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• Ukufumana incwadi enemibala efanelekileyo
• Umahluko phakathi koMbala njengoMntwana xa uthelekiswa nomntu omdala
• Ngaba Yayifanele I-Hype?
• Uphengululo lwe

Kutshanje, emva kosuku olunzima emsebenzini, umhlobo wam ucebise ukuba ndithathe incwadi enemibala xa ndibuya emsebenzini. Ndikhawuleze ndachwetheza 'haha' kwiGchat iwindow ... kuphela kwiiGoogle 'Imibala yeencwadi zaBadala' kwaye ndafumana uninzi lweziphumo ezininzi. (Inzululwazi ithi ukuzonwabisa kunokunciphisa uxinzelelo kunye nokuzilolonga, i-FYI.)

Kuyinyani ukuba umbala odlulileyo kwiminyaka esibhozo ngokuqinisekileyo unomzuzwana-kwaye ngesizathu esihle. Imibala ibonwa njengokunyanga, umsebenzi wonyango kubantu abadala, nokuba unikwe udumo ngokunceda abaguli abanomhlaza ukuba bafumane isifo kwaye baphilise, ngokokutsho kolunye upapasho olupapashwe kwiphephancwadi. Ingqondo. Kodwa naphantsi kweemeko ezimanyumnyezi-yithi, umbala wesikolo ophumelele isidanga unokunceda ukunciphisa uxinzelelo, kukunceda uphumle, kwaye ukhuthaze nobuchule. Njengomntu owenza umsebenzi osisigxina ngomsebenzi oxakekileyo osebenza yedwa, impilo yasekuhlaleni, ishedyuli yokuzilolonga, kunye nenja, ndihlala ndikudinga kakhulu i-zen.

Umntu wam oneminyaka emithandathu ubudala wayezithanda iincwadi zokufaka imibala, kwaye bendinokuhlala iiyure ezininzi nebhokisi yeekhrayoni kunye nemifanekiso ethile. Ke ndiye ndacinga ukuba kutheni ndingaphindi ndiyiphose esikolweni kwaye ndiyidubule? Ngokuqinisekileyo, bekuvakala kungaqhelekanga ukuthenga iikhrayoni, ukuhlala phantsi esofeni, kwaye ngenene umbala kumfanekiso, kodwa bendinomdla wokubona ukuba kuya kwenza umahluko kwinqanaba lam loxinzelelo kunye nolonwabo lulonke.

Ukufumana incwadi enemibala efanelekileyo

Zininzi ke, zininzi kangaka iincwadi zokufaka imibala kubantu abadala-ngubani owaziyo?! Ukusuka kwi-mandalas (okanye iisimboli) ezikhuthaza iipateni ezimibalabala kwiincwadi ezinemiboniso efana nokubonayo kubuntwana bakho kwiincwadi ezinemibala, kukho into wonke umntu afaka imibala. Ndizamile iincwadi ezimbalwa zokubala: I-Coloring Dream Mandalas, Colour Me Happy, kwaye Yiyeke! Ukufaka imibala kunye neMisebenzi yokuVusa ingqondo yakho kunye nokunciphisa uxinzelelo lweNcwadi yeMibala yabantu abadala. Ngelixa ngamnye wayenezinto zakhe-i-mandalas yayingenangqondo ngokumangalisayo (ukutshintsha nje imibala ukwenza umfanekiso onjenge-kaleidoscope) kunye nencwadi yokunciphisa uxinzelelo yayilula kakhulu-eyona nto ndandiyithanda kakhulu nguMbala Wonwabile. Yayiyinto eqhelekileyo, kunye nemifanekiso yamakhaya abukekayo, ukutya, uhambo, kunye nabantu onokukhetha kubo. Ndiyithandile indlela ababhali abafake imibala kumaphepha ambalwa ukukhuthaza, kodwa abanye bashiyeke bengenanto ukuze i-colorer igcwalise ngokwabo ubuchule kunye nezikimu zemibala. Nje ukuba ndihlale kwincwadi yemibala efanelekileyo, ndibeka isikhumbuzi sekhalenda kuGoogle ukuze ndizikhumbuze ukuba ndiphumle.

Umahluko phakathi koMbala njengoMntwana xa uthelekiswa nomntu omdala

Emva komsebenzi, ndihlala ndibamba iklasi yomdlalo wamanqindi, ndihambise intshontsho ngenyawo, ndihlambe kwaye emva koko (ekugqibeleni!) Hlala phantsi isidlo sangokuhlwa. Ngeli xesha, ndihlala ndikulungele ukuvula i-Netflix kwaye ndiphola (ngokwam, enkosi kakhulu). Nangona kunjalo, andikhe ndikhululeke xa ndibukele ukubukela umabonwakude-ndiziva ngathi ndifuna ukwenza into. Ke ngobusuku bangoLwesibini, ndizisonge ebhedini yam ngeti eshushu kwaye lo mntwana uhlafuna into yakhe yokudlala ecaleni kwam wakhupha incwadi yam entsha enombala kunye neekhrayoni zam ezintle (ubusazi ukuba zirhoxisa ngoku?) , Ukubhabha incwadi yam yemibala de umfanekiso wabonisa umdla wam.

Ndifumene ubumnandi obunezindlu ezimbalwa kunye neenduli ezinkulu. Ngaphezulu kwamakhaya kwakukho ishumi elinesibini okanye iinkwenkwezi, yaye oko kwandikhumbuza ngokukhulela eNorth Carolina, apho isibhakabhaka sasibonakala siqhubeka ngonaphakade, singaphazanyiswa zezakhiwo endizibona ngoku eNew York. Kwakukho into enoxolo malunga nomfanekiso owandikhumbuza ukuba sekhaya kunye nosapho lwam kunye nabo ndibathandayo kakhulu, ngoko ke ndawukhetha kwiqela.

Ndiqale ukufaka umbala esibhakabhakeni kuba bekuya kuba lula-kwaye kwisithuba semizuzu eli-10, bendisemqolo. Ndisemncinci, bendinexhala kakhulu ngokuhlala ngaphakathi kwimigca kwaye ndilahle ifoto ukuba ayigqibelelanga ngokupheleleyo. Kwiminyaka engamashumi amabini kamva, imigangatho yam ayikho phezulu. Ukuba ndenze impazamo-endiyenzileyo, amaxesha amaninzi-ndangena kwimowudi yokusombulula ingxaki ndayenza inxalenye yefoto, into endingazange ndiyithathele ingqalelo njengomntwana.

Ngaba Yayifanele I-Hype?

Ndigqibele ngombala ndadlula ngexesha lam lokulala ukugqiba ifoto, kwaye, ngokunyaniseka, khange ndijonge kwi-iPhone yam ukubona ukuba ngubani ixesha. Khange ndijonge iiapps zam, andiphendulanga imiyalezo, kwaye andikhange ndihoye imvelaphi yeTV. Ndade ndondlula ebhedini ndalala, ndabiwa bubuthongo ndalala. Xa ndingena emsebenzini ngosuku olulandelayo, ndingene sele ndikulungele ukusebenza: Ndihlele amanqaku, ndawabhala ambalwa, ndawabela amanye ndawenza nge-inbox yam phambi kwentsimbi yokuqala. Ndaziva ndiphefumlelwe kwaye ndiyila kwaye ndinengxaki encinci kunangaphambili. Ukuphela kokuwa kombala: iicramps endizifumene esandleni sam ekugcwaliseni imibala.

Ngaphezulu kwale veki ilandelayo, xa ndazifumana ndingakwazi ukulala ebusuku okanye xa ndisebenza kwiprojekthi enkulu emsebenzini kwaye ndifuna ukukhuthazwa, ndakhupha incwadi yam yokufaka imibala ndaza ndaqala ukwenza i-doodle de kwacofa into. Ngalo lonke ixesha, bendisiva ukuba uxinzelelo luphuma emagxeni am kwaye nengqondo yam yeka ukuyeka ukubaleka. Ukonwaba ngokwaneleyo, umfundi wam wasemsebenzini uvele wandinika incwadi yokufaka imibala njengesipho 'senkosi,' kwaye ndigqibe ngokuthengela umama endiza kumnika le holide. Ndaye ndathenga enye yeyomhlobo wam okhangela umsebenzi kwaye ufuna indlela yokuvumela izimvo zakhe zigeleze. Sisipho esilula kangako, kwaye bendifuna ukubanakho ukwabelana ngesi sixhobo sikhulu soxinzelelo nabantu ebomini bam endaziyo ukuba basifuna kakhulu. (Ufuna ngaphezu kwencwadi enemibala? Ezi ngcebiso zi-5 ezilula zoLawulo loxinzelelo ziyasebenza ngokwenene.)

Ngelixa ndifaka imibala, ndiyeke uluhlu lwam lokwenziwa. Ndiyeka ukucinga ngemini ezayo. Ndizivumela ukuba ndilahleke ngemibala kwaye ndilandele imigca kunye nokucinga ngaphandle kwamaphepha. Ikhefu lengqondo liluncedo-kwaye ngokunyanisekileyo, ukwenza amabali kunye nemifanekiso kunye nemifanekiso ngoku kumnandi nje ngeyona ndlela ndandilala ngayo kwigumbi lokulala ebuntwaneni.

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