I-TikTokkers Zidwelisa izinto ezi-Obscure abazithandayo Ngabantu kwaye ziLonyango

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Xa uskrola iTikTok, ukutya kwakho kusenokwenzeka ukuba kugcwele iividiyo ezingenakubalwa zeendlela zobuhle, iingcebiso zomsebenzi kunye nemiceli mngeni yokudanisa. Ngelixa ezi TikToks ngokungathandabuzekiyo ziyonwabisa, indlela entsha apho abantu badwelisa izinto ezincinci abazithandayo ngabantu ngokuqinisekileyo baya kubeka uncumo olukhulu ebusweni bakho.

Ngaphantsi kwee-hashtag #whatilikeaboutpeople, #thingspeopledo, kunye #cutethingshumansdo, iiTikTokkers zichaza iindlela zemihla ngemihla ezizifumana zithandwa ebantwini.

Ezi idiosyncrasies ziqhelekile xa uzibona ziyi-IRL- kodwa xa iiTikTokkers zithetha ngazo, zithatha intsingiselo entsha ngokupheleleyo.

Omnye woovulindlela abahamba phambili ngumsebenzisi weTikTok @peachprc, ividiyo yakhe yentsholongwane ebonisa ukuba uyangxama ngenxa yokuba sinikana ubucwebe "bokuhombisa" abantu esibathandayo, kwaye sihambisa imizimba yethu ukubonisa abanye ukuba siyayonwabela ingoma. (Idibeneyo: Le TikTokker iyabathuthuzela abantu abaneengxaki zokutya ngokuzonwabisa ngokutya okufanelekileyo kunye nabo)

Omnye umsebenzisi, @_qxnik, uthumele iTikTok echaza indlela emnandi ngayo "xa abantu befika bekhubeka bekhangeleka betyisiwe ngenxa yemozulu eyomeleleyo kwaye banjengo 'Oh uxolo!'"

Kumsebenzisi weTikTok @ monkeypants25, lixesha "xa uhamba kufutshane nomntu osefowunini nomhlobo wakhe abaza kudibana naye, kwaye uve besithi, 'Owu ndiyakubona,' emva koko wena. ukubona umhlobo wabo kwaye badibana kunye." Uye wathi uyathanda xa abantu benxibe imibala emibini yeekawusi okanye bevela eklasini ngeenwele zabo zimanzi. "Ukwenza olu luhlu bekunyanga ngokwenene," wabhala kwi-caption yakhe TikTok. "Ndincoma ukuthatha ixesha lokwenza enye."

I-TBH, unokufuna ukumsa kolo ngcebiso. Xa isiza phantsi kwayo, le ndlela yeTikTok yindlela yokuxabisa izinto ezincinci ebomini - indlela yoyilo yombulelo, ukuba uyathanda.

Izibonelelo zombulelo kuzo zombini impilo kunye nengqondo zibhalwe kakuhle. Ukujolisa kwimiba elungileyo yobomi kunxulunyaniswe nomgangatho ophucukileyo wokulala, ukoneliseka bubomi bonke, kunye nokunciphisa iipateni zokucinga ezimbi, ukubiza ngambalwa. (Ngakumbi apha: Izibonelelo ezi-5 eziQinisekisiweyo zezeMpilo zoMbulelo)

Kuyavunywa, iingcali aziwuthandi umbono wokubulela kumajelo eendaba ezentlalo, ubuncinci hayi ngohlobo lwezithuba ezisikelelekileyo ezibonisa nje iiholide ezoyikekayo okanye ukutya okumnandi. Kodwa ukusebenzisa imidiya yoluntu ukuxelela abantu ukuba kutheni unombulelo kubo kuya kuba nefuthe ngakumbi. "Ndicinga ukuba eyona ndlela ilungileyo kukubonisa umbulelo kumntu ngamnye," utshilo uTchiki Davis, Ph.D., umseki we-Berkeley Well-Being Institute. Ubume. "Endaweni yokubonisa abanye abantu oko unombulelo ngako, baxelele ukuba unombulelo ngabo."

Ngelixa ezi TikTokkers zingabonakalisi umbulelo kumntu othile, ukuziva nje zisihla ngenxa yezinto ezingabalulekanga ezenziwa yinkoliso yethu ngokungazi kunokukwenza uzive uxabisekile kwaye uxabisiwe ngenxa yokuba ukhona njengomntu.

“Ndiziva ndinombulelo ngenxa [yezinto] ezincinci endizenzayo ngoku,” utshilo omnye umsebenzisi weTikTok kwividiyo ethi #whatilikeaboutpeople. "Heyi idk ukuba ayifanelekanga kodwa ndiyigcinile kuba iyandikhumbuza ukuba kutheni ndifanele ndihlale ndiphila," uphawule watsho omnye umsebenzisi.

Kwaye, ukuba i-TikTok ayisiyonto yakho, kuhlala kukho ukubulela.

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