kobomi bam?

Ndiphulaphule.

Ngamanye amaxesha, xa ndiphuma ngaphandle kolawulo lweenwele, kubangela uhlaselo loxinzelelo okanye uxinzelelo. Ndingajonga nje ekuboniseni kwam kwaye ndiqalise ukuhamba ...

Iinwele ezimdaka? Andinabo ubomi bam kunye.

Ukukhathazeka Ukufumana ilahleko epheleleyo yolawulo.

Iintsuku ezininzi zeenwele ezimbi - kuthekani ukuba ingxaki ndim?

Kukho ezinye iziphumo ezibonisa ukuba ukubonakala kweenwele zakho kuchaphazela ngaphezulu kwemood yakho. Kuluhlu lwezifundo ezintlanu malunga nokungalingani kweklasi, abaphandi baseStanford bafumanise ukuba iinkumbulo zosuku olubi lweenwele zichaphazele indlela abathathi-nxaxheba abakujonga ngayo ukungalingani. Kwaye kunjalo iinkumbulo -uthini ngomhla wokwenene?

Iintsuku ezingalunganga zeenwele zinokuphosa imvula ebomini bakho njengeSan Francisco fog. Akukho mvula, kodwa iyafefa, ingwevu, kwaye ingene endleleni. NgokukaGqirha Juli Fraga, ugqirha wengqondo onelayisensi eSan Francisco, ogxile kwinkxalabo yezempilo yabasetyhini, "Izinwele ezingalunganga, njengempahla engalunganga, zinokuchaphazela isimo sengqondo kuba zichaphazela indlela esizibona ngayo."

Ukunyamekelwa kweenwele kutyalo-mali lwakho lokuzithemba nolonwabo

Izinwele njenge-barometer yemood, ukuzithemba, kunye nokuxabiseka ayisiyonto intsha. Ndijonge kwisimboli seenwele, kwaye ibotshelelwe empilweni - ukulahleka kweenwele kukuxhalabisa kakhulu amadoda-kunye nobufazi ixesha elide.

Ngomnyaka we-1944, abafazi baseFransi babechetyiwe iintloko njengesohlwayo sokusebenzisana namaJamani. Namhlanje, abasetyhini abacheba iintloko zabo banxulumana nomhlaza kuqala. Nokuba kwinkcubeko ye-pop, abantu abadumileyo ababhinqileyo abazicheba iinwele zabo ezimfutshane bayavuseleleka.

Ukuzonwabisa ngeVeki ngeveki kwakukhethekileyo kwi-pixie ye-Emma Watson's cut - umhla yayiphumile. Konke oku kusathumela umyalezo ofanayo kum: Ukubonakala kuyinxalenye yempendulo yempendulo eyakha ukuzithemba nokuzithemba.

Ke, iinwele ezigcinwe kakuhle luphawu lomntu kunye nolwangaphandle lolawulo, kodwa nokufunda indlela yokulawula iinwele zam kuthathe ixesha. Ngombulelo, ingxaki yam yayisisiphumo sokungabizi kakhulu nokungahambelani.

Ulwalamano lwakho nomgcini weenwele yenye yezona zinto zibalulekileyo oya kuze ube nazo

Ndide ndiqalise ukusebenza ngokusisigxina, ndiza kukhangela i-Craigslist yokusika simahla, ndithembele kubaqeqeshi abafuna iimodeli, okanye bajonge iindawo zohlahlo-lwabiwo mali ezingaphantsi kwe- $ 20. Phantse njalo, bendishiya i-salon ndiziva ngathi ndinxibe ulusu lomnye umntu.

Ukuba kuphela umntu ebendixelele le: Ulwalamano lwakho nomgcini weenwele zakho luhlobo olufana nolwalamano lwakho nogqirha wakho. Utyelelo lokuqala alukho lula kodwa luyimfuneko, njengoko bekwazi wena.

Ekugqibeleni, baya kuba nakho ukurhangqa izitayile ezihambelana nobume bakho bobuso, iimveliso ezilungileyo zempilo yeenwele zakho, kunye namahla ndinyuka obomi bakho.

Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba ndiyifunde loo nto, bendinembali ende yokungazithembi iinwele zam. Ndizise ifoto kwiseshoni nganye. Bangs? Zooey Deschanel. Izinwele ezinde zamahlombe? I-Alexa Chung. Iingqimba? Eminye imodeli ye-Instagram. Eyona nto ndandiyithetha yayikuku… “Ndenze ndifane naye.”

Kuze kube yiminyaka emibini emva kwekholeji apho ndagqiba ekubeni ndihlawule i-60 yeenwele zokucheba iinwele, njengoko umntu owayeqeqeshwa ngaphambili wayesebenza ngokusisigxina. Kwiiseshoni zokuqala ezimbalwa, ndizise iifoto zezinye iinwele ezenziwayo. Ngenye imini, ngelixa ndandinomfanekiso we-YouTuber ogcinwe kwifowuni, ukuxhalaba kwam kwangena.

Ndothuke nyani ndaqala ukubila. What if bendimthuka qho ndibonisa ifoto? Kuthekani ukuba bonke abalungisi beenwele endakhe ndaya kubo nabo babethukwa?

Ke ndathi kuye, "Musa ukusika nje mfutshane," ndaza ndagcina ifihliwe.

Andisabonisi iifoto kuNora kwakhona. Ngapha koko, andibonisi mntu imizekelo ngaphambi kokuba ndichebe iinwele zam, nto leyo ekhokelele kumagqabantshintshi ambalwa anje ngala, "Ayibonakali njengefoto ondibonise yona."

Kum, yongezwe kukudana okuncinci kwaye akukho kulindelwa ukuba kujongeka njenge-Alexa Chung. Ndiyayithanda inyani yokuba ndijongeka njengam, nokuba kuthathe iminyaka eliqela ukuyamkela.

Ndiphulaphule, kuthekani ukuba unyango lweenwele lunokunceda ukunciphisa usizi olushiyekileyo?

Ukhathalelo lweenwele njengonyango kufuneka lufumane ikhredithi engaphezulu. Kum, ukuthetha nabahlobo akusikeki ngamanye amaxesha. Ukuthenga kukwexeshana kwaye ndinoloyiko kakhulu lokufumana unyango. Kodwa iinwele?

Ukucheba iinwele kum kufana nonyango oluthethwayo, unyango lokuthengisa, kunye nokuzikhathalela okuzibandakanya kwiseshoni yeeyure ezimbini zokukhululwa. Ewe Nceda. A ngokwenene iinwele ezilungileyo zingandihlala ixesha elingaphezu kweenyanga ezintathu, ukuba zinqunyiwe. Kwaye, ekupheleni kosuku, umyili weenwele zakho uluhlobo olufana nonyango ndifuna -umntu ohlala esecaleni lakho, nokuba ibali lakho lisendle kangakanani.

Ndithandana nenkwenkwe ephulula iinwele zam ngalo lonke ixesha, esidlangalaleni nasekhaya. Kwiinyanga ezintathu kamva, ndafumanisa ukuba naye - ngenxa yokusilela kwesithethi esingcono - ephulula iinwele zabanye abantu. Ngelixa uthatha isigqibo sokuba ubudlelwane kufanelekile ukulandela, uMarie Kondō weza engqondweni.

Kwincwadi ethi “The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up” uthi: “Eyona nto ibalulekileyo yokukhetha ukuba uza kugcina ntoni okanye ulahle ntoni, ngaba kukugcina kukwenza wonwabe, nokuba kuya kukuzisela uvuyo.”

So ndohlukana naye. Kwiinyanga ezimbalwa ezantsi kwendlela, umhlobo wam wandiphulula iinwele njengesiqhulo. Endaweni yokuhleka, yonke into endandiyiva lusizi olukhulu. Kwakungekho emva kweenyanga ezintandathu, ngokutshintshela kwiqela elitsha emsebenzini, apho ndaziva ngathi lixesha lokunqumla elidlulileyo kwaye ndiqale ngokutsha.

U-Nora waqhekeza iinyanga ezintandathu emagxeni am, waphinda waguqula iithowuni zam zeorenji zebrashi ukuya kumbala omdaka ngehlobo-ehlobo, wandithambisa entlonzeni, ndaza ndakhupha inkungu enuka kamnandi ngeenwele zam ezisandula kunqunyulwa. Kwakulula kwaye kulula ukuyilawula, kwaye ndaziva ngathi ngumntu omtsha kraca.

Elona candelo lam ndilithandayo ngoku liqhuba iminwe yam apho kwakudala kwakulilala. Endaweni yeenkumbulo neemvakalelo, ngumoya nje.

UChristal Yuen ungumhleli kwiHealthline.com. Ucebisa ngokucheba iinwele emva koqhawulo-mtshato olubi kwaye ungaze usebenzise “UMarie Kondō ndathi kufuneka ndigcine kuphela izinto ebomini ezizisa uvuyo kum njengesizathu sokwahlukana. Ungamlandela Twitter okanye I-Instagram.