UKatrina Scott unika abalandeli bakhe ukujongwa okukrwada kwinto yokuba kujongeka njani na ubudlolo besibini

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Umseki weTone It Up uKatrina Scott akazange aphephe ukuba sesichengeni kunye nabalandeli bakhe. Uvulelwe ngokubaluleka kokubeka phambili impilo yengqondo kwaye uchazekile malunga neyona nyani yokuba ngumama omtsha. Ngoku, wabelana ngento yobuqu ngakumbi: umzabalazo wakhe wokungachumi.

Kutshanje uScott uthathe ku-Instagram ukuze abelane ngesithuba esibuhlungu malunga nokuba kutheni ethule kangaka kwimidiya yoluntu kude kube ngoku. "Lo ngumbono omncinci wendlela ihlabathi lethu elikhangeleka ngayo mva nje," wabelane ecaleni kwe-reel ebonisa ukuba kunzima kangakanani ukuzama ukukhulelwa kwakhona.

Ikliphu yingqokelela yeevidiyo apho uScott elawula into ebonakala ngathi ziinaliti zehomoni ye-IVF esiswini sakhe, nokuba nguye okanye ngoncedo losapho kunye nabahlobo. Ngaxa lithile, kwanentombi yakhe eneminyaka emi-2 u-Isabel ubonwa emthuthuzela kwaye ephuza isisu sakhe apho asanda kufumana inaliti. “Olu hambo beluyiyo yonke into ukusuka kwintliziyo ukuya ekudidekeni, kwaye kumnyama kakhulu,” utshilo uScott ecaleni kwereel. "Kodwa indibonisile ubuhle ngethemba, ubuntu, kunye nokuphilisa. Ngokwenyani ngekhe ndibenaso isibindi sokuqhubeka ndityhala ngaphandle kwenu nonke, usapho lwam, abahlobo, kunye noogqirha kunye nabongikazi abakhohlakeleyo." (Eyeleleneyo: Hayi, isitofu sokugonya se-COVID asibangeli ukungazali)

Ukungafumani bantwana okwesibini, okanye ukungakwazi ukukhulelwa emva kokumitha ngokulula umntwana wakho wokuqala, ayithethiswa ngokungachumi kakhulu - kodwa ichaphazela abafazi abaqikelelwa kwizigidi ezithathu e-US (Qaphela: Ngelixa uScott engazange athi nkqo uthe ukukhulelwa Ixesha lokuqala yayiyimpepho, akazange abhale naluphi na uhlobo lohambo lokuchuma lokukhulelwa.)

"Ukungachumi kwasesekondari kungakhathaza kwaye kubhidanise isibini esikhulelweyo ngokukhawuleza ngaphambili," utshilo uJessica Rubin, ob-gyn oseNew York. Ubume. "Ndihlala ndikhumbuza abaguli bam ukuba kungathatha isibini esiqhelekileyo, esisempilweni unyaka wonke ukukhulelwa, ukuze singasebenzisi ixesha abazama ngalo ukukhulelwa ngaphambili njengendawo yokulinganisa, ngakumbi xa bekuneenyanga ezintathu okanye ngaphantsi." (Inxulumene: Yintoni i-Ob-Gyns enqwenela ukuba abantu basetyhini bazi malunga nokuchuma kwabo)

Ngo-Matshi 2021 ngeposi kwibhlog yakhe, Phila kamnandi, UScott wabelana ngokuba wayekhe waphunyelwa sisisu kabini ngo-2020. Emva koko, "besigqibe ekubeni singayenzi i-IVF njeokwangoku, "wabhala kulo myalezo." Siphantse sahamba ngaloo ndlela ngoJanuwari, kodwa ugqirha wethu wasicebisa ukuba siphinde sizame kwakhona. Iiveki nje ezimbini okanye ezintathu ukhulelwe.Kubonakala ngathi, ukusukela ngoko, bathathe isigqibo sokuzama i-IVF. " Wabhala kwi-Instagram post. "Kodwa ngokukhawuleza ukuba ndikhangele kwigumbi lokulinda, ndaqonda ukuba asikho sodwa. Ingangumntu ohlukanisayo xa sibambe izinto ngaphakathi ... kodwa ngokwenene, sonke sikule nto sikunye. "

"Andazi ukuba ikamva lisiphatheleni nosapho lwethu, kodwa suku ngalunye ndibambelele ethembeni, ukholo, nothando," uqhubeke watsho. (Idibeneyo: Ndifunde njani ukuthemba umzimba wam emva kokutshata)

Esazi ukuba ibinzima kangakanani le nkqubo, uScott wasebenzisa iqonga lakhe ukunika amanye amazwi enkxaso kwamanye amagorha angafumani bantwana, ebazisa ukuba ababodwa. "Kuye nakubani na ofumana ilahleko, umothuko, umzabalazo wokuzala ... "Gcina intloko yakho phezulu, intliziyo yakho phambili, kwaye ungaze ulibale ukuba ulifanele ibali elihle. Kulungile ukucela uncedo kwaye uthi ufuna inkxaso."

Ngelixa ugcina iinkcukacha zingacacanga, uScott wabashiya abalandeli bakhe ngohlaziyo oluncinci lwento elandelayo kuhambo lwakhe. Ubuyise iqanda lam namhlanje, ke ndiyakuphumla kwaye ndichache, ubhale watsho. I-ICYDK, ngexesha lenkqubo ye-IVF, amaqanda ayaphinda afunyanwe kwizibeleko zakho, achunyiswe sisidoda kwilebhu, emva koko amaqanda achunyisiweyo adluliselwe kwisibeleko sakho, ngokweKliniki yaseMayo. “Ndifuna nazi nonke ukuba ndiyayibulela kakhulu imithandazo nenkxaso yenu,” uqhube watsho. "UBrian kwaye ndiyayiva kwaye isinika amandla angaphezulu kunokuba sinako ukubeka amagama."

Ukuphendula ukuba sesichengeni kwakhe, amalungu aliqela oluntu lomzimba abelana ngothando lwawo.

Umphembeleli wezempilo u-Anna Victoria, naye osokolayo ngokuzala, wanika uScott inkxaso yakhe kwicandelo lamagqabaza. “Ndiyazingca ngawe ngokwabelana ngale nto,” wabhala umqeqeshi. "Ndiyathemba ukuba ukubuyiswa kweqanda lakho kuhambe kakuhle kwaye i-bloat emva kokubuyisela ayibi kakhulu okanye ibuhlungu. Kuya kufaneleka konke !!!" (Inxulumene: Uhambo luka-Anna Victoria's Postpartum LuMkhuthazile ukuba aqalise iiNkqubo eNtsha kuLwazi lokuSebenza kwakhe)

Omnye umqeqeshi, uHannah Bronfman naye wabelane ngamagama amnandi xa ebhala: "Ukwabelana ngebali lakho kuya kunceda uninzi lwabasetyhini. Ndiyazingca ngohambo lwakho kwaye ndibambe indawo yakho nawo onke amajoni e-IVF phaya!"

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