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Ngexesha nasemva kokukhulelwa kwakhe nonyana wakhe uSonny, uWhitney Port wabelana ngokulungileyo nokubi kokuba ngumama omtsha. Kuluhlu lwe-YouTube olunesihloko esithi "Ndiyaluthanda usana lwam, kodwa ..." wabhala amava akhe ngezinto ezinjengeentlungu, ukudumba, kunye nokuncancisa.

Ngoku, iPort iphinde yanika umbono othembekileyo malunga nokukhulelwa, ngeli xesha malunga nokukhulelwa kwesisu. Kwisiqendu esitsha se-podcast yakhe noWhit, yena nomyeni wakhe, uTim Rosenman, bathethe ngokukhulelwa kwesibini kwePort, okuphele ngokuphuphuma kwesisu kwiiveki ezimbini ezidlulileyo. (Idibeneyo: Umfazi okhulelweyo uShay Mitchell ukhumbula ngenyameko ukuba 'ubethwe ngamehlo' kukungahambisi umtshato ngokwesondo kwiiveki ezili-14)

Ekuqaleni kwesi siqendu, uPort uveze ukuba ebengaqinisekanga ngokuba nomntwana wesibini ngaphambi kokuba akhulelwe. “Ngokwenyani into eyenzekileyo ndiyekile ukuthatha ulawulo lwam lokuzalwa,” ucacise watsho kwipodcast. "Ndicinga ukuba into endifuna ukuyenza yayikukuba sikhulelwe ngaphandle kwengxoxo kwaye ngaphandle kokuzama, ukuba sibe ngaphandle kolawulo lwam."

Wathi akufumanisa ukuba ukhulelwe, akazange abe nesimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo. “Ndaziva ndinoloyiko ngenxa yazo zonke izinto endizincamayo nezinto endandiza kuphinda ndidlule kuzo ukuze ndibe nalo mntwana ndibe ngumama,” utshilo. "Kodwa bendisoyika nokuvuma nje ukuba bendisoyika ukuba nomntwana. Ndaziva ndineentloni kakhulu kwaye ndinetyala lokuba ndiziva ngalendlela, kwaye ke ezi zigaba zeentloni kunye nokuba netyala kwenza kube nzima nokuthetha."

Kwiiveki ezintandathu ekhulelwe, uPort waqaphela ukuba uyabona. Emva koko waya esibhedlele ukuze enze iimvavanyo kwaye wafumanisa ukuba ukukhulelwa kwakhe kwakungasekho. Emva kokuxoxa ngokukhetha kwakhe nogqirha wakhe, wakhetha inkqubo yokunyanga kunye nokunyanga (i-D & C), utshilo. ICYDK, inkqubo ye-D & C ihlala isenziwa emva kokuphuma kwesisu ukususa umbungu kunye nezinye izicwili, ngokweJohns Hopkins Medicine. (Eyeleleneyo: UHannah Bronfman Wabelane ngeBali lakhe lokuPhuma kwesibeleko kwiVlog eNtu)

Xa uPort wayethetha ngokujonga kwakhe ukuphunyelwa sisisu ngoku, wakrwitshwa njengoko wayeveza ukuba uziva exubekile kwiimvakalelo. Andikwazi ukuthi ndiziva ndonwabile, utshilo. "Ndiziva ndibuhlungu ngoba yonke le nto iyabuhlungu. Ndiziva ndibuhlungu, kodwa ndiziva ndonwabile ukuba umzimba wam usengowam ngoku kwaye ayisiyonto eyongezelelweyo ekufuneka siyicwangcisile le."

Kuyo yonke i-podcast, iPort ivakalise ukuthandabuza malunga nokuvula, esoyika ukuba abantu baya kumhlazisa ngokungabi lusizi ngeepesenti ze-100 zokukhulelwa kwakhe. Kodwa uthe ufuna ukubonisa abanye abantu basetyhini ukuba nantoni na abayivayo emva kokuphunyelwa sisisu kulungile: “Ndiziva ngathi kuthi ekupheleni kosuku kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba le ncoko ibekho ngonaphakade ukuze abantu bamamele. ukuze bazive beqinisekisiwe. "

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