Inzululwazi ngasemva kwe-Toe-Curling Orgasms
Umxholo
- Njani isondo kunye neNkqubo yeNervous
- Kutheni i-Orgasms inokwenza iinzwane zakho zigobe
- Uphengululo lwe
Uyazi xa ukwiqondo lokuphakama kwaye wonke umzimba wakho uthabathe uhlobo? Yonke imithambo-luvo emzimbeni wakho ibonakala ngathi inombane kwaye ibandakanyeka kumava. Nokuba awuzange ube ne-orgasm enje, mhlawumbi ukhe weva ngazo ngabahlobo, iinoveli, iimuvi, okanye ubuncinci. Isini kunye neSixeko. (Kwaye ukuba awukwenzi oko, cinga ukufunda: Uyenza njani i-Orgasm ngalo lonke ixesha, ngokweNzululwazi)
Igama "i-orgasm ye-toe-curling" isetyenziswa ngokuhlangeneyo ukuchaza isondo esasiyiyo ke kakuhle, i-orgasm ke kakhulu, ukuba iinzwane zakho zisongekile ngenxa yamava omzimba opheleleyo. (PS Ngaba uyazi ukuba kukho iqela leentlobo ezahlukeneyo ze-orgasms onokuthi ube nazo?!)
Kodwa kutheni "i-toe-curling?" Ngaba oku kukujika nje kwebinzana elenziwe lathandwa ziinoveli zothando, okanye ngaba kukho inyaniso kulo? Kuvela, kukho.
Ukuba ubuzibuza malunga nale nto ibizwa ngokuba yi-toe-curling orgasms kwaye ufuna ukungena kwisenzo, nyathela phezulu. Nantsi yonke into ekufuneka uyazi.
Njani isondo kunye neNkqubo yeNervous
Ixesha lesifundo se-anatomy. ICYDK, yonke imithambo-luvo emzimbeni wakho ixhunyiwe. Bonke bayathetha omnye komnye, bathumela imiqondiso ngokusebenzisa intambo yomqolo kwingqondo, besebenzisa uthotho lweeurotransmitters ezintsonkothileyo. Ukuphela kwale mithambo-luvo (ibizwa ngokuba, yep, iziphelo zemithambo-luvo) zihlala sizibhekisa kwiindawo ezinobungozi, ucacisa uMoushumi Ghose, MFT, ugqirha wezesondo onelayisensi kunye nonyango lomtshato wosapho. "Yiyo loo nto inokuba buhlungu ukuncanyiswa emva kwendlebe, ukuphululwa ethangeni, okanye emazantsi eenyawo zethu."
Intambo yomqolo ifana nomthunywa othatha iimvakalelo zokonwaba, iintlungu, uloyiko, ukuphumla, ukhuseleko njlnjl. Ukusuka kwingqondo ukuya kwamanye amalungu omzimba. Kwelinye icala, ingqondo ithumela imiyalezo ephindaphindayo kwintambo yomqolo, evelisa iimvakalelo kwindawo othunyelwe kuyo umyalezo.
"Kuzo zonke izigaba ze-orgasm, iindlela ezininzi emzimbeni ziyavuswa kwaye zivuselelwe," kuchaza uSherry A. Ross, MD, ingcali yezempilo yabasetyhini kunye nombhali. I-She-ology.
Ukuyibeka ngokulula, ngelixa iclitoris ineziphelo zemithambo-luvo ezingaphezu kwama-8,000, yinxalenye nje yenkqubo yemithambo-luvo enkulu kakhulu edibanisa yonke into kwi ~okhestra eyonwabileyo yolonwabo ~. (Nazi ezinye iinyani ezipholileyo ze-orgasm oya kukonwabela ukuzikhupha.)
Kutheni i-Orgasms inokwenza iinzwane zakho zigobe
I-Orgasm ichazwa njengokukhululwa okuzenzekelayo koxinzelelo ekuphakameni komjikelo wokuphendula ngokwesondo kwaye ihlala imnandi kakhulu (duh). Ingqondo yakho ikhupha i-neurotransmitters dopamine kunye ne-oxytocin-iihomoni ezimbini ezijongene nolonwabo, umvuzo kunye nokudibanisa. Xa ukhukulisiwe zezi khemikhali zimnandi, ingqondo yakho ithumela umqondiso kwinkqubo yakho yemithambo-luvo ukuze uphumle. (Funda ngakumbi: Ubunzima bakho kwi-Orgasm)
Kuba umzimba kunye nengqondo yakho zidityanisiwe, iyavakala into yokuba iinzwane zakho ziya kungena kwisenzo, nazo. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, zonke izihlunu zomzimba emzimbeni ziyinxalenye yomzimba opheleleyo, ukusuka kwingqondo yakho yonke indlela ukuya ezincwadini zakho, ekunokwenzeka ukuba livela phi eli binzana kwindawo yokuqala. (Ubumnandi ayisiyiyo bodwa inzuzo yokuncancisa-nazi ezinye ezisixhenxe.)
Ke akukho nxu lumano lomlingo phakathi kweenzwane zakho kunye neclitoris yakho; kunokuba, kukuba umzimba wakho uphela ubambe uxinzelelo ngexesha lokuzonwabisa, ngakumbi emva koko ukhulule kwi-orgasm.
Oko kwathiwa, i-toe-curling yimpendulo yemvelo ye-muscular kunye ne-reflex enokuthi yenzeke kanye ngaphambi kokukhululwa okukhulu. URoss uthi: "Isenokungachazwa ngokweenkcukacha ngokwesayensi, kodwa xa abanye abafazi befumana i-orgasm, iinzwane zabo zigoba ngolindelo kunye nemincili. "Imisipha kuwo wonke umzimba ithatha inxaxheba kumava esondo, kubandakanywa neenzwane zakho."
Njengoko uyazi, ngexesha le-Big "O," ukhona hayi kulawulo, utshilo uMal Harrison, umlawuli weCentre of Erotic Intelligence (uthungelwano lwezenzululwazi, oogqirha, abaphandi, abanyangi, iingcali zesini, ootitshala, kunye nabaphembeleli abazinikele ekuqondeni nasekufundiseni ngesini sabantu). Ukugoba iinzwane sisiphumo esecaleni kwenkqubo yethu yemithambo-luvo, elawula zonke iinkqubo ezingazi nto emzimbeni wakho, njengokuphefumla, ukubetha kwentliziyo, kunye nokwetyisa, utshilo. "Iinzwane zigoqeka kwabanye abantu njengento ezenzekelayo," wongezelela. "Into efanayo inokwenzeka xa sixhamla intlungu okanye impembelelo xa siphakathi kwimeko enobungozi okanye exinzelelekileyo, okanye xa sifumana into eyonwabisayo-akudingeki ukuba ibe yisondo nje."
Ngelixa zonke i-orgasms ezibetha ngengqondo ngokuzenzekelayo zithetha ukuba iinzwane zakho ziya kujika, iyavakala into yokuba abanye bayakwenza oko. Xa umzimba wakho wonke ubandakanyeka kwincopho, okukhokelela ekukhululweni ngokuzimeleyo koxinzelelo lwezesondo, unokufumana izihlunu ezibandakanya wonke umzimba wakho ongenanto yakwenza ne-clitoris yakho. Imizimba inzima ngolo hlobo. (Kwimeko apho: 4 Izinto ezingathandekiyo ezinokukwenza ukuba ube yi-Orgasm)
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