Le Ntengiso 'Yonke' iyakwenza ukuba uzidle ngokudlala #LikeAGirl

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Ukufikisa yinto encinci yesiqwengana kubantu abaninzi (hi, inqanaba elinzima). Kodwa uphando olutsha luhlala lufumanise ukuba lunefuthe elothusayo kwimisebenzi yasemva kwesikolo. Ngexesha amantombazana agqiba ukufikisa kwaye afika kwiminyaka eyi-17, isiqingatha sabo sele betshintshise i-basketballs ngeebras, kwaye bayeka ukudlala imidlalo.

Um ... kutheni? Ayifani namaxesha kunye nokudlala imidlalo yodwa. Ukukhula kwe-boobs akuthethi ukuba wenze kakubi xa ulahla ibhola ethambileyo, kwaye ukopha kanye ngenyanga akukwenzi ukuba ungabinakho ukuphakamisa iintsimbi. Esona sizathu sokuba amantombazana akwishumi elivisayo ayeke ezemidlalo akananto yakwenza nawo amandla omzimba, kodwa yonke into enokuyenza kukuqonda. Amantombazana asixhenxe kwali-10 avakalelwa kukuba awahambi kwezemidlalo, yaye ama-67 ekhulwini avakalelwa kukuba uluntu alubakhuthazi ukuba badlale imidlalo, ngokutsho kweyona mvanje Soloko uzithemba kunye noPhando lokufikisa.

Khawufane ucinge ngawo onke amaqela obuchwephesha besilisa (kunye non-professional!) Amaqela afumana ingqalelo, nawo onke amaqela ezemidlalo ababhinqileyo abadumisa kwaye bahlawule ngokungathethekiyo xa kuthelekiswa nalawo amadoda angamadoda. (Yiyo loo nto iqela lebhola ekhatywayo labasetyhini laseMelika lithethile malunga nomvuzo ongalinganiyo emva kokuphumelela indebe yehlabathi ngo-2015.) Cinga ngazo zonke izinto uluntu oluthi amantombazana akufuneki azenze okanye abe-muscular, bulky, rough, ndlongondlongo, njl. edla ngokunxulunyaniswa nokuba yimbaleki. (BTW, sicinga ukuba zonke ezo zinto ziyamangalisa-jonga nje umkhankaso wethu we #LoveMyShape.)

Ukubaluleka kokugcina amantombazana aselula kwimidlalo-kwaye ebabonisa ukuba abafazi banendawo phakathi kweembaleki zamadoda-uhamba ngaphaya kwamazinga okugcinwa kumaqela ezemidlalo aphakamileyo. Ukuba ubuthathe inxaxheba kwezemidlalo ekukhuleni, uyazi ukuba ingangumbindi ongakanani ekukhuleni kwakho njengomntu; Uphononongo lwedatha yabathengi yase-US e-2015 ifumanise ukuba abantu ababhinqileyo abaneminyaka eyi-18 ukuya kuma-24 baphindwe kabini ukuzithemba ukuba badlala imidlalo rhoqo kunabo bangadlaliyo, ngokukaSoloko.

Yiyo loo nto Bahlala beqala iphulo labo #LikeAGirl-ukukhuthaza amantombazana ukuba aqhubeke nokudlala imidlalo, ngaphandle kwento nabani na malunga nento amele ukuyenza amele ayenze amantombazana.

"Lithuba lokunika amantombazana umbono omtsha, atshintshe incoko kwaye ubonise ukuba ewe, amantombazana ayindawo kwezemidlalo," utshilo uGqirha Jen Welter, umqeqeshi wokuqala wabasetyhini kwi-NFL kunye nommeli we-Always '#LikeAGirl campaign.

"Ukudlala imidlalo kundifundise izifundo ezininzi zobomi ebaleni nakubomi. Ngokudlala nje imidlalo, ufunda okuninzi malunga nokuba ngumsebenzi onzima onokukwenza njengomntu. Ufunda ukuthatha ubunini" bento oyibekayo, yile nto uphuma nayo, utshilo. "Ukujonga izinto ozenzileyo ngendlela ebonakalayo yindlela elungileyo yokwakha ukuzithemba. Kwaye ayithethi ngobume bokhuphiswano, imalunga nendlela amantombazana anokuzibona njengabakhulu ngokuthatha inxaxheba. "

Kwaye oku kudlula ngaphaya kweminyaka eli-15 ubudala abavakalelwa kukuba bafuna ukuyeka i-lacrosse ukuze babe "yintombazana ngokwaneleyo." Abafazi abadala, nabo, bangathatha inkuthazo kweli phulo ukoyisa amashishini oqeqesho alawulwa ngamadoda, ezemidlalo, kunye nemikhwa yokomelela komzimba, #LikeAGirl. Ngenxa yokuba kwihlabathi lethu, "njengentombazana" ngokusisiseko iguqulela "njenge-boss freaking." (Funda indlela omnye umfazi awawonga ngayo umzimba wakhe owomeleleyo, nogobileyo xa waba lipolisa elibhinqileyo.)

Kodwa ngokukuko, ukuxabiseka kwabantu ngabanye ngaphakathi nangaphandle ebaleni ngekhe kuchazwe ngokwesini, kodwa ngokwamandla.

Ukusuka kumntu oye wazibonela ngokwakhe: "Inombolo yokuqala yomyalezo endayifumana xa ndandisiya kwi-NFL yayiyi-100% eyiyo," utshilo uWelter. "Ayisiyo eyokuba ngubani omnye okolu shishino, yile nto uyizisa kuyo. Ukuba sithi nxamnye nabo, wonke umntu uyaphulukana. Injongo kukuba ulungile-nakuwe, kwaye uzise ilizwi elahluke kancinci kwingxoxo. "

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