Funda ngendlela yokuphila nesifo esinganyangekiyo

Umxholo

• 1. Jongana nengxaki kwaye usazi isifo
• 2. Fumana ibhalansi kunye nokuba sempilweni
• 3. Phinda ulawule ubomi bakho

Isifo esinganyangekiyo, esikwabizwa ngokuba sisifo esinganyangekiyo, sinokubonakala ngokungalindelekanga, sinokuba nefuthe elibi kwaye elinamandla ebomini bomntu.

Akululanga ukuhlala kunye nemfuno yokuthatha amayeza yonke imihla okanye ngesidingo sokufuna uncedo ekwenzeni imisebenzi yemihla ngemihla, kodwa ukuze uphile ngcono nesi sifo kukho izimo ezithile zomzimba nezengqondo ezinokuba luncedo olukhulu. Ke, ezinye iingcebiso ezinokukunceda uphile ngcono nesi sifo kunokuba:

1. Jongana nengxaki kwaye usazi isifo

Ukuziqhela kwesi sifo nokujongana nengxaki kunokuba linyathelo lokuqala ekufundeni ukuhlala nesi sifo. Sihlala sisihoya esi sifo kunye neziphumo zaso, nangona kunjalo sihlehlisa nje okungaphephekiyo kwaye siphele sisenza uxinzelelo kunye nokubandezeleka ekuhambeni kwexesha.

Ke ngoko, ukulumka malunga nokwenzekayo, ukuphanda esi sifo ngocoselelo nokujonga ukuba loluphi unyango olufumanekayo kunokwenza umahluko, kunceda ukujongana nengxaki. Ukongeza, enye indlela kukunxibelelana nabanye abantu abanesi sifo, kuba ubungqina babo bunokukhanyisa, buthuthuzele kwaye bube luncedo.

Ukuqokelelwa kolwazi malunga nesi sifo, nokuba kungeencwadi, i-intanethi okanye iingcali, yinxalenye ebalulekileyo yenkqubo yokwamkelwa, kuba iyanceda ukuqonda, ukuqonda nokwamkela isifo. Khumbula kwaye wamkele ukuba ubomi bakho butshintshile, kodwa akukapheli.

2. Fumana ibhalansi kunye nokuba sempilweni

Ukufumana ibhalansi kubalulekile emva kokwamkela esi sifo, kuba nangona esi sifo sinokubeka esichengeni indlela ophila ngayo kunye namandla akho emzimbeni, kufuneka ukhumbule ukuba amandla akho engqondo nawemvakalelo awachaphazelekanga. Umzekelo, usenokungakwazi ukuhambisa ingalo, kodwa usakwazi ukucinga, ukuhlela, ukumamela, ukukhathazeka, ukuncuma nokuba ngabahlobo.

Ukongeza, kuyafuneka ukudibanisa ngendlela elungeleleneyo lonke utshintsho kwindlela yakho yokuphila olunokuthi luziswe sesi sifo, njengamayeza, ukhathalelo lwemihla ngemihla okanye unyango lomzimba, umzekelo. Nangona ukugula kunokutshintsha iimeko ezininzi ebomini, akufuneki kulawule ubomi bakho, iingcinga kunye neemvakalelo. Ngale ndlela kuphela kwaye ngale ngcinga, uya kuthi ukwazi ukufumana ibhalansi elungileyo, eya kuthi incede ukuhlala ngendlela esempilweni nesi sifo.

3. Phinda ulawule ubomi bakho

Emva kokujongana nengxaki kunye nokufumana ulungelelwaniso ebomini bakho, lixesha lokuba uphinde uphinde ulawule. Qala ngokufumanisa ukuba yintoni ongasakwaziyo ukuyenza, kwaye uthathe izigqibo: nokuba ungayenza kwaye kufuneka uyenze okanye uyafuna ukuqhubeka ukuyenza, nokuba oko kuthetha ukuyenza ngokwahlukileyo. Umzekelo, ukuba uyekile ukuhambisa ingalo enye kwaye awusakwazi ukubopha imitya, ungakhetha ukuyeka ukunxiba izihlangu okanye izihlangu ezinemitya yentambo, ungakhetha ukucela uncedo kumntu olwenza endaweni yakho, okanye ungakhetha funda indlela yokubopha imitya yesandla ngesandla esinye kuphela. Ke kuya kufuneka usete njalo (efanelekileyo) iinjongo, ocinga ukuba ungazifezekisa, nokuba kungathatha ixesha kwaye kufuna ukuzinikezela. Oku kuyakunika imvo yokufezekisa kwaye kuncede ukubuyisela ukuzithemba.

Ke, kubalulekile ukuba ungaphili kuphela nesi sifo, kodwa ukubheja kwimisebenzi onokuyenza kwaye ikonwabise, njengokumamela umculo, ukufunda incwadi, ukuthatha ibhafu yokuphumla, ukubhala iileta okanye imibongo, ukupeyinta, ukudlala isixhobo somculo, thetha nomhlobo olungileyo, phakathi kwabanye.Le misebenzi inceda umzimba kunye nengqondo, njengoko ikhuthaza amaxesha okuphumla kunye nolonwabo, anceda ukuhlala ngcono kunye nokunciphisa uxinzelelo. Ukongeza, khumbula ukuba abahlobo kunye nosapho bahlala bengabaphulaphuli abalungileyo, onokuthetha nabo ngeengxaki zakho, uloyiko, ulindelo kunye nokungazithembi, kodwa khumbula ukuba utyelelo asikokuthetha nje ngesifo, ke ngoko kubalulekile ukuba ubeke umda wexesha Ukuthetha ngayo.

Ukufunda indlela yokuphila nesi sifo yinkqubo ebuthathaka kwaye echitha ixesha efuna umgudu omkhulu kunye nokuzinikezela. Nangona kunjalo, into ebalulekileyo kukuba ungaze ulahle ithemba kwaye ukholelwe ukuba ekuhambeni kwexesha, ukuphuculwa kuya kubonakala kwaye ngomso akusayi kuba nzima njenganamhlanje.