Ukuphakama kwamantombazana: Bayeka Nini Ukukhula, Buyintoni ubude beMedian, kunye nokunye

Umxholo

• Ukufikisa kukuchaphazela njani ukukhula?
• Luphi unxibelelwano phakathi kokufikisa kunye nokukhula kwebele?
• I-Q & A: Ukukhula kwebele
• Q:
• A:
• Ngaba amantombazana akhula ngesantya esahlukileyo kunamakhwenkwe?
• Yintoni ukuphakama okuphakathi kwamantombazana?
• Ukuphakama ngokweminyaka
• Yeyiphi indima edlalwa yimfuzo kubude?
• Yintoni ebangela ukulibaziseka kokukhula?
• Yintoni i-takeaway?

Intombazana iyakuyeka nini ukukhula?

Amantombazana akhula ngesantya esikhawulezayo ebusaneni nasebuntwaneni. Xa befikisa, ukukhula kukhula ngokumangalisayo kwakhona.

Amantombazana ahlala eyeka ukukhula kwaye afikelele kubude obudala nge-14 okanye kwi-15 leminyaka ubudala, okanye kwiminyaka embalwa emva kokuba sexesheni iqala.

Funda ngakumbi malunga nokukhula kwamantombazana, ukuba ulindele ntoni xa kusenzeka, kwaye xa ufuna ukubiza ugqirha wabantwana womntwana wakho.

Ukufikisa kukuchaphazela njani ukukhula?

Amantombazana ngesiqhelo akhula ngokukhawuleza kwisithuba seminyaka emibini phambi kokuba aye exesheni.

Kwinkoliso yamantombazana, ukufikisa kwenzeka phakathi kwe-8 ukuya kwi-13 yeminyaka ubudala kwaye ukukhula kuyenzeka phakathi kweminyaka eli-10 ukuya kweli-14 ubudala. Zikhula nje ii-intshi ezi-1 ukuya kwezi-2 ezongezelelekileyo ngonyaka okanye emibini emva kokufumana ixesha lazo lokuqala. Ngeli xesha ke bafikelela kubude babantu abadala.

Uninzi lwamantombazana lufikelela kubude obudala babo nge-14 okanye kwi-15. Eli xesha linokuba lincinci kuxhomekeke ekubeni intombazana iqala nini ukuya exesheni.

Unokufuna ukunxibelelana nogqirha womntwana wakho ukuba intombi yakho ine-15 kwaye ayikaqali ukuya exesheni.

Luphi unxibelelwano phakathi kokufikisa kunye nokukhula kwebele?

Ukukhula kwebele kudla ngokuba luphawu lokuqala lokufikisa. Amabele aqala ukukhula kwiminyaka emi-2 ukuya kwe-2/2 ngaphambi kokuba intombazana ifike exesheni.

Amanye amantombazana anokuqaphela amahlumela amabele kuphela ngonyaka emva kwexesha lokuqala. Abanye abanakuqala ukukhula amabele kangangeminyaka emithathu ukuya kwemine emva kokuya exesheni.

Amathupha anokungabonakali ngaxeshanye, kodwa ahlala evela kwiinyanga ezintandathu omnye komnye.

I-Q & A: Ukukhula kwebele

Q:

Amabele ayeke nini ukukhula?

Isigulana esingaziwayo

A:

Amabele ayayeka ukukhula xa ukufikisa kugqityiwe, malunga nonyaka ukuya kwiminyaka emibini emva kokuba intombazana iye exesheni lokuqala. Nangona kunjalo, akuqhelekanga ukuba amabele aqhubeke nokukhula kancinci kwaye atshintshe imilo okanye ujikeleze ukuya kuthi ga kubudala be-18. Kuqhelekile ukuba ube nebele elinye elilingana nelinye.

UKaren Gill, iimpendulo ze-MDA zimele uluvo lweengcali zethu zonyango. Yonke imixholo inolwazi ngokungqongqo kwaye akufuneki ukuba ithathelwe ingqalelo njengengcebiso yezonyango.

Ngaba amantombazana akhula ngesantya esahlukileyo kunamakhwenkwe?

Ukufikisa kubetha amakhwenkwe emva kwexesha kunokuba kunjalo kumantombazana.

Ngokubanzi, amakhwenkwe aqala ukufikisa phakathi kweminyaka eli-10 ukuya kweli-13 ubudala kwaye anamava okukhula phakathi kweminyaka eli-12 ukuya kweli-15 ubudala. Oku kuthetha ukuba ukukhula kwabo okukhulu kwenzeka malunga neminyaka emibini emva kokuba kunjalo ngamantombazana.

Uninzi lwamakhwenkwe ayayeka ukuphakama ngeminyaka eli-16, kodwa izihlunu zawo zinokuqhubeka nokukhula.

Yintoni ukuphakama okuphakathi kwamantombazana?

Ngokwentsingiselo, kuthetha, okanye umndilili, ubude obuhlengahlengisiweyo beminyaka yabasetyhini abadala abaneminyaka engama-20 ubudala nangaphezulu zii-intshi ezingama-63.7. Oko kungaphantsi kwe-5 yeenyawo i-intshi ye-4.

Ukuphakama ngokweminyaka

Kwiminyaka eyi-8 ubudala, ukuqala kokuqala kokufikisa, isiqingatha sawo onke amantombazana aseMelika aya kuba phantsi kwe-50.2 ye-intshi (127.5 cm) ubude. Oku kuthetha ukuba ukukhula okuninzi kwenzeka ngexesha elifutshane.

Olu lwazi lulandelayo luvela kwitshathi evela ku-2000:

Ubudala (iminyaka)	Ukuphakama kwama-50 epesenti yamantombazana (intshi kunye neesentimitha)
8	50.2 kwi. (127.5 cm)
9	52.4 kwi. (133 cm)
10	54.3 kwi. (138 cm)
11	56.7 kwi. (144 cm)
12	59.4 ngaphakathi. (151 cm)
13	61.8 kwi. (157 cm)
14	63.2 ngaphakathi. (160.5 cm)
15	I-63.8 in. (162 cm)
16	I-64 in. (162.5 cm)
17	I-64 in. (163 cm)
18	I-64 in. (163 cm)

Yeyiphi indima edlalwa yimfuzo kubude?

Ukuphakama kwakho kunento yokwenza nokuba bade kangakanani okanye bancinci kangakanani abazali bakho. Iipateni zokukhula zihlala zibaleka kwiintsapho.

Xa bejonga ukukhula kwabantwana, oogqirha babantwana bahlala bebuza abazali malunga nokuphakama kwabo, imbali yokuphakama kosapho, kunye neepatheni zokukhula.

Kukho iindlela ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo zokuqikelela ukuba intombazana ingakhula inde kangakanani. Enye yezi ndlela ibizwa ngokuba ngumzali ophakathi.

Sebenzisa le ndlela, yongeza ukuphakama ngeesentimitha zikamama notata, emva koko wahlulahlule ngo-2. Emva koko, thabatha ii-2 1/2 intshi ukusuka kuloo nombolo. Ukumisela ubude obuqikelelweyo benkwenkwe, ungongeza ii-2 1/2 yee-intshi kwinani.

Umzekelo, ukuba intombazana inoyise onee-intshi ezingama-72 ubude kunye nomama onee-intshi ezingama-66 ubude, ukuphakama okuqikelelweyo kwentombazana kuya kufunyanwa ngezi zibalo zilandelayo:

1. 72 + 66 = 138
2. 138 / 2 = 69
3. 69 – 2.5 = 66.5

Ke ukuphakama okuqikelelweyo kwentombazana zii-intshi ze-66.5 okanye i-5 yeenyawo i-intshi ye-6.5.

Eli nani liqikelelo olubi, nangona kunjalo. Unokubona umda wempazamo ukuya kwii-intshi ezi-4 kwicala ngalinye.

Ngokubanzi, abazali abade kubo, mde umntwana uya kuba, kwaye ngokuchaseneyo.

Yintoni ebangela ukulibaziseka kokukhula?

Zininzi izinto ezichaphazela ukukhula, ukusukela kukungondleki ukuya kumayeza.

Amanye amantombazana angabona ukulibaziseka ekukhuleni ngenxa yeemeko ezithile zempilo, ezinje ngemiba yokukhula kwehomoni, isifo samathambo esomeleleyo, okanye umhlaza.

Iimeko zemfuza zidlala indima nazo. Umzekelo, amantombazana ane-Down syndrome, i-Noonan syndrome, okanye i-Turner syndrome inokuba mifutshane kunamalungu osapho.

Amantombazana ane-Marfan's syndrome anokukhula mde kunamalungu osapho.

Ukuba unenkxalabo malunga nokukhula komntwana wakho, nxibelelana nodokotela wabantwana. Nje ukuba intombazana ifikelele kwinqanaba lokufikisa, ukukhula kuya kuyeka iminyaka embalwa emva kwexesha lokuqala. Umntu okwishumi elivisayo olibazise ukukhula uza kuba nexesha elincinci lokukhula ngaphambi kokuphela kwexesha lakhe.

Yintoni i-takeaway?

Amantombazana anokufumana iinyawo okanye ngaphezulu ukuphakama ukusuka ebuntwaneni ukuya ebusheni. Ukulala ngokwaneleyo, ukutya ukutya okunezondlo, nokuzilolonga rhoqo yonke imikhwa elungileyo enokubanceda bakhule ngendlela esempilweni.

Ukuba unenkxalabo malunga nendlela yokukhula komntwana wakho, qhagamshelana nogqirha wabo kungekudala kunokuba kamva.

Ugqirha wabo uya kubuza malunga nembali yokukhula kosapho lwakho. Baza kumvavanya umntwana wakho kwaye bajonge ngononophelo ekukhuleni komntwana wakho.

Ngamanye amaxesha, ugqirha wabo unokusebenzisa iimvavanyo ezinje ngeX-reyi okanye uvavanyo lwegazi ukubanceda baqonde unobangela wokulibaziseka kokukhula.