Isini sedysphoria

Isini sedysphoria ligama lokuziva ungonwabanga kunye noxinzelelo olunokuthi lwenzeke xa isini sakho sebhayiloji singafani nesini sakho. Kwixesha elidlulileyo, oku kwakubizwa ngokuba sisazisi. Umzekelo, unokwabelwa ekuzalweni njengebhinqa, kodwa uziva ungaphakathi ngaphakathi ekubeni yindoda. Abanye abantu, le mpazamo inokubangela ukungonwabi okukhulu, uxinzelelo, uxinzelelo kunye nezinye iimeko zempilo yengqondo.

Isazisi sesini yindlela oziva ngayo kunye nokuchonga, inokuba njengowasetyhini, oyindoda, okanye zombini. Isini sinikezelwa ekuzalweni, ngokusekwe emntwaneni onenkangeleko yangaphandle (amalungu omzimba) eyindoda okanye eyasetyhini ngokwakhiwa koluntu kwenkqubo yokubini yesini (indoda okanye ibhinqa).

Ukuba ubuni bakho besini buhambelana nesini owabelwe wena ekuzalweni, oku kubizwa ngokuba yi-cisgender. Umzekelo, ukuba wazalwa ngokwendalo njengendoda, kwaye uchonga ukuba uyindoda, uyindoda ene-cisgender.

I-Transgender ibhekisa ekuchongeni njengesini esahlukileyo kwisini sebhayoloji esabelwe ukuzalwa. Umzekelo, ukuba wazalwa ngumfazi ngokwendalo kwaye wabelwa isini sabasetyhini, kodwa uziva unzulu ngaphakathi ukuba yindoda, uyindoda eguqukayo.

Abanye abantu baveza isini sabo ngeendlela ezingahambelaniyo nemilinganiselo yesiko lokuziphatha ngokwesini okanye ngokwesini. Oku kubizwa ngokungafaniyo nesini, ukungahambelani ngokwesini, isini, okanye ukwanda kwesini. Ngokubanzi, uninzi lwabantu be-transgender aluchongi njengelingelilo elambini.

Kubalulekile ukukhankanya ukuba abantu abanxungupheleyo banokuziva ngenxa yokuba nomzimba wesini esingalunganga uxinezelekile. Ngenxa yoko, abahlali be-transgender banenqanaba eliphezulu leengxaki zempilo yengqondo kunye nomngcipheko wokuzama ukuzibulala.

Akukho mntu wazi kakuhle ukuba yintoni ebangela idysphoria yesini. Ezinye iingcali zikholelwa ekubeni iihomoni ezisesibelekweni, zemfuza, kunye nenkcubeko kunye nemeko yendawo inokuba nenxaxheba.

Abantwana kunye nabantu abadala banokuba namava edysphoria yesini. Iimpawu ziyahluka, kuxhomekeka kubudala bomntu, kodwa uninzi lwabantu lufuna ukuhlala ngendlela ehambelana nobuni babo. Njengomntu okhulileyo, kusenokwenzeka ukuba wawukhe waziva usemncinci.

Abantwana banga:

• Gxininisa ekubeni sesinye isini
• Ndifuna ngamandla ukuba ibe sesinye isini
• Ufuna ukunxiba iimpahla ezisetyenziswa kwesinye isini kwaye uxhathise ukunxiba iimpahla ezinxulumene nesini sabo sebhayoloji
• Ukhetha ukwenza iindima eziqhelekileyo zesini esithile kumdlalo okanye kumnandi
• Khetha iithoyi kunye nezinto ezenziwa ngokufanayo ngokwesini
• Ndithanda kakhulu ukudlala nabantwana besinye isini
• Zive ungazithandi izitho zabo zangasese
• Ufuna ukuba neempawu zomnye umntu wesini

Abantu abadala banga:

• Ndifuna ngamandla ukuba sibe sesinye isini (okanye isini esahlukileyo kweso babelwe sona ekuzalweni)
• Ufuna ukuba neempawu zomzimba kunye nezesini sesinye isini
• Ufuna ukulahla ezabo izitho zangasese
• Ufuna ukuphathwa njengesinye isini
• Ufuna ukubhekiswa njengesinye isini (izimelabizo)
• Ukuziva unamandla kwaye usabele ngeendlela ezinxulumene nesinye isini

Intlungu yeemvakalelo kunye noxinzelelo lwe-dysphoria yesini kunokuphazamisa isikolo, umsebenzi, impilo yasekuhlaleni, inkolo, okanye ezinye iindawo zobomi. Abantu abane-dysphoria yesini banokuba nexhala, badakumbe, kwaye kwiimeko ezininzi, bade bazibulale.

Kubaluleke kakhulu kubantu abane-dysphoria yesini ukuba bafumane inkxaso yengqondo kunye nentlalo kunye nokuqonda kwiingcali zonyango. Xa ukhetha umboneleli wezempilo, jonga abantu abaqeqeshelwe ukufumanisa kwaye basebenze nabantu abane-dysphoria yesini.

Ukwenza uxilongo, umboneleli wakho uya kuthatha imbali yakho yezonyango kwaye, kwezinye iimeko, enze uvavanyo olupheleleyo lwengqondo. Isini sedysphoria sifunyaniswa ukuba uneempawu ezimbini okanye ngaphezulu kangangeenyanga ezi-6.

Injongo ephambili yonyango kukukunceda unqobe uxinzelelo onokuziva. Unokukhetha inqanaba lonyango olukunceda ukuba uzive ukhululekile. Oku kunokubandakanya ukunceda ukuba utshintshele kwisini osichonga.

Unyango lwe-dysphoria yesini lubodwa, kwaye inokubandakanya:

• Ukucebisa ukukunceda uqonde iimvakalelo zakho kunye nokubonelela ngenkxaso kunye nezakhono zokujamelana nazo
• Isibini okanye iingcebiso kusapho ukunceda ukunciphisa ukungavisisani, ukudala ukuqonda, kunye nokubonelela ngendawo yokuxhasa
• Isini unyango lokuqinisekisa unyango lwehomoni (kwixa elidlulileyo elibizwa ngokuba lonyango endaweni yonyango)
• Utyando oluqinisekisa isini (kwixa elidlulileyo elibizwa ngokuba kukuhlinzwa kwakhona)

Ayingabo bonke abantu be-transgender abafuna zonke iintlobo zonyango. Banokukhetha unyango olunye okanye nangaphezulu.

Phambi kokwenza isigqibo malunga notyando, kunokwenzeka ukuba uqale ube nokunyanga i-hormone eqinisekisa isini kwaye uphile njengesini sakho osikhethileyo ubuncinci unyaka omnye. Zimbini iintlobo eziphambili zotyando: enye ichaphazela ukuzala, enye ayichaphazeli. Asinguye wonke umntu okhetha ukwenza utyando, okanye banokukhetha uhlobo olunye kuphela lotyando.

Uxinzelelo kwezentlalo nakusapho kunye nokusilela kokwamkelwa kunokubangela uxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo kunye neminye imiba yezempilo yengqondo. Kungenxa yoko le nto kubalulekile ukuba ufumane iingcebiso kunye nenkxaso ngalo lonke ixesha nasemva kotshintsho lwakho. Kukwabalulekile ukuba nenkxaso yeemvakalelo evela kwabanye abantu, efana neqela lenkxaso okanye kubahlobo abasondeleyo nosapho.

Ukuqonda nokunyanga idysphoria yesini kwangoko kunokunciphisa amathuba oxinzelelo, uxinzelelo lweemvakalelo kunye nokuzibulala. Ukuba kwimeko yenkxaso, ukukhululeka ukubonisa ubuni bakho besini ngendlela ekwenza ukhululeke, kwaye uqonde ukhetho lwakho kunyango kunokunceda ekunciphiseni uxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo.

Unyango olwahlukeneyo lunokunciphisa iimpawu zedysphoria yesini. Nangona kunjalo, iimpendulo ezivela kwabanye kutshintsho lomntu kubandakanya ubunzima bezentlalo kunye nezomthetho ngexesha lenkqubo yokutshintsha zinokuqhubeka nokwenza iingxaki ngomsebenzi, usapho, inkolo, kunye nobomi boluntu. Ukuba nenethiwekhi yenkxaso yobuqu eyomeleleyo kunye nokukhetha ababoneleli abanobungcali kwimpilo ye-transgender iphucula kakhulu umbono wabantu abane-dysphoria yesini.

Yenza idinga nomnikezeli onobuchule kunyango lwe-transgender ukuba wena okanye umntwana wakho uneempawu zesifo sedysphoria.

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