Indlela yokuLawula i-Trichophilia, okanye i-Hair Fetish

Umxholo

• Zithini iinkcukacha?
• Uziva njani?
• Ukufikisa okanye ukuphazamiseka?
• Ulawula njani
• Umgca wezantsi

I-Trichophilia, ekwabizwa ngokuba sisisu somntwana, kuxa umntu eziva evuswa ngokwesondo okanye etsalwa ziinwele zabantu. Oku kunokuba lulo naluphi na uhlobo lweenwele zomntu, ezinjengeenwele zesifuba, iinwele zekhwapha, okanye iinwele zasesidlangalaleni.

Nangona kunjalo, eyona nto kugxilwe kuyo kwesi sinomtsalane kubonakala ngathi ziinwele zentloko yabantu. I-Trichophilia ingabonisa njengolusisi olude okanye olufutshane lweenwele, isibeleko sokutsala iinwele, okanye usana oluchetyiweyo, phakathi kwabanye.

Ukhetho ngokwesondo olubandakanya iinwele aluqhelekanga. Kulungile ngokugqibeleleyo, ukuba awubalimazi abanye abantu.

Ngelixa ipesenteji yokwenyani yabantu abane-trichophilia ingaziwa, ngumntwana onokuphuhliswa ngamadoda nabafazi.

Apha, sihamba ngendlela enokubonisa ngayo, indlela abantu abaluva ngayo olu hlobo lobuntwana, kunye nendlela yokuphila nalo.

Zithini iinkcukacha?

I-Trichophilia luhlobo lweparaphilia. Ngokokuya kugqirha wezifo zengqondo oqinisekisiweyo nguGqirha uMargaret Seide, iparaphilia kukugxila kwi-erotic kuyo nayiphi na into ngaphandle kwelungu lesini lomntu ovumelekileyo ongumlingane ongumntu.

Iparaphilia, okanye iimfesane, ziqheleke ngakumbi kunokuba ungacinga.

Ngokophando lwe-2016, phantse isiqingatha sabathathi-nxaxheba abangama-1,040 babonisa umdla kwinqanaba elinye leparaphilic.

I-Trichophilia inokubonakalisa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. "Umntu one-trichophilia unokufumana ukonwaba ngokwesondo ngokubukela, ukuchukumisa, kwaye kwiimeko ezinqabileyo, ukutya iinwele," utshilo uSeide.

"Uninzi lwabantu abane-trichophilia baxela ukutsala iinwele ukususela ebuntwaneni kwaye batsaleleka kwintengiso yeeshampu ebonisa iinwele ngokubalaseleyo," ucacisa uSeide.

Bahlala betsala kuhlobo oluthile lweenwele. Umzekelo, izinto ezibangela i-trichophilia zingabandakanya:

• iinwele ezinde nezithe nkqo
• iinwele ezisongiweyo
• iinwele zombala othile
• iinwele ezifakwe ngendlela ethile, ezinje ngee roller
• ukuphatha iinwele ngendlela ethile ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo, njengokutsala

Ukwabonisa ukuba kwabanye abantu, ukuchukumisa nje iinwele kunokuzisa umntu kwi-orgasm.

UGqirha Gail Saltz, unjingalwazi onxulumene nezifo zengqondo kwiSibhedlele i-New York Presbyterian, Weill-Cornell Medical College, uthi ukukhulelwa kweenwele kunokubandakanya naluphi na uhlobo lombala, ubume, okanye inwele. Inokubandakanya nayiphi na indlela yokunxibelelana neenwele ezinje ngokujonga, ukubamba, okanye ukuzilungisa.

Uziva njani?

Iimpawu ze-trichophilia, okanye ukuba zikwenza uzive njani, zixhomekeke kuhlobo lweenwele kunye neemeko ezibangela ukuvuka.

Oku kunokwahluka kumntu ngamnye. Kodwa ngokubanzi, ukuba nosana olungumntwana ngokwenyani kuthetha ukuba ufumana uyolo lwenkanuko yento-kule meko, iinwele zabantu.

Oko kunokuthetha ukuba uyonwaba xa ucheba iinwele, okanye ufumana uvakalelo oluthandayo ngelixa ubukele ishampu yokuthengisa.

Nokuba ukhetha ntoni, ukuba ufumanisa inkanuko, uSaltz uthi ayisiyongxaki ngokubanzi. Yinto enye yezinto ezininzi abantu abazonwabisayo njengenxalenye yobomi babo bezesondo.

Oko kwathethileyo, uthi ukuba iinwele kufuneka zibe ngowona mthombo wokuqala wokuvuselela inkanuko yesini ukuze kufezekiswe ukwaneliseka ngokwesondo, emva koko umntwana sele eyinto enzulu.

Ukufikisa okanye ukuphazamiseka?

Ukuba i-trichophilia iya ngaphaya kokukhetha ngokwesondo okuqhelekileyo kwaye ibangela uxinzelelo kuwe okanye kwabanye, ugqirha unokukufumanisa ukuba une-paraphilic disorder.

Ngokwoshicilelo lwamva nje lweDiagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5), abantu abanesifo sokuphazamiseka kwengqondo kuya kuthi:

• baziva bekhathazekile malunga nomdla wabo, hayi kuphela uxinzelelo olubangelwa kukungamkelwa luluntu; okanye
• unomnqweno wesondo okanye indlela yokuziphatha ebandakanya ukukhathazeka kwengqondo yomnye umntu, ukwenzakala, okanye ukufa, okanye umnqweno wokuziphatha ngokwesondo kubandakanya abantu abangafuniyo okanye abantu abangakwaziyo ukunika imvume esemthethweni

Seide uthi i-trichophilia ithathwa njengengxaki xa izisa ukungasebenzi kakuhle kubomi bemihla ngemihla okanye ibangela uxinzelelo emntwini.

"Ekunyangeni ngengqondo, siyibiza le egodystonic, okuthetha ukuba ayisahambelani nenkqubo yalo mntu yokukholelwa okanye ngokuhambelana noko bafuna bona," uyachaza.

Umzekelo, utsho uSeide, iya kuba yinto yokuba umntu aqale asebenze kwizibongozo zokuchukumisa iinwele zomntu ongavumiyo ukungena.

"Ukuqhuba ukwenza into yomntwana kunokuba namandla kwaye, ngelishwa ngamanye amaxesha, kunokugqwetha isigwebo esingcono somntu," uyongeza.

Ngenxa yoko, uSeide uthi inokuzisa iintloni kunye nokukhathazeka emntwini, kwaye banokuziva bothukile okanye benyanyiswe ziingcinga zabo.

Xa i-trichophilia iqala ukuphazamisa uxanduva lwemihla ngemihla, uSeide uthi luphawu lokuba ibe sisifo.

Umzekelo, umntu onolu hlobo lokuphazamiseka kwiparaphilic angaqala ukubonakalisa kade emsebenzini kuba bachitha ixesha elininzi kakhulu kwiiwebhusayithi zabantwana.

"Ngelo xesha, iwelele ekubeni yindawo yezifo ephazamisa ubomi kwaye ikhokelela kwiziphumo ezibi," uyachaza.

Ulawula njani

Ukuba i-trichophilia iyatshintsha ukusuka kubuntwana iye kwisifo, kukho izinto onokuzenza ukunciphisa iimfuno kunye nokulawula imeko.

Kuba akukho lunyango lwe-trichophilia, uSeide uthi unyango luza kugxila kulawulo lwale meko.

Oko utshilo, uxela ukuba unyango luyacetyiswa kuphela ukuba imeko ikhokelela kuphazamiseko ebomini bakho, okanye uziva uthuthumbiswa yiminqweno.

"Ukuba wenza le minqweno ngaphakathi kobudlelwane bemvumelwano nomnye umntu omdala ongakhathazeki zezi drive, ungenelelo aluchazwanga," uyachaza.

Nangona kunjalo, ukuba i-trichophilia ibangela iingxaki, okanye unesifo esiyi-disorder, u-Seide uthi kukho iindlela ezimbalwa zonyango:

• Amaqela okuzinceda. Ngenxa yokufana kwayo nokulutha (ukuxhathisa umnqweno wokwenza izinto), i-trichophilia inokuqwalaselwa kumaqela okuzinceda ngokusekwe kwimodeli yenyathelo le-12.
• Amayeza. Amayeza athile anokusetyenziselwa ukunciphisa i-libido yakho. Oku kubandakanya i-medroxyprogesterone acetate (iDepo-Provera) kunye ne-serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) ekhethiweyo.

Umgca wezantsi

I-Trichophilia ngumntwana wesini obandakanya iinwele zabantu. Logama nje kungabikho mntu wenzakalayo, emzimbeni okanye emphefumlweni, kwaye isenziwa phakathi kwabantu abadala abavumayo, iingcali zithi inokuba yinto eyonwabisayo kubomi bakho ngokwesondo.

Ukuba lo mntwana uphazamisa imisebenzi yakho yemihla ngemihla okanye ubudlelwane, okanye ukwenzakalisa omnye umntu, cinga ukubona ingcali yezempilo yengqondo. Banezixhobo zokuchonga kunye nokunyanga i-trichophilia.